熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 T* u6 e2 \0 q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ W$ J; _0 `* R2 Z1 h$ \
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! ?8 g) z( z0 ^& i1 b! n4 i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 H: Q- q: J8 M6 s/ `4 z
覺得好空虛  v0 Y  c  ^9 B) F9 E+ |% d
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; C, j. \! ^6 d5 m! S; u卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( c0 L' O8 Z: T7 A3 Y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
8 `/ H- p! }' O1 x/ M, Z但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 a! q  y. `5 e/ x3 ], }' `4 ^3 @熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. ]5 D. B) m/ {% w7 S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 p/ P. I  d- R- W* F. g( m
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙; G# i+ O; M5 x2 ^* d+ ^2 C: A
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' P3 K- V4 B5 F0 v0 \, d" J* f
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

; u" W% ^& `8 m( S1 C& Y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
! }( v. v3 o: {; ~2 [感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..) l: s5 U. O; B. {
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
% ^8 b5 Y6 C# {總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
8 q+ Y7 {$ P9 m# d其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& d! A) D- W# x+ Z- E7 n0 ?0 k所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ d4 H9 `9 M6 Z! w8 g
日日有車站,$ x( h: G; g/ v" P' k  S, ~, e
有目標!

/ |& k6 A4 ~$ l7 Xwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 @# R! i3 I2 Y' \6 B% T  t6 l$ H
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
, D$ W/ l9 {7 T8 o+ ~. k好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ E& N6 c& t+ |( o0 N1 K6 x! J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' F& }. d% g$ h- E' F. x$ a* O個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  \& h- ?) q; \3 B: D& d
覺得好空虛
, i) _; j- V' [0 _其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 o7 O3 s" f, b* i4 T卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( T5 k2 J4 @& T; a! }7 j' b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' L" p. X. e7 `( Y* s

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.# u+ T/ X1 h6 G* U' \% F# W
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.+ y# B6 [* F! R5 W6 i
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
7 n1 N  ~7 I3 B: W- S: O$ Y& ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long$ Y$ i$ [' H: \8 Q8 H) k8 [# ^
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.6 ~( y7 A6 Q3 T% y" h3 |
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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! Z. H8 f9 x0 R$ W. {4 [4 I# s" fJust another thought on lonliness:  _% c( s+ x% ^
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...... b+ B1 P! H' [$ F5 q3 O. {
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) s$ f) k, V2 ^0 P6 P) {5 u5 d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
, {5 o. ^3 `' v9 N) t; Y: b就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% t) F' R( ?) M9 C. z或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 h, R  f- W; a7 Y. n0 u空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 @# ^5 x# S% g' z/ y) ?
很少會超過一天～1 C* i! P" p. r( R% r! u! V
要期待更好的明天呀！