熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' U2 ?+ y  B: \, c  ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 W* X) l3 ~# A9 G( ]) O
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% b' Q# n. X( g* |& p$ I. R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ `2 C) x/ ?; O* O  H8 p4 c1 _3 \
覺得好空虛
& g; C. ]( v/ N/ _" b0 x" C' Z' d* v' s% t其實早幾次都有試過係咁' m5 l6 }% [+ S* V2 p* a
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! u5 x3 e) l  j0 B8 T: h! {( E6 S
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 C$ q' ^4 F1 l0 [3 K8 q' g所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 k) B" i- f2 V日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙( T* c# s; }) ~7 U& T2 b% w4 B
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! C9 k9 b: X8 a6 e# S' [" N如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶., M6 @" ?7 i+ I. K2 l2 a- }1 _
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 X3 F; K8 Q7 t4 E4 g; H' c
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
0 ?5 {/ ]8 |0 o總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:  h% d7 O2 X( R
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 H7 h! @9 G4 x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 t$ `( V) S- N
日日有車站,/ O0 e8 k* \+ }8 B, x" q
有目標!

& p5 `  E. O! }8 e' Pwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 z9 N  }8 y3 K$ p如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 C# c# [/ C" g2 S+ [好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 {/ U, m' A' W
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; S- v$ i. G, @. W# k7 ?, D
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 u4 T% F! }6 s/ ?+ V
覺得好空虛* D% H3 N/ k1 H& i* `
其實早幾次都有試過係咁. a  _. y0 {$ x2 J; U5 s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ g8 g0 P' S' X. n* h0 ^
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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5 Z2 g1 e6 h7 ?這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.) x3 {7 w" |7 ]% E
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* k) o6 ?  ~0 Z3 e* Y0 S- B
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.$ r1 k; N) s$ O0 C! \. b- V
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
) I" G: e' i/ c, f9 n& v/ s+ ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
8 C% g9 d8 e, p( t/ L: _$ bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
5 J& ]/ g. W; j5 Sc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:+ `4 }* F) ^, d8 T  \' {
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....! [3 t8 e) k+ O6 W. k! C5 T
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～: X9 n1 K7 a; g1 k9 Q2 n
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺- x  A- E* r* K7 G/ }$ C9 j
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
/ a  F  V, j) `& W  B或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
) ~: l2 q& Q+ h# L空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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% d, b0 p; _* _2 F: M要期待更好的明天呀！