熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
+ ~1 g' G# E+ H4 |5 O好唔鍾意呢種感覺. B- v/ C4 }. O* p: i- D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' m. Q) c# Y7 P% r# m* e( L6 d, L個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ M2 g. C7 B( B2 o9 E- t; M' _4 ?
覺得好空虛0 Z. ?- Z8 C& ^* z* u9 f
其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 t, D' T0 K- i
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 e4 t/ ]- x" E" o  _& k5 [用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& B8 B* @% T1 i8 X$ D/ O
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,2 T# ]2 I& z8 {0 j( {* h: [
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
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Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 i: |5 G! X6 j- T% e5 w- m. V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
0 ?: @+ l  u3 Z日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙- @# F% k9 M3 i" W8 B
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, F3 y; ^4 i% J" k6 ~  U. }
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! u9 L0 s" {  [1 n8 q& ^* u  a我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
9 B- m% ^. E1 S7 l& f* X+ w$ I感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 ]7 C9 k7 m$ h玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.' E  Q; w$ a6 G8 e* Q
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
! m$ L* c+ R1 W  V7 ~+ o3 j+ H其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,5 w7 z8 n) X& |* A# C0 O/ d' h, V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) L2 t6 H! \+ v3 T3 i3 ^% D日日有車站,! W/ s! A: B# w2 S9 O2 _
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. Q! e8 n1 J+ X3 `* e+ Z" ~- T9 m$ Q! c如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: \; l" N* K/ b0 i' n" A! F# |7 ~好唔鍾意呢種感覺, L* s' ]2 H  o% l8 d. }
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 G' j; [/ \0 E% \* U
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; `% c# E& }/ |  s; S  p1 p& q覺得好空虛8 i8 G) y' R: G. M0 `
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 I0 U6 q! ]4 s/ B/ Y# O  C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& `9 c, t: @( [' ^' m: b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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: M- y5 @9 U+ l這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
. y: C7 D: P2 \/ B+ z( I, B+ Y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足./ A5 z' o6 l( r8 R4 D, r7 l
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
9 {# X- S' i3 a, Xa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
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c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.  m# [- M/ {* y" Y& z
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Just another thought on lonliness:
* u( p; D8 P  \1 x, nLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 \4 d! J  j' ~  X! q) f
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. T1 F: N, y; s  y
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺5 H) ?9 d" L; V4 d- L1 e/ q
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影* \- x1 R! u( C: v) C
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～' s8 |. Z. S4 q
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
  L* o! j8 W, q: d" g/ [很少會超過一天～! w) l8 t( a; S0 @4 E: a
要期待更好的明天呀！