熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" E( o: I! O4 M+ v4 Z( w
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: u. P. G; G! v- b' c: k琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" o8 R7 E- e  z+ z  |" J3 ]個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  x, p4 j# a. F8 Z3 m覺得好空虛
  I+ s8 U, a8 C* {4 @2 m其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 N4 b3 @5 I$ ], q( V+ w" P/ C* m! M% Y卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& U* `- Y3 D% b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 `6 S& F. d( a7 W
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
: A  @- U( l0 N6 V6 L但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ t9 P7 s" O5 Q7 m$ h7 V- W9 B( f熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" a& R" E" U8 |0 x9 G所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# _: R; y2 I6 D! A* a日日有車站,
" @4 [- e- _* R& y- a7 I: s: V有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙6 G8 Q9 z. V& p# r5 f( x  ?8 j
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# R( X$ y+ l. {
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
. \" A) P- v% `  m感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..$ ?6 s& R. d* z. }; j0 H" X
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 K3 l/ i: ]% p0 z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ s$ R7 _+ j) V4 M
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 H  G5 C  X. O+ F9 E
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 E$ e/ L1 [, o9 y1 N! |8 Z日日有車站,6 v3 s; {8 k5 j2 G4 X2 v
有目標!

/ w! A! i- W: L1 j; swhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 K" t) k  @- l  H' h+ J1 E( ?. D
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% |% K" Y; X$ X9 X7 L# Y好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 s- L0 B9 M6 }9 {
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 b6 R4 s. g/ N個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) w" \$ l) b3 ]
覺得好空虛
  e9 U. G3 b" ~' ~. c+ V其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; c& \; T1 }8 u( U8 G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ Q  L/ D" E% ~5 {! N! J用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. }, I* _+ O) u. M) u/ y

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
2 Q( R7 g2 ~9 |唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 B: g" a+ s; [: k- |# B
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# {0 W: J: \7 }# U' ~( n6 ~

5 A( o' d" F  OPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:! O$ m& w- E  t* A9 f* c
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
2 r% j: l, K1 Q' }  D$ `4 [- Eb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.9 M7 t. J7 |5 c9 n- s
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:% j& U, g/ h% l% M+ O
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....7 ~; u% Y' f; i7 X
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
0 M" j: ], a. P0 _8 m/ K我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
! m) x- E, m& V* j9 W1 g就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
8 H, `* ]7 y7 t* ^, x或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( z( r, Z# Z$ v
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 i2 `, C( t% P2 p
很少會超過一天～1 C9 p$ i% i# I$ c; ^# u* E
要期待更好的明天呀！