熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& I4 x8 M+ _9 M3 I好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% l( d, y! W+ b' i' N琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ n  P% G% t+ E4 J
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 g" b$ @; W9 u+ h* f
覺得好空虛
& S' v$ E& i& o. |- b其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: b; h4 G2 e5 S0 K9 |卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ \- t5 F2 n' s2 A4 J* Z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" u  ^/ h' K3 P; e7 R
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
! A6 v$ i* m5 V3 v3 i- U但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺. G( h" ]/ a0 G; X& S6 `. i" Y
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. d9 B1 l6 R4 B/ Y4 X9 P: T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
4 n2 X+ q2 s0 H% ?( U日日有車站,
  i& A2 D" y% b7 {有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
- t0 t3 p$ C; |6 K. [你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# H3 L  N( I) m) j4 R. u3 K如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 j: y7 ]2 Y/ d5 s" z# b感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 [. M! Y$ Z1 a
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 t# j' n3 f. C, F% l8 h總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
! j7 [2 X& o6 F# T9 A- v其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; B  a9 G) F4 t5 i( Z- \" E所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
! n* G( X: e1 t. Y5 F+ i3 ]% u# y日日有車站,8 D! r6 Z7 y0 U( w$ c. R, U4 y
有目標!

) [& O0 k; m3 y* Awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- \( y5 X& o) v' W
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 C* Z# E* Y# D5 a2 C好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  X  \  c% D% L$ q, w琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ }6 t5 S4 _) J* V# |
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ c9 q# w1 [$ A" y  K覺得好空虛1 d: W& ~: w+ i6 S0 ?
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; G! _+ E  l( G, F7 C0 F  n卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 J% A& j& {" C- L3 ]0 f' \用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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3 r3 W; B3 H1 f* t' }這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.# G/ S) F, X7 J/ i6 S1 W
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' u$ F: p8 r& g% J1 B. s( q. R有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.4 [+ Y  j' o3 n: `  t4 Z

( c7 I% a2 m3 lPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:% `  ], A8 w& A1 p* |' ~$ m  C
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 Q( h7 s! `; h, l) t
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
' o- }) V  `" n, nc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.$ H: n3 f9 e6 g& b0 F0 Y% w

3 R) B8 v& ?9 s" L: @2 c  w' K. r+ ]Just another thought on lonliness:# f/ E; _& z$ l( s
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 [2 L' g& z2 BBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～" y, f3 v7 _; @$ ^, D/ Q& r
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
3 n) }9 b, ]9 c. l就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
$ h) V; F5 f- D0 [或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
/ q2 A2 f$ U. m, j& L空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 l+ `7 v  k, l& r7 Z2 w2 t9 s% |
很少會超過一天～
- e1 E$ V4 X2 C  t+ y要期待更好的明天呀！