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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
" E, S3 d' b: `' ~consider in the following (not in order):
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; @8 O* K0 E* Z4 B+ ]1st, how close the relationship we are?% w1 u' ^  U0 d% S
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
/ L& S: P3 D1 l3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?  `( n8 d0 g+ A( y" A0 z
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?7 N9 t. @& _" l+ P; l
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for me:
1 v' v! j. K# `4 l$ h; a/ Si may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
) P+ N, K6 u2 s( tbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)0 j+ M& w5 `! J+ a7 V5 U
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!! {8 S: g; Z) c2 r5 I; o
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。. Y! c9 a2 y5 e* V% ?1 ]- P( j
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。; u9 u; c; u$ R" S- N
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個8 L9 y) g7 `/ L. ]8 G
只要有數我都會滅