熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( j- s8 S8 \. }6 j* p
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' I& D% X: Z. _0 V4 h& n+ |琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' W3 o+ ]% N( P個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  S( [( @8 @6 K. Z, `9 Z$ }
覺得好空虛: T% d7 n, O9 p) ~9 `; e. L7 K
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 {4 o' |' b# P5 e; q. A# W卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& d: m" q$ h$ L) a: Z$ g6 w用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& M$ Q6 z5 h1 ^3 @8 w/ K9 N

8 I. _' C+ V' j[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
1 t# I  Y4 a# {6 X) h7 b( i! O. n* I6 u但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ ~& m5 G5 s; e% O  X熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  \$ G9 G! v! e4 _; ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 l" ?3 j0 y* E) k% Q
日日有車站,
/ X  z5 l$ _$ J" V& [$ f有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙. O  u" Q, L. e" b+ ]' s. z# T8 Q
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* \2 U% K+ ?, K( g) a) Z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

" o5 q$ t, X" v6 z/ J2 w4 M2 i* V; p我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 V% I+ C: T7 s4 u* f感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..+ i0 E, @' r+ O, p. n; M" x7 }
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.7 e2 i* f  J3 k5 \* V2 ?7 B9 X
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
6 ^/ h7 r3 G! q3 h其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: u4 @" c, K# \
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& W$ ~6 \; _4 g0 C7 d) H$ W; O4 `日日有車站,
; G& g% X% `/ w% S% @8 u% c7 w& D有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 H. l3 H* p1 Z$ Z5 ~如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ P& G7 `6 R% @3 N' f
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 U0 }' v+ j; ?$ W7 E) b$ Y/ ]琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 |$ O- r* V. q' P( c! {& |# `個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" i6 S+ B3 l* n! y/ ~6 N) k0 S覺得好空虛
* ]4 G7 A, v& s% T其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" [, @5 Y0 Q5 C/ K: a0 ?" N卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: ^0 P% [8 {& ]0 e; U6 S7 }用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?+ M. H) I8 |: U- {

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$ j1 [8 Q  S5 l1 S( h! {3 M這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.0 c. C; v" W0 N. q3 s1 |
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ o- i' V5 d  T1 [0 I
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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0 W- C% @1 `; `People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:' p  n4 c# l/ h" ^& R0 M
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long# R7 G& k! {$ U* m
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.* T2 l+ F6 h( |( Y6 g# `+ p1 {9 B
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.5 ~9 g; i5 s  e& k8 g& Q6 f
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Just another thought on lonliness:
; L) {& U  k' ~3 e8 P8 w. ?# @Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....8 a3 R6 u8 D8 D( E  E  k
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! T) g7 n8 p9 N8 ~0 t/ w% ~5 a/ w
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
9 t  a8 B1 a2 S6 X0 s就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
; O; j" v  R0 m! J% A- n$ y或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～* O9 T! O. I* C; u) g7 m
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 s: J. u- P- D5 K% W- _% F- b很少會超過一天～
7 _6 ]( Z) c' `3 c1 o要期待更好的明天呀！