熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* G) y' n) }9 `+ ~* u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# j' \% q. I4 `! S, v' z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 U$ [. _  P" q個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 x0 M& S$ U- V6 ]) \! Y& [覺得好空虛
* H9 U' K  m$ D! \9 ]其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, A" H6 R# K  g$ s- e  b% D" i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" U* o- x- D- }7 n' Z2 C
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 \* R7 a& l  y

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
  X+ q0 C& Q. ]8 o; Y6 @0 |  E/ T- K但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
' k* D' F+ K' E1 `0 ]' |; ^: z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* {) w+ v0 S/ B9 x/ G; C/ Q4 g) B1 J
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 Z! [! b- W( ^( Q你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 z3 [+ J) Z- m$ @/ d) W4 T  g$ T1 o) H
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  j: Z/ w+ u" B& C6 r
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' j0 A& t8 M4 d9 H3 P) W
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.. [+ R) c. D, Z; H, b# ]7 A
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:& l7 ]% y6 F/ O# p. ]
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
' Y5 A! d3 {3 n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," q& e3 h1 S2 U/ ^. ~7 U& S
日日有車站,
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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 U- Q- \# u: w9 v
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  ]! P* L$ |- v; Y6 Q好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ Y: M7 i  o4 J( L. T琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 V/ K; M$ f( B1 o! _0 m
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 O4 m& a3 v7 s. `( E1 v' Q. m覺得好空虛
) K2 k$ m3 C8 J4 E: T其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( @& T2 s$ A  R5 B0 w" @卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: o( n$ f  i. u7 _* _/ Y6 A用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& \) `# V, F- k" Z" Q+ f& x9 ^

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+ h$ P. g8 j. |' Q這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 E1 Z0 s( q1 E( k  J唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
- P+ v3 B: e6 h8 A3 N有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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; Z5 W: V3 f/ q% D* ZPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
2 W+ ]; o7 I' R; a$ y0 z! e+ |a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long% R4 l. p; T+ D4 B- L' P
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.) _9 C- ]2 I  l/ c
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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0 V" |* \3 `& a0 n* H5 }4 L. ~Just another thought on lonliness:
4 M/ s, d. l8 q# g. VLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
# j7 h9 g6 g5 S( a" @( r$ r9 ~, zBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～$ d. A, Y, m( P2 v4 f3 I5 Q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
" v% N+ m( s( a# N, v( m0 a- F3 z7 b就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
5 t! p# k3 D* V, I2 q或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～' p6 Z) B2 F4 f/ s" ^1 g
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
8 ?8 A& u. M, w! M很少會超過一天～& [6 Z4 x3 o7 E
要期待更好的明天呀！