[5/19兩性加分題] 大男人
有無得改無咁大男人 ? 或者要經歷多一點, 才有改變呢 ?經一事長一智, 呢方面你有無想分享下呢 ? 不論感情
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[[i] Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-5-20 at 11:48 AM [/i]] 大男人 or 大女人 also belong to a personal character
is developing from childhood, really difficult to change
except having a great event happen on him/her or their mind suddenly opened.......
but the probability is low, so if u really can't stand a guy with this kind of character,
i think u should better dun choose those guys or leave them
dun think u can change the character of a guy so easily
so sometimes i would not so agree that some guys always want to change their lovers to his/ her ideal type because u should know what yr lover's style is b4 u are dating with him/her
just my view :)
[[i] Last edited by jason williams on 2005-5-15 at 03:03 AM [/i]] 咁要改變自己去遷就一段感情, 會有結果嘛 ? [quote]Originally posted by [i]truelove[/i] at 2005-5-15 03:23 AM:
咁要改變自己去遷就一段感情, 會有結果嘛 ? [/quote]
if u think it is worth to change yrself to "遷就" him/her, then is ok
because none of the couple would be entirely "甲", if no ideal case, then 遷就 each other is a must case, just see how much u need to 遷就, would it be over yr torerate level
but, if u already have a thinking that u can't stand about him/her
why need to be so hard that to change yrself to an entirely different person
if so, really happy ma? u have lost yr self personality
from my view, if this happen, u should think clearly about, u are still loving him/her or just want to keep the relationship, if just want to keep the relationship, but u are unhappy, i dun think the result will be gd, so in this way, i think dun waste so much time lor
so, 一係唔好計o甘多付出既問題, 要計的話就要自私d, 至少自己要開心先啦;) 如果你係大男人﹐就要找個小女人喇 [quote]Originally posted by [i]vivienna[/i] at 19xx-6-30 04:12:
如果你係大男人﹐就要找個小女人喇 [/quote]
同意呀!:cool: jason williams + 15 for good responses 我覺得大男人係佢嘅本性(正如jason williams所講！)，邊有得改！
我有個朋友係超大男人，脾氣又大…佢地初初一齊個陣，男嘅好遷就個女仔，不過久而久之，個男仔覺得辛苦，大男人性格又走返晒出黎。結果咪又係分手！
不過佢地兩個係相愛對方，分完又再一齊返，離離合合好多次…唉~有時做朋友睇住佢地咁都覺得佢地辛苦，成日要就黎就去…
其實兩個人一齊最緊要舒服，可以做返自己係最好！你為佢改唔到幾多野…呢一刻你改到但係日子耐咗始終都會打回原形。 大男人無得變嫁喎, 我唔知第個, 我就變唔到
我就算好鐘意我女友都好啦, 我都係咁大男人, 係變都變少少嫁姐
無得變晒, 變得晒我就唔洗差唔多日日都同我女友鬧交啦
佢又成日話我e樣唔岩o個樣唔好, 成日唔就佢
佢又無諗下我感受, 有時我就下佢, 佢都要就返我先得嫁
o個一步要大家一齊行先得, 我同佢叫做有d進步嫁喇
由一星期鬧五日, 冷戰兩日, 變到一星期鬧兩日, 算係咁啦
如果話要由大男人一變變到唔大男人, 我諗要經歷下d大事, 生離死別咁上下
如果唔係應該一路都改唔到 [quote]Originally posted by [i]jublio[/i] at 2005-5-20 11:32 PM:
[color=Red][size=4]其實兩個人一齊最緊要舒服，可以做返自己係最好！[/size] [/color] [/quote]
我完全同意, 支持到極點, 直頭就係重點, 解釋晒全部
要女友面前都要帶住面具做人, 慘過死, 不如算
要一起就做返自己, 要就一齊就, 要散都無計 [quote]Originally posted by [i]Rika[/i] at 2005-5-21 02:35:
帶住面具做人, 慘過死 [/quote]
無錯呀！如果要戴住面具，咁好慘喎！平時返工返學都已經好假，唔通當見到自己最心愛嘅人都要假咩？！無道理啦…
你都想自己嘅另一伴用最真嘅性格對你喇！
就算拍拖個陣佢改咗無咁大男人，到咗結婚之後大家一齊生活，生活上好多細微嘅野，都會將佢大男人嘅性格表露晒出黎！
仲有呀，當結咗婚之後，佢覺得已經得到你，就未必會好似拍拖個陣咁就自己架喇！
所以如果你唔係小女人，都係唔好搵個大男人啦，辛苦自己！ 有冇人覺得大男人是自私的表現?
我認為大男人其實只是自我中心，只不過加多個性別詞落去，然後就成了甚麼大男人、大女人吧了。 小弟對於大男人有另一番見解。
所謂"大男人"，並唔係要乜都話哂事、樣樣都要自己啱哂、要自己另一半以自己為中心、甚至乎扯高氣揚咁就叫大男人；真正嘅大男人係應該照顧同關懷到自己嘅另一半同佢身邊嘅人、明白同了解另一半嘅感受同思想、體諒同遷就到另一半嘅處境同難處先為之真係大男人。可能有好多人會諗講就容易，做就好難，但係大家又有無諗過堂堂"大男人"同女人執拗為乜呢？拗贏咗又有乜得著？你話哂事但其實另一半唔開心又有乜意思？你喺人面前好威好光采但原來建立咗喺另一半痛苦上面又內唔內疚？真真正正嘅大男人唔係睇表面咖；我都好大男人但我從來無要求，因為我對我嗰3個女朋友都好盡心盡力咁付出，所以佢哋都將最好嘅比我；平時佢哋想點我都會滿足佢哋而且唔同佢哋拗，任由佢哋話事，所以佢哋乜會同我分享；到咗今時今日佢哋都同我表明同我一齊嘅時候係最舒服、最開心同最"放肆"咖~但若然問題嚴重，我出到聲佢哋一定會聽我講，因為佢哋都知我平時乜都就哂佢，但我出到聲就一定係有問題；我哋都有個共識:"閒時女人話事、大事男人揸庒"
其實女人係要嚟錫就係人都知，但係天生女人就係被動咖啦，男人又駛乜要d 無謂"主導權"呢？女人多要求只不過係一件好簡單、好可愛嘅小事，因為佢想自己另一半証明有幾愛佢啫，根本無須介懷，由佢啦，大方d嘛，天大地大呀~男人，想同另一半快樂過日子，個心寬宏d 好！
*容人之量者、真正大丈夫，事事計較者、只係小男人咋~^^~ [quote]Originally posted by [i]BOYDWAN[/i] at 2005-5-22 03:25 AM:
小弟對於大男人有另一番見解。
所謂&... [/quote]
BOYDWAN 好有見地wor~
勁 !!!
你d 溝女文章我都睇唔少
就此謝過 :P 所以香港或其他地方不少的自以為大男人的人，其實只是小男人在充當大男人氣概，以為下下自己話事、自己大晒就有男子氣概，但其實咁樣只係為左滿足自己既一己私心同虛榮感，根本就唔係錫自己既另一半，所以呢d所謂既大男人令人討厭而不是令人喜歡就是這個原因。 曾經有個前女朋友同我講過:「其實大唔大男人唔緊要，最緊要係我鍾意你！我鍾意你自然會接受你果d所謂大男人既野，其實你耍大男人果d招數，就等於女人亂發脾氣一樣，只係想証明我愛唔愛你? 就唔就你之嘛! 如果我肯包容你呢樣野，你就會好好對我，又有咩所謂，而且我都會繼續亂發脾氣，得閒就"測試"下、証實下你愛唔愛我，嘻!」
「而且我鍾意大男人，佢要面，所以一定擔起我，我有咩事，就算好好好好小事都好，佢一定會幫我搞掂!咁有個大男人唔係好幸福咩?」
我唔知佢解釋得o岩唔o岩，但係我好記得佢呢番說話，有個女人肯用呢種態度去對我，我當時覺得幸福果個係我! (唉.......:(:(:()
大男人、大女人都好，相愛自然會配合，何必要highlight佢呢! [quote]Originally posted by [i]homan~[/i] at 2005-5-22 04:50 AM:
BOYDWAN 好有見地wor~
勁 !!!
你d 溝女文章我都睇唔少
就此謝過 :P [/quote]
homan，衷心多謝你支持先~:D~只不過分享吓而己......:P 大男人...要改其實一d都唔難,
點做? 當你搵到一個你真係好愛佢嘅女朋友, 而佢又唔鐘意自己男朋友大男人, 樣樣話晒事, 咁自然你就會死死地改左佢.
記住 --- "愛情係最偉大同有無窮威力, 它能改變一切, 包括自己嘅性格" [quote]Originally posted by [i]truelove[/i] at 2005-5-15 02:45 AM:
有無得改無咁大男人 ? 或者要經歷多一... [/quote]
要衰一次勁既! [quote]Originally posted by [i]Christy~呀華[/i] at 2005-5-24 12:57 AM:
要衰一次勁既! [/quote]
我同意
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