熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 a# z, m  g4 e9 k3 ~! l3 N% X好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ P$ _/ ^! L/ p& Y3 C7 |2 H5 g琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 @" |# |& s  g6 E8 a8 l個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 Z' v" H$ J3 R! j; `5 o& J$ B
覺得好空虛2 S- M2 u# y. b* d6 \0 V' |9 \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁( a2 L0 a1 P5 f  J# n
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 L! o3 F( T1 n5 v% w$ W  Q
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& `; W8 H% ], |; L" q, h; D3 w/ t

; a+ A5 c6 ]" |, v% R[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,- P2 t. e" r1 U; r) C" y( q
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
) t3 b% c" f# C) ^+ ?- a5 ]熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. K6 }, v( J+ L
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
0 G  u. o, ~' E: ^2 S日日有車站,/ r& Q' D2 d) f
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙" h7 U2 i$ D: e. M  P+ T, a, S6 G9 B
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 R' k8 F/ c0 g2 j! q3 Z7 R  m  g如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: G! ?3 w: i. o3 @; K6 e4 }
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 s  p( l' h) M- Z* E
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.8 C, q" w4 @0 c. s0 w
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
& B% R  _/ _; r$ r3 f$ @其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; H' s! Z, d# C+ E
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. }& T! ^' c2 G% M4 l2 }+ X; w9 J
日日有車站,
/ A7 e6 w* d; P+ a+ z2 H3 c有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 W! z( M( I6 n
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. q& O2 y% A# b3 C$ J* O  d  _1 R+ P好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ n$ T' q0 G7 s
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 D; c5 ?4 S$ K( `
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: x7 p3 F' u. ?& [" W3 E& `) \% k覺得好空虛
! s0 E6 {" Z/ G3 r, b其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 j: m2 x3 Y# C: y1 L+ D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) k5 f/ x. Q) h6 ^: b6 n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( n5 Y9 c4 l" F4 _. V

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3 v" ~8 d' a, ?' x3 o/ T這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.) b! s2 G+ q& j& M' a" L
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
# G! v6 Q) u9 {+ d* m% M有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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* P! E7 [7 c% I: M# Z7 }% KPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:  @0 R2 @5 |, i; {
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long7 S& l) i4 v3 e/ ?$ I5 e% L
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
0 _; q. n! {' T' O3 X; Lc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 Y) u' e# R* d# y
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Just another thought on lonliness:
( n' d* `! u6 D% ULonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....' }( p$ C& X3 o7 k' d. Z4 @
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～& Y( P% e2 r& v& c- c
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
9 p; \# A9 z& o( v0 e+ o2 d$ ?4 T就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
2 |' J2 p1 D* O5 g! y( v或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
$ g) ?1 |/ ]0 a空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
  M2 |$ L& W$ K很少會超過一天～
+ g/ f8 X" U! O, ^3 q, ]9 v8 x要期待更好的明天呀！