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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way; H \9 ~1 E& `
consider in the following (not in order):; c6 \! X3 |* j% r# y
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
5 B6 u( ] ~; |6 H% Z. I0 a$ g7 l2nd, how serious he/she has done?- A2 b7 ?6 H2 l: M% j1 X1 @+ s# Y& H
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?" H ^6 m+ n- j+ W# T9 T/ F4 v8 l
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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. K9 t; }+ o. ?for me:
9 G1 F+ x) K0 X- S2 {. ri may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
$ y$ V1 f2 ]+ ~3 A: W4 v4 t! Lbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation); `# ?- ^3 P+ r3 v5 U! S
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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7 {# X5 W4 f* M9 Obut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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