有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...: Q7 P% k1 h, h& t
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...4 s- H/ K) ~  M% m: f
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
* g+ ^0 {$ K% n  N6 _: |我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..; w) {: f2 }# u  F4 X6 [* n
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:: X4 |- ~. b% `! c0 {0 [! R( q
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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  I, w4 V$ }( ]  k, D0 @- r( C7 Lgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me
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/ o" I$ t$ x! V4 w唔係好想講experience...
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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我唔係想做獨行俠, $ E' `- r" T9 p. G- t/ f
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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9 u. q0 c4 S: q* ^( s6 D8 }我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.+ j. ]5 ~7 b' @; u% B

' r4 H/ v$ t% t+ t' B& @解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:: |9 ?9 K! M, i% O& ^# o) }9 c3 }
個人分享:
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) c8 {6 X6 q* `4 c, B我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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