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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
7 B$ d4 I# R! i6 ?3 ]+ E0 T: iconsider in the following (not in order):* X) g* f- X1 v+ A' e
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
, W' l9 P8 G7 S9 w. t2nd, how serious he/she has done?
: W6 S# l6 Q' `: S% q# w. n* N3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?) f/ o, O% E$ J0 P
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?8 l2 y. V. }& e+ K; t9 G5 H. T
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for me:
) J+ N' m) S; o( Wi may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
5 p U5 S# V! l4 w3 gbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)( A- k, ]+ B) m9 k
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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0 S2 N( V" T1 G) Tbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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