[28/6吹水加分題]會唔會有以德報怨呢
你地覺得係咪真係人點對你．你點對人 係必然咖呢??咁其實會唔會有以德報怨呢樣野??
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[[i] Last edited by 月月鳥 on 2005-6-29 at 11:28 AM [/i]] 我係既,不過好多時你自己對人好,對方唔知點解會唔鍾意你,呢個係好多人會遇到既事~~~ [b]不應該:[/b] M5L)\k'w(baM| }*g
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wt is以直報怨?? [quote]Originally posted by [i]心冷之戀＊行[/i] at 2005-6-29 11:18:
你地覺得係咪真係人點對你．你點對人 係必然咖呢??
咁其實會唔會有以德報怨呢樣野??
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以德報怨???而家咩野年代ar,唔通人地迫你埋牆角屈你$$$你仲同佢講道理咩,人地迫你埋牆角屈你$$$梗系同佢死過la,你唔反抗人地咪以為你削law,跟住咪佮到上你心口,第一次你比$100佢,咁第二次條友就屈你雙倍架la,之後就越屈越多,下下以德報怨會死架,所以我堅持以彼之道還施彼身呢個道理!!! Very little chance. Now day people only think of themselve, 以德報怨 d ppl most likely all die before they get old coz they are the one who always got pick on by the ganster because people think they are soft. 以德報怨 can't live in this day just too hard for them to live in a world like this. 我以前對人都幾好,但人地對我很差
人點對你你點對人不係必然 [quote]Originally posted by [i]清揚[/i] at 2005-6-29 12:15 PM::U;ZR#wn
以德報怨???而家咩野年代ar,唔通人... [/quote]L4UMh hA.R
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呢d唔係叫以德報怨喎, 呢d只係呢個人軟弱, 唔敢反抗. 保住自己d野係正常反應, 事後報警都係正常動作. 以德報怨係之前有個人對你做左d衰野, 你唔會諗住報復, 你仲會幫佢改過.
呢個年頭都係利字行頭, 以得報怨就好少啦, 最多都係反左面, 以後唔見果個人算數. 點都怕會被佢再玩一次. 睇埋<創世紀>, 見到葉榮添以德報怨, 最後比人害, 真係心都寒埋(雖然宜家劇情有d搵戲做的感覺).
[[i] Last edited by singdotcom on 2005-6-29 at 02:20 PM [/i]] 我個人就認為係冇以德報怨呢樣野m\Us [-c4D0{t
你對人好時,人地末必對你好
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如果有個人殺你全家 你明知係佢做 唔通你唔報警拉佢呀 以德報怨可能係最毒既報復法.
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[[i] Last edited by raymond302 on 2005-6-29 at 06:48 PM [/i]] [quote]Originally posted by [i]singdotcom[/i] at 2005-6-29 14:10:M1Z$CH5k6J0X6w U7B
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呢d唔係叫以德報怨喎, 呢d只係呢... [/quote]
總知我就唔會更不鼓勵別人以德報怨la,我剩系識以彼之道還施彼身同埋有仇不報非君子.
以德報怨呢種如此看破紅麈的事唔啱現代都市人架,留番比D得道高僧去、與世無爭的人去做la...... 可能係我地未到個個境界XD?？ 仇恨只會帶來仇恨。 我需然無咁偉大以德報怨，但都唔想以怨報怨，我相信人在做，天在看，善惡到頭終有報。h5yE&D8y
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有時恨一個人是很痛苦的，點解唔選擇睇開啲，放開懷抱？;) [quote]Originally posted by [i]RahXephon[/i] at 2005-6-30 12:08 AM:Kn r(]s9A
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我覺得人點對你．你點對人, 絕對唔喺必然的. s;]N6U8H s9xZ
人對我好, 我對人好, 就應該要必然. 這個是做人的品格問題, 唔想比人話冇品, 就一定要做嘢.(e%] }&B3d7ZC X
至於會唔會以德報怨, 我覺得要睇人而定, 或者清楚啲講, 有冇其他因素要你以德報怨.
比方你女朋友, 仔女對你地唔好, 我地就會以怨報怨. 好多時我地都會無條件對他們做一些以德報怨的事. 另外, 有些你重視的朋友, 一開始時, 你都會以德報怨, 無他, 因為我們重視這些人.8}Bw RObo`#TV Cv
至於對些三唔識七的人, 我覺得睇自己的條件各底線. 不竟, 現今社會唔會好似古人咁會學聖人之道, 相對上名節(聖人)現代人會放底些或唔會考慮. ;h#\g7qHuzX
整體上我覺得會有以德報怨, 但是出發點未必是因為德行之心.*ZJ @ o Y M'X8Y
(唔知大家有冇睇過, 中山狼傳 (以前中學課文) 都喺講類似topic. 基本上我係屬於"人地比咩我,我就比咩人"種,但係我相信有以德報怨呢樣野.但我同時亦相信以德報怨人出發點都未必係一樣.有d人係真心咁以德報怨,但有d就可能另有目的(e.g.收買人心),就好似笑傲江湖入面d名門正派,表面上仁義道德,實際上就壞事做盡.這些偽君子比真小人更可怕,所以如果個人係另有目的而以德報怨,咁就比以怨報怨人更可怕 好睇在你對件事看唔看得開。你對件事看唔開既話，就好難做得到以德報怨。就好似我前女友有第三者，我當時無鬧過佢，而家都無嬲佢，咁都算以德報怨掛? 但咁都係因為我放得開先做得到。Yp3Y4OeT
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其次就係你既胸有幾寬宏大量。有d人真係可以大量到唔同人計較恩恩怨怨。
其實有人覺得以德報怨係蠢，但一些看得開和通透的人能夠做到以德報怨，其實即係佢對個件事己經掌握在心中手中。以前我有個好麻煩既同事，個個都討厭佢，但到佢需要幫助時，我都會幫佢手，因為始終係同事，同埋我既良心俾我知道如果唔幫佢既話，我自己都係個自私自利既人。所以我都會幫佢。'hi#uEzM
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以德報怨未必只係落得對方繼續以惡相待既，咁諗未免太過悲觀消極。人總要有希望，人本善良嘛~~