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: n8 J( r6 Y9 x* p假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任% w. P* L! y. [$ T# w! l5 T
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
2 \7 Z" e& O# [3 I* z8 @4 y& K4 cconsider in the following (not in order):# C: x' Z- k; e  k3 P% O

7 P) E) n, {7 g1st, how close the relationship we are?0 Y! M. D" P' M- E0 z& Z' d& A
2nd, how serious he/she has done?9 o( Q5 k, V) p; n6 g9 Z4 @# j- B
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
7 D, [$ o! y7 T4 I- t4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?2 e# \" ^; W: n5 B
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for me:
1 k3 ^( V2 _) d! Wi may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.% x& o. k2 v# l
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)- e7 |4 _# Q: |* Y9 s
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!8 W8 W; _! F9 r6 g
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。2 R  [/ z# h7 X9 ]7 [$ `
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。' @  c) x% b9 N
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個6 v$ |. Z6 g: b. ]* P" t/ j; R) c
只要有數我都會滅