熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
1 ?9 S; D$ @2 Q1 v; j* u好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 N& u! t/ N. k# X( ]0 c, U
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) T9 o# V0 o; e; M0 ?4 y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣- ?, P; B0 z% ]( E2 e" a5 a2 l
覺得好空虛
. T6 g  r) F  l* y+ f7 C5 F- Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 y" l5 b6 j. x& b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
% ?$ n5 ~8 v8 `( c但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
( X# Y% \6 Q% r8 u+ S熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( x- Z- t0 v9 d6 E8 v: q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," e6 n; c# ~' W4 Q: G" s8 V
日日有車站,
! i- `9 n7 `" c有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( s% }1 K& J6 z; n& V; Y你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 W, X6 ~. m1 y' N% R+ \如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ `; J  ~4 C* |# v6 |
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..- q$ [+ M5 _+ t. [& |' ^/ C
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( j, h2 P. |7 Y% N0 r; Z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
" z& b8 a. x! f其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& }# p! s+ p  T7 K2 u
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,! c0 m3 ]- D7 r, q' z* r
日日有車站,
/ M. r, M3 H# _# w2 }1 e2 D有目標!

8 K8 j, {; j9 R3 Z  B- k* |what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 m. b/ C+ K7 b+ g4 |  Z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  r# C8 b9 N1 d; q1 W
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" B: Q( D1 k  T5 U% m, N- o/ |琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 _! a% l9 L& U9 H0 B1 {7 C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( u0 B4 g* _  r( f
覺得好空虛
2 K3 N4 Q% z. H% U其實早幾次都有試過係咁* I0 }- w  Q1 h9 E: r3 ~
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 @0 N/ x) m; L: ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.0 s/ q1 k  t6 O( C( J- N8 |
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
- \8 L" r& y3 F) n有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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8 u: v; q2 x6 ^# p8 T% P  S4 e. k( r2 xPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
+ E/ `! \& V9 ~. N3 X# m- `, n3 Aa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
# L# V0 n  e, l/ w8 F) Rb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
5 h4 ?' v4 t* q6 Xc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
' o3 n# P9 I; T/ h4 P6 ?1 y, u4 P  U" JLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....4 a, g* q# f9 t5 x/ b
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( n8 c' ~  C* ~( f
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 ~* P5 t. w7 J3 g6 ]6 g
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影% o$ J! v$ T3 C9 Z" F/ u
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～% Z  Z& |# }/ E2 G% w
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 y& l2 W9 u4 \- I2 S: L. Y9 N很少會超過一天～
0 Y- s( ?* `% W! N要期待更好的明天呀！