熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 q& }! L9 [0 A# X5 u6 u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺% L, X  s! M6 i9 F! ]! p
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- [8 ]1 N" w  h) a% p
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 K) X! C# y7 |& x覺得好空虛
) [" h' U) D& @% C! v& Q5 z其實早幾次都有試過係咁) D9 _$ |  m% [* e% W0 P
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 |0 U* Z6 L$ l8 t0 `1 t
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* F6 U3 `* z0 |/ q  Z. {

3 V1 R4 Z0 }; b3 G& t! k[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,. i( d  e. \1 q
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
3 V. A. Y$ L$ U3 V; T, U熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 u6 {$ i3 b; q所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( c) b2 ]6 v6 {' y! O  Z日日有車站,
6 L( N4 f* J6 }! p6 H" N7 c3 G有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙6 _  }1 ?: F" o! h
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' s5 y% E; b3 F& e1 u* r如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
% I. l" q. L9 _5 P感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( A$ `; [2 {3 r- v( v" P, k, f- X+ ?玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ t; l4 T; e, j  V/ O( f( U
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:( c7 B7 r* ~, D" j" \' b  M
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ c: Y9 |: B( x; O! `) ?( q  A$ [
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 \8 P% i( F* v4 s9 D8 O7 S日日有車站,- j7 B. e$ ?& u4 m, G
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  K4 T: K; \7 P' q0 r8 J
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% q) x4 O1 R$ R+ y* l0 |) I* i- }
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( @9 A/ J8 w7 ]; Q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. L1 y( a) u3 ~% a個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% y8 ?6 |# ?7 ]" V7 R0 r覺得好空虛
' A5 W+ j: ^: R其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 |8 _/ j/ `  u, G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: m) s& _$ _; |$ Q% o" P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 M& x$ d( u/ l( \

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; X  c4 P0 ^8 u4 S% L# x% n1 B這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
, ~( E: ?+ c4 Z( Y  }唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ i; }  w. c9 G! a- k; _
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# r0 _/ Y0 t5 b! X0 z) Aa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
" A& U$ k1 h+ G2 {& [b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
' B5 P1 M( z6 K( Bc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:- r/ q5 O7 n8 l: U7 J( W
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ O) r# ^+ Z7 k/ }( f8 IBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
$ D" T8 f1 n- W( @1 {. J我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
, \: b5 r/ n3 X+ I. h就好似睇完一套好睇的電影0 ?9 X; ?: K3 h5 m: s* ?
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
: J' k: n' p8 f, i6 b空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
; \! ]) A& Q6 H( w很少會超過一天～
  B! z; X( T" K* l要期待更好的明天呀！