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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way- U$ g, V% \ I" d; K
consider in the following (not in order):! F1 d( M" R9 B3 r' v. S" q2 p0 }& Q
% H: ]0 A2 }% ^. A' }1 k$ t1st, how close the relationship we are?7 {2 X. g$ T) ]7 N; g
2nd, how serious he/she has done?8 z! q8 B/ j. V2 i# K' }4 {
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?. c& g" t! R) f
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.6 q* k: T4 M- |" P/ F
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
) `8 C! i6 Q3 @: w" v# {but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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