熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' G6 I( O% ~  R" l1 e8 J
好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 c: U- \9 t9 o" _7 G
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 I% E" l' S' {4 v
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 R& B% g. Z/ ~' I
覺得好空虛
& \1 P' V5 x. m( W/ R- v& _其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 `" y4 v# n) V% r  Z) h1 R4 x卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 R/ z9 x  o4 t: ~" i
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?  g# ~4 U' N1 C$ r( @" J+ }

: U- z) d% z& l[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: t# j+ m. C1 ]9 Z  b2 X
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
. _" G7 W$ a+ ~% o1 G0 P熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ ?# Z" v9 _& {, {. t. `所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; }: |. R; p1 q日日有車站,
& J# |% t3 X% y- M4 J有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
0 O5 A# H/ F& c你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 j6 h5 m2 J+ M& t; P
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

( ], u% v+ T" z3 p  `4 o4 g; b* o我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 g: k4 a+ _. Z  }8 l( E$ ?# P( h
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..$ k3 }6 X) n" J# x
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
/ Q0 }; y5 ~4 t" R總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:, a1 Z, H) b5 H! u, D
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," O7 Q$ x2 W0 O* c) _- F6 E
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 [1 d/ F& ]' q; n! o日日有車站,, @  m% Y/ F- b* A2 G
有目標!

' G% x% V( E" H1 i( K# zwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:3 `6 Q7 R- L6 n$ p. c- _. w
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 x  |; q7 t. r: C好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 v% O* O* j1 @8 F9 A$ H1 i琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% i! ~1 r6 J. i3 n) f# R( v+ b個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( Y9 t( d0 [# f  v! y2 D% i2 r9 I覺得好空虛; L: D  S2 p7 P5 K# ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁% X0 Q+ X% e6 k- i7 {# t
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己7 f$ ~; ^4 g7 J1 _" `
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.; l1 k4 o5 k; h5 {! W  u
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' l" C: j3 k9 A+ ]. \& D1 P/ M有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.; a, t' a& R& x2 ]" v$ a- M4 y
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
* {# {& j8 ]) `: La) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long: D3 z5 `! F/ K; D+ X
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
! d$ M8 N' o* E& @/ @c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.' X& B; [: G0 C1 D$ Q
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Just another thought on lonliness:
9 Q1 v" L3 Q0 r( n2 h* Y: z% WLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
: T7 M# V  u( WBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
7 L+ M- f3 i2 j& I我會有一種十分空虛的感覺+ f$ W9 P$ P, h
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 K& B$ {3 P3 Q8 o! a或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
$ ^4 @3 @3 U, O5 c' c  J3 V空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉( Z7 _- ]: `3 C
很少會超過一天～
8 M1 y% F/ u6 L1 b% A8 a要期待更好的明天呀！