熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 S& c, b" o+ f+ Q6 j! l
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 j5 W* i1 F. v8 n琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  w3 `* O! l' e# m; [) V; |) M個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; q% P0 v" g5 P! G覺得好空虛' H& `* l$ J) T+ ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: I) [" B! S" B! R* b6 \卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ t7 b7 ~3 ~/ y7 V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' f/ y/ A. Y  u& K+ Q( T

) L0 V* H' L2 ]) S" H[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: W1 r  k1 O+ U& B& u9 }$ _' ~
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺# E  _1 X* \9 B5 [
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' m) G0 A4 W5 w1 E" P# ?/ z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
! S: W  w3 J2 F- v, [5 j日日有車站,7 ]" P+ P/ S' ^" x/ G7 \0 Q' S
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 ~2 ?- A$ @7 V3 n! Y) u你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# |. e2 f/ I$ f如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.+ F  z) f+ Z3 Z+ x# g
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' x1 e/ \* b6 G* o
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 k+ h! \1 `  y# E  z% T) j" ~/ w
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. w; z( `$ l' O; Z其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! q2 }! z% b. c! ~
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# a2 _8 W. g6 a$ y. [4 @( @日日有車站,4 ?# e! g" o. \$ p  S
有目標!

7 L, L8 }) y8 V+ `what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 ]- D1 b; \5 S+ d0 M) S如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& f' o5 U3 ^  P7 ~0 }# o9 v8 S- q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 n9 @: c$ Y0 g: F琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 ~3 q( h. e8 K- Z, ?, Y$ T% d$ h個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 t0 ]% z5 \: }6 X& D覺得好空虛
) w3 p4 t; J# ~1 o' u% I其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 m; _  P% ~7 _" S9 e* i7 b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ C/ x! }1 |- u( Y, Q9 o* d
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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) j7 h8 Y( h* v% {8 X. |# `' ?這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.+ Y8 U* F, c& X1 i
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% m) K* O! z+ u2 T$ i7 j4 @' O
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) [$ O; O$ Y. t; q

4 C5 P+ @! k: S" f1 s% L) [People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
, H6 \' N( W3 n3 i: C9 k; ]a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
2 @1 e/ ~. i1 W9 k3 a5 X8 a! Ub) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ e! ]8 r' }! Y8 s
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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+ s9 |8 d2 k  F; e* S7 |1 b/ VJust another thought on lonliness:0 W/ @4 y" U# P. ?" m' a6 C- p: R
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....' A8 x( i0 ~! K: b* a
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影8 [3 _  P. E4 K
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～* a7 t9 G( s! x* M& x: o; [
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
- u7 e4 h& f# p3 ]! i很少會超過一天～
6 B# z: }( M8 x( x要期待更好的明天呀！