熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
" m: j# i1 I; V& q* P8 \8 s) ]" @' l好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 W% _" y! S7 n2 l; M- U
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 c& Y8 X! A* L0 k( I6 L
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ M% t3 `1 O5 J5 ^- x6 P覺得好空虛$ f3 B0 {1 H0 f6 w- r( l
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  l" ]# A- ]9 B9 w0 |6 m5 F& H卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* C. J6 n& j/ x5 n5 }6 l
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; i4 A. |& e" N* Q$ ~
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,. m; L( Q4 \: o; q8 m
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
6 G& x4 q, n2 w6 h熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 z4 F" k) |* s' M所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 M! ^+ M( {3 K5 [( g  B  c日日有車站,
5 F- S% X: X8 h" D3 s1 W; U有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
% k& u' x9 [1 q你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 ~; I3 X2 {  L+ f
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

( M8 g; ]( S& ^' g' [$ n我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
: e# g0 G4 U0 s" x8 }- O感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
  V  f: K, a9 }玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.6 N9 P6 \9 W$ H$ ^
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:: d0 q, ]& [$ a& N* X, m' |: T
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 @( ]+ Z: @, |" L所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# U7 ~& c6 a7 u3 Q2 h日日有車站,
! C" E! y6 x, I0 M4 {8 |  L有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- j3 ?3 S$ F* O
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) n! D* w4 w8 T% [; Z1 K好唔鍾意呢種感覺( g( f& }/ m/ R; c* n
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
7 Z" k* N- s3 ?9 I( [個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  F& P8 q# d9 [% n: e
覺得好空虛+ _+ P- }1 m% i5 Z# `( N( N
其實早幾次都有試過係咁( P6 h) c4 g+ `8 A) _$ k
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% g, B) O" B- u4 D& y. Z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. T* |3 {: L7 x) M- \4 |/ L

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 @# `, T4 ~$ h0 y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
; Y' @2 {, ]2 j9 X) X有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
3 J- R# J. A. q4 q( ]0 x/ D; t; xa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
, `: Z- e  d, A" Bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.% r0 G$ a- y( D( ^
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 ^! l7 O/ X# N1 n( x  C
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Just another thought on lonliness:; y% h# P7 m8 w* J& O( E, _
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- z& I+ i) u; r  I" T
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
, y5 S; h4 [: K3 P& }9 ?( U$ J& S) k我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
; `4 I2 U' h( d" ]" o! d$ K就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& ]/ k6 u( d* C1 \, d" g& r
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～" ~" R; @! B0 v! U; u0 L
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
5 ^% }, H( ?; J7 C2 R0 t  }# C- H很少會超過一天～( r. p& D6 Y* V+ Q8 l7 F
要期待更好的明天呀！