熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 a  b$ z) Q' R1 j
好唔鍾意呢種感覺& R4 m. Q: p# a
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 G) I; M" C( ]$ ~! A個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( c4 Z. M3 s  |: a  \/ g+ x" O
覺得好空虛# w7 K& L6 B( \( M  Z4 e! ?
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 L- s- l+ d+ j- r; ~
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己7 |; G" N1 ~4 o  D1 B% z) G
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
. H9 ?3 L6 G8 L1 Y" h但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
1 G. i' r7 Q0 ]) t: F" X5 C熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
( ]* H1 j" G4 H% V' n" L0 ^) I2 T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' r+ T7 c! k* r8 ~日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
% `( e& T$ e# _9 J你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 d0 x8 n) }- c& f2 d
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

) i) V. P) S; ~+ `; p我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.- {; f5 y: o. O, M
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..0 B1 P1 ^$ m$ @+ L% _
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.. i! W0 w/ D  p: ?* k# W
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:! I/ ]- i" m. F0 }) m
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 x! ]+ `6 L2 n8 V8 [& ]0 V- g所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  l0 q- v8 O3 D: o: M; c) g
日日有車站,9 z' m2 c% m  M; s5 j
有目標!

7 \7 V) U3 G7 m5 C( E2 Rwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' K3 F0 J1 v( _6 v9 Y/ \/ J  X& v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 Y# V: E, j7 ?3 Y+ U好唔鍾意呢種感覺& D! z# q- H* v: N: B
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 w* K' w" B8 _( q個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 \2 ^0 l: q: X4 J+ K$ g覺得好空虛
) c) j8 y1 ]* \其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( F9 A. q% |5 b7 L卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' t) C- W8 }4 n( Q  J: ?3 q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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& x( \2 R7 E$ _) ]5 ~  z這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% c! q( A6 Y2 E) R0 H  B* C2 L% J0 I5 U
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.; z) z' u1 b8 ^: t
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.0 t( M1 R# O  c

- [& J# X! r* r  o& X. WPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
4 s" i& `2 M. h0 ^( k  A% M2 `a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long7 j0 e! `" x; a( F+ R9 I( C6 j8 O
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  e6 x) P& ~, r. K( L& T  `  t/ I$ _
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 x" S' x2 \( L2 A# {3 |; r3 R
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Just another thought on lonliness:' V4 _) w& ]% h
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 Q) a( G- Z) G: SBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～# a! x* D5 R8 M$ b3 x& d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
: w, L9 v" `1 ^  n. p5 B% x$ Q& l就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
, d3 A- S( R" V! C# r* X& D或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
9 \/ e9 _4 t( R- [' [空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
2 F% {' s& b% w# Z7 F  e很少會超過一天～" J0 h+ _0 n  Y. M1 V
要期待更好的明天呀！