熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ I& X: \" \8 a+ K8 g
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 ^) V" |, |3 ]
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 g# V9 J$ K. g6 V
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) }1 f0 c5 r2 m覺得好空虛
! C+ a4 t  d+ h* `其實早幾次都有試過係咁( \( p7 R+ x% S9 y' G. g
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 v* N5 M7 }- u
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
8 z7 n7 f) F7 x: A" j% e. c但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺, y# }5 |" w% J" m
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 t; l/ z  r8 `8 n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 ~( v8 ~, R5 m7 w  }, ?- [
日日有車站,
$ H& i: U8 E8 F! o  ]有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙0 d+ A  t+ }! P2 Z# [
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. a8 j, z, O/ o  G: @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 E" e! N( T6 o( S0 o. C) `感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( D2 R; ~: I+ D2 ~6 p; w' X2 p玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.$ v# Z8 |# u. g) v" x  R  F- [- d
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:' _7 N8 @8 A+ c1 u% v; G% E
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ U! F2 X& @( ]+ H' L
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 s7 a3 P' A% c8 r日日有車站,
3 a' w- O0 v; i& [2 Y- _有目標!

3 Q* w( i; x( d" dwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 v! \- a; i9 G5 c, j# v& i如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( N2 Z0 U6 t6 w好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 `7 o- }; A: Q) U2 S8 N& w0 ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% h: h+ y; y  Y4 Y) t# F" J
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. J; n/ \* w0 V3 S4 x4 E( w覺得好空虛/ k2 @/ {1 m+ P3 [
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 k0 k! \7 T. y: t卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  S! F8 [  X" u' F7 d2 r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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! T. F) ^8 H! z4 [這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.2 I6 _& b" u6 h! g
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.' B. E- R. P8 U8 ^
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
+ b# u6 s6 u* z" |) N6 {5 ~. {a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
; v( M( ]8 U7 t( T5 |b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ V) K5 Q$ L- I3 \+ n0 N
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
( [. L. P; A5 e7 Z0 ?$ _/ |$ M$ a; HLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
* z$ s4 n8 B' IBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 K: Y5 ]4 j: w8 [/ S9 v* c
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
$ Q6 `; M# |2 w3 O& ~就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
, N3 E! R2 x6 |+ Y或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
2 D( E! N  \8 Q空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 B) @# F! c$ Z5 t
很少會超過一天～
: v0 W9 B: S% ]  C- l0 N要期待更好的明天呀！