熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( K8 c, ^3 {/ _! [/ d
好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 z# O  _0 \" B* k
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ ~( o' E7 U& ~8 F# `! `
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 R/ X: ^: k1 ]
覺得好空虛  ~  v5 u4 V% m6 S8 S' X4 p, D6 @# n
其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 o5 m" f$ N' M& [; j. ?/ X
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! J  a# n# H8 h! P$ Y+ ?! Z, H/ g6 r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
+ i" G3 p9 P: {+ I
; G5 h& t# D9 [* K4 ~% c* T[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
$ f( I/ ?" r7 n. U% L( _4 C但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
1 K0 }- r7 m1 ?7 O' [熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) n  \% {- q" c8 ^
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ f# f4 A2 U1 W' U: m! t$ D
日日有車站,' ~7 l8 i/ X0 j8 P
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙% @9 ~* b% z9 I' ?; I! u' v
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:3 \3 H' m! o' @- R2 d4 `
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! Y! @6 |% }7 O( z0 Q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 n  q: F' ]- I, |- I: M
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..2 q# f/ [( q1 q" z% N
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
# w7 L6 o2 ]4 d+ R總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: c3 k$ e  ?2 C  f5 w( q# f其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  {4 Z$ K5 s9 b* S: K& p所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
* `( l; J1 h; p- X' }# L日日有車站,9 W8 t) h! _7 T: G- M) q
有目標!

9 \& M! c5 D8 p& A: J7 ^6 H
what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' F0 Y% J- M  i( G# l) c/ y3 T6 m4 _如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
" R! W) c& a# L0 A0 Z$ ~5 W* Z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 p/ A7 e. Q( W4 q, j琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 \' q, v! Z' K' R  n個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 K- ^& z& x" K& D1 v" e覺得好空虛
% R4 t2 g7 D4 ~. X. j1 v; V其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ u+ `$ b/ y# y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 j- v7 I/ I+ y: U, L, e+ X9 V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ _8 q3 O% c8 M) Z% h) E7 A

' _* v+ R8 o3 k0 v. \  U
" G, s4 U1 V! u& ]) w3 l
這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ x4 x8 u3 `. H5 _
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
! W( K! \) c0 \: N) \' j, }3 `# j有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
+ d4 M* |8 O6 a& e. b9 x# b, h2 I) V2 f' m& Y7 k
People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
8 m7 j% L- C0 _  i) E8 va) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& M1 R  [: y  f& yb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ s" i! u: U6 S" }4 V% }$ |
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.4 E% I0 t6 P/ J$ N5 O
; R' V+ F+ R' g8 L
Just another thought on lonliness:6 B& U1 }# v, L+ z% `9 T! y2 I
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 l, n. e$ y% U; d; sBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! s- ]/ D& e/ J" `/ L  j+ D0 T
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺. P/ k: S2 d& R
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% `" {5 l, ^) T或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 l* g/ f: V+ C% r) \4 X空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
3 u( W2 P, j  u3 j& I. V3 j很少會超過一天～
3 L0 F0 w7 q* m8 [要期待更好的明天呀！