有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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1 y  }/ q% r# P. U  S. m. f) Jany suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
% z8 l- Q2 Q" g" C; h7 ]我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..* b" c! R% |, K1 w9 b- u* t
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
( ~5 a3 \# B' A  ~哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me& C3 b9 ~5 T# `; R6 F
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唔係好想講experience...
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc...." H8 N1 C, V9 h% A

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只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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% A; P9 X( I5 m1 P7 p; [6 K; h我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.9 ]4 r- @. T7 \' y9 b  X( }6 C

6 O$ r7 C  ]0 ~解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:# M! X: F# w8 ?8 I
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！
& ~( ^5 u9 y# R2 B( k% X6 Q% p只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”