熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! p$ R1 J8 X# j
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 T1 t, X' e0 R  t5 G/ V# i琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 W5 M; S6 C: a+ @4 _, `9 V/ F& y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ q5 ]3 n8 A; `" K& g6 S8 T
覺得好空虛
6 Y% H7 A, |# s  g: @0 p其實早幾次都有試過係咁* m+ l/ d9 ~# g3 q# e$ {1 f
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 j- X- g/ D9 m# n! Y用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' A0 x6 g! S5 }3 ^# ^; x

5 r$ }1 I3 v/ i: g# Z[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,! t& U' D, Q$ H+ t! H/ i
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 m, m" \. g$ a! {" S1 J. q熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& o1 n, d9 I& T$ F所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# ^& u' m' S; m# J. T
日日有車站,& z9 _! E$ Y$ u
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙$ O7 M$ W# O( _" y+ D; m
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# P5 l- T8 |( m- |* C如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

$ m# X- h* C$ E1 T( _! h( q: u我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.6 S5 \* W$ o& M1 [3 Z$ X' [
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..  w9 m' [# ^/ H9 Q  l+ H6 w* g
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
, N1 v- ^% q* h0 Y! @& T0 Y2 p1 O' }總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
" q* W9 O+ ~6 K! e7 ^* I其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 \7 e/ p0 m$ `% Y: y! o所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ r! r% D) F& I, D  V$ \. x
日日有車站,
# X2 L* Z  O% k: z9 r0 O有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 v, O! r6 W- |, _
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) J8 K& K# w; a; V3 T6 I. ^
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! k' ^  g& ~* O' O9 ~. e琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 B4 M- j$ ?0 S3 A% D( ]; m
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 s" g$ T- f' J' N! B. H
覺得好空虛
( b! @6 c. X; e5 F9 w0 s+ H其實早幾次都有試過係咁( Z: [; i. ]4 T! T
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& Z9 o( W& G- E9 a7 ]$ k) \5 R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" K2 A; l* T7 Y% _

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' ?1 U! i3 U9 L這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% l5 g2 S, A: J$ F3 G% n: T8 S
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.+ O$ [4 }7 x+ _4 N6 A
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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' o, i- g4 ?# B# S8 n; n5 W. sPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:' y1 y/ _' a: p% \8 U
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ ~2 w, n8 |$ Ab) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
9 e0 J8 R$ f  d0 J3 i3 E. nc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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1 L  R; \. u5 i0 YJust another thought on lonliness:( K- W# m8 x6 B) L9 j" {* `7 r$ V! [
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....' n; f2 C# g+ j* a- x, N  H2 U' Q
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 h2 m. T% `- j7 T& P0 x& E) b7 T
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 G4 C9 G9 K7 ]0 H# {* I/ a就好似睇完一套好睇的電影! g1 J1 [, l; x# W1 d1 r. ]
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～" k, Q/ e# G8 E2 U% j
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
" a3 O0 F/ L) M: u2 v5 q, p; B6 i很少會超過一天～
; `  k* j6 y1 L要期待更好的明天呀！