熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. _$ [) D* H3 `2 [0 q% E  g# C; C+ u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ B9 c: w% c5 F  ?) E琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 T) C' U: R& `- n* X! j- X& f個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) K, a4 J$ K1 }# C3 V$ x* B  S, n
覺得好空虛
* p8 [! q6 A4 _9 i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 C2 N; E- Y- h. ^8 X$ ]6 L卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 I* O$ B8 z9 u0 v9 y所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ W. X$ f# K7 T; B
日日有車站,9 a3 k* p+ i% b0 Y/ L7 {& ^
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 A& \. _/ \& O4 [) N如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! P) Y0 ~* d# T: r/ \3 ^我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
- }1 C- {$ @5 X, t' ~感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..+ f: z- S1 q1 D) j. [* H
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.  u3 J/ v6 y8 ^; Z" W5 q- w
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:' }; J0 G8 m- ^$ w- A
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 c3 w# N$ i' L3 d/ w7 A/ O/ V6 ^所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 W. F0 |! _- e( a" u- u( }
日日有車站,
  U* p6 k! @5 z8 x0 ~有目標!

7 n9 H/ s' D! r3 \6 B& Uwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 Z! \$ G# B0 B2 G如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: o- Q4 ]8 P  @+ M7 ?# @好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# h& `* Y5 A& r  m8 W+ k% n9 Z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, u9 ~4 H  Z1 {/ l) G( I個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 @% p- B* \3 v/ h覺得好空虛. D) j* B( @( s. v+ c( R' x
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! ^9 X2 v' c  r+ R. L卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! m' m3 n; g$ j7 E用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.3 t2 e. d( C! Z# @! v3 n
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
6 M$ M" S- B3 M3 I6 q1 f9 [有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 w' R$ I  P. U1 Z/ v$ ]
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
9 N7 y8 |3 l' _- e4 N4 b% v  hb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
# S( o% r6 r# o" f  Y- I9 ]  {c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
8 G& u1 r$ t+ W' |Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
: g/ C6 k& {. g; w" y# VBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～" D2 n+ r/ A/ W
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# G0 @/ g; Y4 a: G8 J( G7 }6 J" |就好似睇完一套好睇的電影0 l- ~) S: ~/ P. v7 C
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
/ l' P" E$ u; d/ d( o空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 V3 i, x* y9 Q7 G3 f% \0 k% B很少會超過一天～. ~4 }' X7 R7 O, u7 Q& E. m, N" d
要期待更好的明天呀！