熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; R+ h4 j6 a8 Y, D
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# T+ [& f# c" v5 ]琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& J7 k: }! T  Y0 _7 x1 @2 }個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) F, h5 d0 y9 C. J# c: Z6 \) p. z1 l6 n- k
覺得好空虛
7 H5 p6 E! v$ Z) u5 N其實早幾次都有試過係咁" t: b, ~/ r5 J" m: J
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 S) i" r  @/ |4 k用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,5 c2 s2 a0 X6 _+ N+ [; q. N
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺: |3 B6 {' d# u1 c* w& J0 o, U5 x% c
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( H' w* X3 l/ y; I
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ P$ {6 H* T. D: i( L9 m
日日有車站,) Q. Q9 V- g7 O# ^" [% r/ l
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 t0 K9 Y$ K& j% Z0 j% x0 D: W2 u
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 l% d0 x; A: s8 r) W
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: }3 h9 w5 \0 E
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..  o- f, L: U' J6 M( _
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.$ {- B; [1 |% y$ q
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  i6 y8 S- Z2 @# m其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 K/ E, }5 C- c: k, @: q所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 r8 [9 y4 I% @3 e
日日有車站,3 x& p8 F6 w+ X4 `
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 L3 ^3 z! c+ g! j7 ]5 }
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: u+ @) I. l: ~6 f7 U好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 \: _3 m- x! W' r9 `" e( [
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  B% I3 P1 k/ f: ~
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. f; Q" J9 p& n6 s4 |; B$ P覺得好空虛
: C! J. y, s/ g& x! x) s其實早幾次都有試過係咁' I) `. q  R1 X1 `: u! P
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" h0 }' p! j! v# S
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 W' R/ ^% c3 |3 z

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 [! n8 R' u5 h) q6 Q唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& ?1 v5 X" C% D- a1 h# {$ j
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:; z" d% G2 w' u3 m" @  n
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
; ?2 W+ G! p) B" K3 K+ rb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
9 ?) w& P# K2 Y/ ?c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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% T! [5 N+ C# T: t+ Q8 L2 VJust another thought on lonliness:
( ]- G6 x( U7 A% C  NLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....: e( ~5 {# z' |4 B9 Y. n
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～% K% Q+ n' p, Q+ p# M0 G# z2 G( i
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
) Y  R; N5 C2 R1 }, @' }就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
( ^! I" i4 U, y# F  Y或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
4 g( D9 V+ M- M9 V. t" t  k) A6 N; W4 j空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 M: t* E' h. F9 p/ T1 ~7 Q: `
很少會超過一天～. @; T" Z: G, N: s6 m' f
要期待更好的明天呀！