熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 @# [4 ]' A6 v2 c4 o; Y
好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 N7 [+ M* B6 f2 M/ I
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 J9 W1 u, A/ z7 T- [" g( Q: t個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; G; Y9 J  B, w  ?  w1 P! O! o; e覺得好空虛
7 w: h3 [# b' y7 _# `& C其實早幾次都有試過係咁- w6 t3 g. q  J6 K$ H/ \
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 _! u! u/ y. x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 t8 f" ^: W4 h6 F  i0 K- h% R

; ~6 L3 ^- `2 O/ I1 A0 q) `; |[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
/ l- V5 z( s. M& y; b但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺  p' |3 h' x8 k
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- N& I, @4 M7 V& F! C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 l$ @" F/ _6 Y+ b% D* P. ?
日日有車站,
! H( u9 R; b) Q5 K有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙2 }& ~0 v) g+ F! A: e) R: d$ S
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" ?" o/ \# x7 F! s+ {# u. K
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

: ]5 m2 J3 I% J我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.; h/ i- N: {, |9 t
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) I' u" f6 h" Y; z1 L- i玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
3 {9 S4 j" o* F0 X總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  w) }+ a* H: D! g. k1 g- h其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) A. r7 }0 w% v& ?/ t3 _所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% N* S9 r0 Y: H9 F! s3 Q! e日日有車站,( s2 M& N2 W3 T2 ~- a" L
有目標!

: k% H" }  P' c. Zwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; F7 }( M% w" |) k. \" p% e9 a
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! y- ~. c! X. _, C5 l2 `好唔鍾意呢種感覺- `- p4 U5 Z% q/ i6 R: h
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- B/ D+ d, R! T個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 Z3 a& K3 T+ G& H
覺得好空虛; N0 a, C% t: l, N$ {' k
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& p+ N% G( [8 O' R/ S+ b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, w0 C0 @! B6 s4 i( N用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: i/ [7 Y  B3 ]- N% b

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; E# V* p/ d, h: K) a9 f4 s0 \這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
# x$ D( x# n# W: b* q# T唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
; _6 A' `# D" b& ?, R有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
3 l5 I& J+ _6 _2 f2 _a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 V9 Q( z9 S. m8 n& s$ m* b: V/ }" x
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.9 w% [4 |  i2 W3 {4 I( E* h
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:0 H: w/ n! j% q' ~1 a( J$ f
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....0 D2 o" q8 b8 J, j$ Z
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～1 s! U( }0 Y) p5 E
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; _) K; ]8 H( f' A- P: G
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
+ N( G+ u: I. O: R# I9 W2 n或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～" o) v: h0 h% n0 [/ \
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ J" W6 T5 R7 b: e很少會超過一天～" r" x% a; X1 G$ D, |& h
要期待更好的明天呀！