熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 g$ i0 ^, Q8 p2 B5 b$ c# p
好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 @. P7 Y3 i# @' n4 m! t
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 q1 s3 x  e1 y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ X( F$ w8 l1 x0 m  N# V3 b2 ~. g3 P覺得好空虛
. K0 M4 d7 S$ C1 q6 Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁% \; X- B- }' u+ I& A* _! x+ t& a
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- r% l( b: E. ~7 {1 x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
4 e- K+ U" P  N0 _% M" F但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 O$ i  L% z5 J7 z/ N* O$ r熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 K' U, @+ z; k! g  i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. `% V# G: r/ L9 ^6 R$ @) r日日有車站,
! Y2 }) G3 \6 }7 b有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. N$ a9 e5 w; K" [8 M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; x: P) ?' A: E  V) N感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( f1 _- X- \; c) S4 k- l玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
9 P" i/ Z# A; o0 D9 z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:' \% r  l  V7 n! l/ h' b* n$ F
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ _2 M  i$ p& f+ e
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 l$ u6 I+ Q1 n9 w, S+ o" h/ d5 B日日有車站,  b7 P& W' k5 d* @! c0 J/ N, ~
有目標!

3 ^) \1 r! H5 w) J6 O5 O( ?what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 Z: A  k( E! f; [0 j- J* @0 N如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& L9 Q1 U2 ]! P8 M0 B) {好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 Q4 x& E4 Z* ?* I6 s
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) P) W" z8 C6 L; t
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ Q, `3 C! \4 G% }+ |" M覺得好空虛1 b% R  C( y( ^/ m7 ^# T6 X
其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 c% @! u; c4 M3 y6 M7 Y# C
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% Z8 I1 w7 x% G0 l" s
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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! I/ @# L& x9 m. r, m這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% h0 U" f' r- q8 [+ Y8 T4 W
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
$ z+ Y) Y" u1 k1 I, Z9 C有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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- e) m  [. |' ?' t3 }People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:% f7 d/ Y0 [0 X- b6 h
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long! L+ s3 r: |# M$ y
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.3 {* Y4 E6 C5 P1 b1 {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
/ E4 M3 }$ V. z6 _3 {Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
% Y8 V: g4 o3 s* Z9 TBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
. j( A# b4 Q0 N. A' u8 G  m8 ?) U- t我會有一種十分空虛的感覺- K- r7 z: N$ A3 [) U4 E; f
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
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空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 O% r, O# M$ k3 }: _6 y6 {
很少會超過一天～
  p5 H3 N- |( I要期待更好的明天呀！