熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( A- y$ ?( i( @) }/ I# I; D
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' O. G  x' @) w$ m* ~3 l琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 N6 G1 @! x3 K7 h) \$ D. Z
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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: e7 N( f( n/ u' H3 c其實早幾次都有試過係咁- g* f% \' e7 o' ]
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' C2 |4 [/ ^3 ?: g用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,$ U8 z, ~# L: x
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺. r5 ~$ t. E' o: _% g- v% l5 V9 F( ?
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 p: m5 g/ Z  w2 t. l4 i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: K! x6 O+ b0 v/ }  z% K8 o
日日有車站,5 c$ l2 k9 q. q8 Q1 [' V; B
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙4 c& m  h$ [4 k/ D7 \
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; J0 H; T+ q! h- M& {0 e5 j如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.- V7 e! j' z6 {6 s9 B2 y2 {4 h
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 C& t: `6 H3 l9 N2 N$ i; z6 c
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.7 M8 E7 w  A& T& f- }$ G
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:+ U( k( i( O- }9 D7 U
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  X  s  Z. g% M
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
! k: \+ _7 Y$ }; L( p日日有車站,1 h' F# u8 b' A) V* H* U1 U& G
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( T5 b* |( G  |* P. ~如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 P( W8 M% [5 v, J0 H; [! x# X
好唔鍾意呢種感覺- M9 x) C$ ]0 {' ^
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 K# {5 O* c+ M
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 y$ ^, l* U4 B3 m" H& T
覺得好空虛
; I$ i" {7 j3 @. @6 U/ Z其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 \# e2 j. u; A# ~/ v$ R5 _, b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 }# s5 _7 c3 c  B用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' {$ c. E7 p9 ]7 X( T2 `6 P唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' ?) B: `' K' P2 Q% d6 P有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.; z2 y( C4 L, z1 [' n7 g
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
: N( }) m' \7 e8 C9 |( m. e: {a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
1 c# k; ?8 D3 q9 Sb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
1 f1 l6 |9 m7 |c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.  s) m4 S) v& u5 O& f7 k
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Just another thought on lonliness:
4 n9 _1 F2 t$ Y* \1 U* a7 @6 K$ ?Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
; x, d4 w% X1 a  oBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ J1 n, ]$ a1 `/ V9 P$ E
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
$ M% R' _- I, u. E$ n6 x, b5 K# h就好似睇完一套好睇的電影2 K  r8 O' X/ E- G' z  D
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～! j: [7 q9 [( F* ^% d
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉( t- L* D( g, T5 t8 R
很少會超過一天～
- B$ \- {( ^. m) I; G要期待更好的明天呀！