有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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$ n* g: C; p- b6 Nany suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..! }4 d  z& V3 j- }- J) }
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..% H1 E6 O1 _' I3 s, @. N
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
) w7 I3 v- V0 f) L& r1 u, Y" }哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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7 Y' m; L7 I/ `9 A  o; w* x+ _+ Rgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me' H* ^" y6 ^$ V) M3 [1 w
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唔係好想講experience...
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....# @/ q  d, K/ o% P2 [' P$ J0 a
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我唔係想做獨行俠, : K2 B0 v/ I* x% b
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.$ q/ j5 ?3 ^$ Q7 ^
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:7 u% g+ N* a) n) Z
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- ?1 F! Y5 b; f2 ]" l我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”