大家樂1234

勸佢收手
( {6 m5 I9 Z8 s3 u3 A% t假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way: J% W: R0 U/ v: I% \! O
consider in the following (not in order):, y$ f6 Q* S6 I* G4 L
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1st, how close the relationship we are?9 v* v5 K/ }# t0 |5 o- A' i0 H- X) z
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
: r$ a/ H1 i1 X! B6 S4 i& F3 a3 F3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
7 `3 Z# V! a4 a. C4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?5 J* n2 R/ j0 N8 Q
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for me:7 D0 X3 _# }: O: a8 L( Z+ |" l
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
3 l- h. n9 X! p& F2 xbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
) Z) u7 P( Y9 J% ]% Cbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!% p9 Q7 Y4 q) \$ e: K/ g
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
- d3 B' C3 K5 s$ M6 r第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。3 g/ ^: I# ?6 ?
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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