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事源就係咁.我只係一個好普通的男仔.今年18 三年前我同一個對我幾好.但係在各方面都有些問題(家庭,外表,打扮,行為)的女仔拍拖(A君)..一拍就三年..但係試過2次分手...不過都係係番一齊. 3個月前. 再一次分手...
今次我巳經諗得好清楚,同佢好絕咁分左手.咁話唔會再搵大家..
係依3個月. 佢搵到第二個男朋友. 而我亦搵到第二個女朋友(B君) . B君係icq識..我地第一晚就傾左好耐計...都有4-5個鐘.我同佢係十日內巳經發展到可算係男女朋友的關係. 佢係一個對我好好既女仔.佢識煮飯,打扮. 樣子,身材都ok . 係一個幾好的女仔....我巳經打算佢係我終生的對象.
但係依個時候, a君再次出現, 煩左我幾日...佢亦知b君,..佢又話想同番我一齊. 可以就我好多野..就算好難改的事.a君都會去改.....
係依種情況下..你地會點做呀?? [quote]Originally posted by [i]mcsimon0574[/i] at 2005-6-16 12:15 AM:
事源就係咁.
我只係一個好普通的男仔.今年18 三年前我同一個對我幾好.但係在各方面都有些問題(家庭,外表,打扮,行為)的女仔拍拖(A君)..一拍就三年..但係[color=Blue]試過2次分手[/color]...不過都係係番一齊. 3個月前. 再一次分手...
今次我巳經[color=Red]諗得好清楚[/color],同佢好絕咁分左手.咁話唔會再搵大家..
係依3個月. 佢搵到第二個男朋友. 而我亦搵到第二個女朋友(B君) . B君係icq識..我地第一晚就傾左好耐計...都有4-5個鐘.我同佢係十日內巳經發展到可算係男女朋友的關係. 佢係一個對我好好既女仔.佢[color=Red]識煮飯,打扮. 樣子,身材都ok[/color] . 係一個幾好的女仔....[color=Red]我巳經打算佢係我終生的對象[/color].
但係依個時候, a君再次出現, 煩左我幾日...佢亦知b君,..佢又話想同番我一齊. 可以就我好多野..就算好難改的事.a君都會去改.....
係依種情況下..你地會點做呀??
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[color=Blue]機會我覺得一次就夠，佢無珍惜，係佢既錯，加上我估佢返黎搵返你，可能只係有競爭既心態，佢想贏B君[/color]
[color=Red]都同B開始左，佢又唔差，又預左成世同佢一齊，B君都無做錯過，好明顯，B君啦[/color]
[[i] Last edited by Rika on 2005-6-16 at 12:39 AM [/i]] 比我會同ａ一齊．．
但係會有第４，第５．．．第６次．．．分手．．
其實就禁睇，答案好簡單，一定係ｂ．．
不過，你有咩吸引到ｂ呀？？
你有冇諗過可能係因為你有野吸引到ｂ，佢鍾意你，所以先扮到對你ｏｒ其他野禁好呢？？
仲有，大家既了解係唔係可以同ａ相比呢？？
係呢ｄ因素下．．
再加上本人比較懶．．
我唔想從新開始了解另一半，咩都重新發展．．
我寧願信多次．．同ａ一齊．．
（ｐｓ，呢ｄ野係冇一個道理講出黎既．．
冇論結果係點，到你大個左，你都唔會後悔．．
因為你見到後生時，曾經試過激烈既戀愛．．
禁就夠喇．．！！） **** 作者被禁止或刪除 內容自動屏蔽 **** 好馬不喫囬頭草！而且妳你又講到B甘好，“巳經打算佢係我終生的對象”。
其實道理好簡單，分手左甘多次，一定有些不可解決的問題存在你們中間。
就算繫兩個都唔完美，你都應該選個可以用少點力氣改造的啦！不用迷茫啦！
[[i] Last edited by kaixinren on 2005-6-16 at 02:57 AM [/i]] 冇人支持我，哈哈．．
禁你都係選ｂ啦如果你喜歡．．
我驚累左你．．＝﹏＝”” [quote]Originally posted by [i]mcsimon0574[/i] at 2005-6-16 12:15 AM:
事源就係咁.
我只係一個好普通的男... [/quote]
既然你同A 試過唔夾, 就冇謂一齊啦
一齊只會仲辛苦jar
阿 B 你同佢都ok gwa???
俾果機會大家, 唔夾大不了分手,
第二果law
最緊要係,
你同A 仲有冇feel 先?
大家仲有冇可能一齊先?
同B 有冇feel ?
同B 一齊會唔會開心過 A???
希望幫到你啦
:D [quote]Originally posted by [i]nightmare[/i] at 2005-6-16 01:20 AM:
冇人支持我，哈哈．．
禁你都係選ｂ啦如果你喜歡．．
我驚累左你．．＝﹏＝”” [/quote]
brother,
我支持你 "激烈戀愛" ga wo~
俾d 回憶自己不知幾好 ~ Just imagine who you would want to turn to when you are really sad, who you would want to share your happiest moments with. Even though A has her faults, you may love her more and vice versa. [quote]Originally posted by [i]homan~[/i] at 2005-6-16 01:26:
brother,
我支持你 "激烈戀愛" ga wo~
俾d 回憶自己不知幾好 ~ [/quote]
多謝多謝．．
我都係扮下野發表下．．＾＾”
我既淺見唔算得係乜．．＝０＝ B for Best Choice!!!! 但係話曬都3年時間. 我都有d唔捨得佢...雖然a君比唔上b君...但係佢始終有佢個人既優點.
我驚我真係會心(遠)...你地明唔明呀??....其實開頭同b君一齊. 都只是為左激a君...相處落先覺得幾好...先有空間發展.. **** 作者被禁止或刪除 內容自動屏蔽 **** I have a similar situation ar... I am breaking up with my 6 yrs gf... (I don't have a new gf tho)
I think 我諗得好清楚. There are too many problems between us.
However, when she call me and ask to get back together, I don't know what to say...
I think I have a little 心(遠), but I really think we will break up in the future if we get back together. Deep down in heart think breaking up is the best choice, but it's hard to do.
I don't want to hurt her, and I do care about her. Any suggestion how I can handle this? 我既case同你差不多，所以好明白你既感受......新的一個當然是會覺得好，但舊的一個比較了解，亦清楚自己同佢相處得會好夾，如果唔係過往點會一齊咁耐。而且我同你都可能係比較念舊情既人，所以真係唔想自己會令到前女友唔開心......雖然係佢變心先至會散，但始終都對佢好份感情，所以真係好難去選擇同邊個一齊...... 我覺得同一煲冷飯炒完再炒，死硬！另，積極回應者各加三分 我終於擇左啦.....我聽左你地意見後.都覺得b係好d..但係個心好似仲係放唔低a君../.
我巳經叫左a君唔好再搵我啦...但係又好似唔捨得咁...有沒方法可以忘記佢呀. [quote]Originally posted by [i]mcsimon0574[/i] at 2005-6-17 02:17 PM:
我終於擇左啦.....我聽左你地意見後.... [/quote]
你同a君講:收皮啦你 凸=.="
搞掂=.=............ 但係話曬都有三年感情..凸佢我真係做唔出. 你問得呢個問題, 其實都揀左B啦 (你成個post 都讚B 貶A）
只係想大家支持你啫，比ｄ信心自己啦
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