熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' ?( u: O6 S7 v) o' Y5 F
好唔鍾意呢種感覺& h! c! B$ K2 _$ x6 a
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* S; d' x) i* ]+ U( q* d
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ X% U5 ]& m; k2 y/ N
覺得好空虛( I, I2 N1 R/ p8 j0 k1 E: y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 l  v& c+ D" D+ u
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' F: B" w. p/ E& w
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 b) R! F. l* j但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 c# V4 i' j! a/ ?! Z0 C. n' y熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. g" `' y2 _' E! a# p/ B
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ q) q1 y5 E3 }- A日日有車站,  P) W+ J; q( Y1 l, s5 H5 Q7 L
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
  R5 j) e. l' |% c8 d9 a/ A你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 F  q# G0 E: d, _; o
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

6 Z+ s" {, v- \" z1 R我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ P* q/ i+ C5 I感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..* y7 ^2 e: Z/ s0 j, \
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心./ s  ]4 B- ^! D/ W. S* @) d
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:9 X7 Q" ^+ J% H6 U) V2 z3 l$ @) F
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ I' |; W3 [$ Z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  U% ]; \* z, x/ a( H; c
日日有車站,
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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) F8 D/ h- M$ \* h如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ G& U3 ?% s0 _3 X6 b' T
好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 L: K1 D' O1 W* D% v. f9 ?, ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; X1 Y% Y7 l( l- {' R( V7 J1 A個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ M5 O3 ~% P8 X6 `& d* {
覺得好空虛2 H/ ?% Q" T" E" p: {( Z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁  ^2 J8 E  O" o2 b9 }2 Q, T& B* X
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. v9 ]- Q  a" A% \( B+ t" l用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ c) i6 E" s/ B: n; _, }; o, o8 N

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.3 D3 ?; T7 I! I1 w, ^. g
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.2 R( T' p" J1 I5 ^; o
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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( {5 l" L6 {& u$ g% F$ @" JPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ o5 Z+ i. k5 g" {6 la) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
2 b% u/ k- @$ _8 s: `2 s' f+ ib) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
6 a7 U# A+ z; gc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.* R0 A* b0 A0 v$ f5 @( {% c
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Just another thought on lonliness:/ ~* B2 L/ u2 [: s( F9 ~
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....., F- ?$ R$ A3 S  J8 N
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
% y5 `3 _& J: H  B7 \我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
; c3 Z" z6 d! ?4 ?, R9 X% o就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
& a5 ]  s/ l7 S5 u% j& _. r或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
. D$ l8 o1 {/ i( o1 \空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉# X0 @/ s9 r& [# H! L( A$ L
很少會超過一天～
; E' f" y% c  z: }  x* v要期待更好的明天呀！