有冇人試過同一個俾自己更加有錢o既女仔拍拖??
我自問唔算窮, 出身小康之家, 但係我宜家同我一齊個女仔真係好浮誇, 出入去邊都一定要的士, 家住新界, 日日都洗成300幾蚊車錢, 個個月都有成兩皮幾零用錢洗......本人只係得5000蚊唔夠, 相處落漸漸發覺同佢既價值觀好唔同, 好難溝通同感到好大既壓力......唔知可以有d咩解決方法呢?? 請各位仁兄俾d意見我.......感激!!!!! 你有無試過問佢一d 假設性嘅問題 ? 例如問 : 如果我一日無晒錢，咁點算 ?或者再直借機同佢傾下將來嘅打算，講下你嘅狀況 & Expectation，帶出將來可能同佢一齊嘅生活模式(e.g. 財政，生活水平)，聽下佢嘅意見 & Expectation。咁你就會知道佢可唔可以同你過一 d 無咁"浮誇"嘅生活。 好主意!! 我諗我都要同佢認真d傾呢個問題至得...... 有壓力架，我最後接受唔到，所以自行失蹤，唔比佢搵到我，不了了之，就咁算左
我絕對強調要自己D，唔好同佢一齊浮誇，我係食平野、買平野架喇，唔洗理佢鐘唔鐘意 世界甘大....真係.....
樓主你每個月有5000做零用錢都只係算小康....我地呢d一個月得兩千零既,米算好窮?你屋企人每個月比成五千蚊你做零用,其實好有米下架拉
講返正題,我覺得好睇你過吾過到自己哥關,佢駛錢大小係佢既事,甘佢豪得起,問題係到你將來,你忍吾忍受到佢錢比你多,甚至第時佢養埋你,又或者因為你錢比佢小佢睇你吾起,如果以上呢類既你都無問題,甘我覺得你地係埋一齊無問題 或者咁講, 你地ge生活圈子根本就唔同. 你遇到好多ge問題, 0係佢眼中可能完全唔係問題, 有d有錢女就係咁, 就係不知艱辛是何物, 你同佢呻話乜乜物物, 佢根本完全唔明白, 事關呢d問題係窮等人家ge專利, 佢呢d有錢人係唔會遇到. 平凡是褔~ "我係食平野、買平野架喇，唔洗理佢鐘唔鐘意"
講得好!!
我平時最多都係著下Lacoste個D, 我唔會理我女朋友鐘唔鐘意 I have.
There's nothing to worry about. Be yourself, take her out and do things your way. You don't need to take the taxi to go to some fancy restaurant and then watch a musical. You can cook a nice dinner and invite her over and watch some vintage movies on DVD, and maybe do some things afterwards.
Girls dig personality. One thing that might fascinate her is how much fun you can have without spending the amount of money she's been spending.
The only thing you should keep in mind is that, you shouldn't act like a bum and embarass her in front of her "rich friends". Like ordering grill-cheese sandwich when everyone is having lobster. You don't need to go with the lobster, you've much better of with a mid-price speciality dish that start everyone talking about it. 我都覺得要做番自己, 愈係覺得因為錢而同佢唔夾, 就愈大壓力。 最緊要過到自己o個關, 其實老土d講句, 冇錢都可以開心, 睇下你點睇........thx everyone!!!!!
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