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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way4 ^. g; ]; t# h* `6 }& H) \
consider in the following (not in order):
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( p, U9 Z8 W( m7 Q1 k3 \8 m1st, how close the relationship we are?; C, k) R1 F7 a3 g
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
8 s @; w0 R; o; E9 f3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
7 y! z: p0 B/ r1 M; U& r" Z" \4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.* A6 @; N& i1 D
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
3 P8 I1 G+ w3 n+ b1 K T% |but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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# K7 p) F0 Q" m; S3 qbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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