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minghkhk

我就二十歲...4 l9 v) R/ ?2 t: j* L: a
但係我發覺自己未有目標同理想.0 x8 e/ f1 u  K+ t; V
我唔想以後後悔同一事無成.. B" J( I0 f* n6 X3 d; y$ h

9 {) g# r% H% h! c" I% H我心智未成熟...7 V9 h2 n' U) d, W+ m
宜家讀書,又唔知讀乜野好,對邊樣野有興趣?講真,我自己都唔知.
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jason williams

i am one year larger than u!3 u5 B# @: S; R( l
"但係我發覺自己未有目標同理想.- {+ X9 b$ D8 D" y
我唔想以後後悔同一事無成" this is what many many hk student also have this feeling, i think hk education makes us to feel study is for entering U and then getting a good future job, but making us to ignore our interests, and this is one of the main reason why someone is successful but some are so poor, not mainly due to ability and academic reason, but is u need to have goal and motivation to achieve yr goal
, T( d. x1 r  `' O3 Ai am studying, i am also worry about my future as i know what i am studying is not very useful for my future and i know that i am not interested in it
: Z8 _8 D" A, M+ i( ^so i concluded that interest is just for after having a stable job and income for my case
2 {: {: @: y% k  S$ @! q, ?6 Xfor yr case:  @$ w6 n- W( W, z8 s
no goal at this moment is ok, dun need to enforce yrself to have one, but i think u should have yr goal, this needs to find by yrself
0 F# g2 X$ j1 Jdunno study what, right?
- ?* e0 t) E+ ?' J& F, S9 x$ ytry to study some that related to yr work or future work or u interest, because  this will make u have motivation to study, if not, that's like my case, u will feel boring on study
. X% g: A) f& j/ a: Z6 _* pinterest what then also need to find find yrself la, i think u must  have but u haven't think it very very seriously and clearly
8 j. o( z% u' Z0 x' J3 Oi also suggest u have a stable job or income b4 getting yr goal except u are living in a rich family, but if u have interest on something that can be yr future work, then u must go it,4 x. R; x( B7 a# I6 K( F) z; D
because u can save much more time, hope u can be successful in the future^^- v1 J; A; D0 S% m3 y/ T; ~+ J

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MaxFigo

我都係wo....我就快公開考試...0 a5 v5 S3 i1 X* x( ^% I
但就係唔太想溫...
1 F6 O9 l+ H% ^6 ~( B) e9 U我知道我對考試係完全無興趣
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點解要咁 ?? downdown地.....

Gretzky

minghkhk,: _. f, C" p6 e$ x' r

8 n, M& d7 j+ uTake away all those suggestions and opinion from unclesand auntie 8, what do you really really enjoy doing?
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. |7 \* e& |! sAnswer this question first...when you get a honest answer from your heart, then try locating something similiar to the nature of your honest answer, that's how you find your life's goal./ J% r  G4 M( r+ |
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Studying is no fun when you hated it and see no point doing it....for short term solution (for the exam), promise yourself a reward when it's all over (like a PSP, new phone, etc.). Don't worry about whether you have $ to buy it or not....remember when you're down, imagine the reward at the end and this should motivate you to grind thru the sufferings.
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I am not a particular smart and harding working person...but I got through two degrees with that attitude. $ A6 P* V5 ~' l; R9 W. A9 {
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Cheer up...and be ruthless to yourself when studying for exams....the reward is there to wait for you.

lchlch

讀到書都唔一定有成就既,你自己先諗好自己比較鍾意做邊一行(能力範圍之內) 然後比心機做啦~正所謂行行出狀元嘛

JCer

我已成為了 隱閉青年 ...

jason williams

Originally posted by JCer at 2005-4-5 06:26 PM:
6 F  m* G# u0 w  o1 a0 @我已成為了 隱閉青年 ...

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ha? if u say seriously, i encourage u to back to this society, add oil!

goldenfish

問下你屋企人囉

toro

放心啦！我之前都係膠流流，你讀哂要讀嘅書先，出左嚟做事就慢慢搵到目標同埋知道自己要乜ga喇！如果學校有社工嘅，唔好怕醜，搵社工傾吓。船到橋頭自然直，唔洗擔心得太多，有計劃係好，但太過左就變成鑽牛角同尖，首要都係做好你手頭上嘅學業先！

brightlee

Originally posted by minghkhk at 2005-4-5 14:08:
" h0 B( J2 R2 \1 f9 ], }+ Y我就二十歲...9 J* ^+ I! B. j& x# X' P+ Y4 K
但係我發覺自己未有目 ...

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. b$ ^7 M4 o$ ^be happy la,
& J+ l7 C) l4 @: myou can see a lot of people support u# r0 g( P$ d) }* P7 m8 \: z$ ^
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but finally, it's YOU, to encourage and be run forward!!!