熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 a4 |6 D6 q% l: z8 ]5 X) m好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 U$ G! C% E( |- @% O4 p" [& ]0 a琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! |+ W: K+ k* R: r1 Z3 B
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 a% Z9 A7 ^8 @( ~2 \# s. p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. m" Z4 F# o' j3 T3 c' Z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,# ]1 R* ?. v2 s5 n( I) \# O* J# e
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺/ l1 J: j! N. y
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% C1 _5 L: T0 @% ]& w0 L9 F+ c/ {
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& x" w! A* B8 M- r- C0 J
日日有車站,! f* ^6 Y- X2 l% L: l% i
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙3 c2 L! W) Q1 q: J( D
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, {1 o0 k/ b8 M! r1 u' v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

, [4 D9 J' ~& y; N4 g( T1 R+ ~我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.# ~4 K. L7 H( {
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..) o9 @, f0 h8 D8 r
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.% w7 h6 d2 d7 [3 S( k
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ o% N# R' T, W7 u7 p" n" \
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  \' Y/ j% C+ m$ ~* P* A所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% ~2 X2 ?# q7 j$ ^0 P
日日有車站,
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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 u  e, d6 v$ a# P/ ^, e; S* d
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- ^# f8 @" U  X: X好唔鍾意呢種感覺* ~' A5 Q" I5 C' e8 r3 k9 W: `
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, s2 U' k# D! W% j% L  v7 [
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" l& K* J& D2 b+ [) k6 q/ }$ o
覺得好空虛
0 h+ [3 v* S* J其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 U/ r: z( Q# `4 @
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 \2 h$ a- e. P9 u  k, x! ^: c# P( m
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& J& S: A" K$ Y. v8 P

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.- f9 f6 e8 P  ^- i- y! U
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.- p: p; w. R6 D! R4 R
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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8 i3 |4 \9 C8 M( I. T* \5 aPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:3 s' g7 z3 j  K; J& R2 z: P/ m6 h
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
# w* I5 a" X! F6 eb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.4 D- ~1 y/ E* R& j7 N0 J9 s. V
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
6 ~8 i2 \/ F, I. i- ALonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ H8 S% i2 n0 h7 LBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
# R+ C. q8 T; e! B' B! l9 z4 h我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 @" _0 {" g$ D) ~2 C+ L就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
" Z4 }$ ~7 G, A或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
+ c  J# e* I+ M9 X* K5 M4 f8 s# t空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 `" w* [: r6 W6 J
很少會超過一天～
- a3 Z2 n8 D! M8 |要期待更好的明天呀！