熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 ~+ H) O3 t& ^, Z' w好唔鍾意呢種感覺
; Q8 A) x" I2 G+ J$ L5 C+ j琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  M+ d) T0 w, [7 n# S個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 P) |2 ~7 X& M8 d覺得好空虛; f$ p1 p! ]3 F7 M) X* }0 k
其實早幾次都有試過係咁- q6 A3 {. L4 }2 k, H4 M
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. G* O/ k; _- O- ^) q  t用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ a7 N" V& b/ t% p) @! m& E
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 C# Z5 V" I- Q, T6 \: q9 X0 v
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
  ]5 x7 v4 ~4 f! p' O8 K4 S! T熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ c! `$ t* {$ i5 c. ^
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 B6 X7 s# v! B
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙( D6 A1 d" a: H; U) z" ^+ ]
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( z5 N* H/ i2 T/ s* a
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 H$ B8 J7 \# I6 {; h9 E
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
. c0 C; c$ `7 M8 c0 v, g玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.& ?: F, J" |- S' D( k7 R/ j
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ n$ B5 E7 E$ \0 S" s$ H
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 e3 g. ?) B7 H% p, k
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; H( F2 e4 s- |# x7 `0 Q- D
日日有車站,
/ j- @! z/ `; A3 Z1 ~+ _- I! y有目標!

; b5 }0 L- G4 G  `what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 ]/ ]; i6 t2 s5 h: _9 s8 @
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ _* B. g3 ^$ b好唔鍾意呢種感覺, c9 s( m- O3 H4 w+ }+ \
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( ?& }! |6 H7 [0 w" Q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# _7 `7 f& l5 J$ B, y
覺得好空虛
* O/ L0 ^0 }3 h$ h9 H4 V9 }- R其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) w/ g, L# F# m# ?  y卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 N) u" L% c6 v9 m- j, q8 H( x
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ I- x) D% |, g1 W, E

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
2 ^: j; {0 @  ]( G# ]# _唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ L  D, S, r8 S# j( n' d有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:3 R8 U  M6 x- F' O5 d* w, B
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
1 V* D6 O+ }4 }; ]b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
' m9 \" n$ v' s8 A6 yc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.4 u. a5 d4 W$ Q" `9 E

# e) P" s9 |+ |Just another thought on lonliness:
0 j* M* V. g1 b( G# ^0 gLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....7 h5 N1 n. C* F. w1 Z7 k
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～' ?: b0 ?5 A# H& p4 Q( ^0 n1 X$ J
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺, N, X, V8 z! O0 N1 a
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影* C- I& k" \9 i9 |
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  ?" U& V. {' a" ~. ]9 }空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉% P. X$ J8 }9 ]0 V* ]; z
很少會超過一天～
2 P0 l1 u! d# D- M& e$ t5 H# j要期待更好的明天呀！