熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% o0 c% S- \8 w6 u0 ?+ d" R8 Q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 R! O. T& |( D4 ^$ o琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, C+ a/ S- n: n# D8 u% C個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 Y7 L. p/ q! i7 K5 T+ i" `! e
覺得好空虛
8 X  F. ]0 u6 e8 a其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ ~8 x2 c$ m+ j: A7 k) N) e1 K卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! t& {- q0 S9 Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) w2 K, i1 ]# K" {. d

3 d+ w( k# O6 G9 ][ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,* m. ^* }/ @7 t6 }6 E
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
# W9 y+ M7 @( @" `4 z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 X( Q( ]' M# w; b" W8 p% y9 \所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( {3 S* R; f, _1 L
日日有車站,* d& G2 c9 T. {0 {' G, w
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
1 W9 e; N8 A3 G, B3 O) u你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# f+ g$ P# z( h2 _, \  d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.) G& F3 N+ A* u3 G$ }1 k
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..2 F$ y  ^+ O6 t0 f& X: x! H7 q
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.- o6 I* l7 h. k* b& M9 l, I: `
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
7 {; A8 c) N0 I9 W其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 |% t5 a' B( z# }7 U1 j5 i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: g# X4 D! Z# B5 ]$ r
日日有車站,
8 s7 U' K0 o# j; K6 |& {3 e有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; V* ]6 A, R- d/ |5 A2 o  Y. j! L如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ T/ Q6 U9 R# o4 I  \8 w+ ~好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 ^* G& a+ S! G9 x0 b琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
7 x  O9 W4 U5 t) ?9 b8 i* U個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) D. M) m& h% [& X* W, w' P1 K! R8 R覺得好空虛; r, v) }8 r5 b) U
其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 _, {4 m2 L7 a* M) a* i/ Q2 D8 I
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 K% V$ b' j+ V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.' d+ r7 V2 v7 Y
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
/ M2 d0 m7 ~6 u( T# X. l( \有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own." M+ V: J/ b  ^; y% v

' ~; x7 g3 H9 T6 W- hPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
7 o4 E0 X# I; A# Ra) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& [4 @& J' D" _- eb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
8 E$ e8 a4 r9 s1 s. zc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
; p. H7 t) j( d( W; gLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....; P( T; K$ |, Q1 L* n
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～1 F* j3 B3 p  ^: b+ C8 ]: _; {- h
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
: q$ Z, H1 ^- y2 r( Z就好似睇完一套好睇的電影- F! n1 R' l! t. g& U# }, U$ c, ~3 D
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
. C1 Y  `) A4 ?7 c0 |4 q空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
" j* }; `* @. A0 |) o  l7 x# o很少會超過一天～
. @8 X/ ]& N, q+ E- O9 l要期待更好的明天呀！