熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 P$ b6 L+ L9 J1 X
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' D+ s- W  j  h7 [1 D: L5 j" d& s# R
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ r5 R2 A: c/ q" `
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 v+ r' R* E% ^# O0 X# g覺得好空虛
" a5 r# Q$ P, d6 H  f其實早幾次都有試過係咁! t, W) N; ]. v% X$ o3 }
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" M+ [& X, M$ G: }6 b0 T  h0 _( S
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
1 P8 i+ I  ^* |. W( z, s* P但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺! F3 @( ?" R3 h5 F1 `
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% s* Y  t, V) G所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. V2 c4 S3 `1 Z$ g日日有車站,6 @9 G  Z3 L: B1 y; }) C
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
8 p9 `3 i& \1 ~你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& W& C( A/ f# N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.( J  u5 Z4 E, I
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' Q8 ]" U# L7 K- y9 D8 G! J
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
2 H) V# H0 P1 \  W: K其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 u* Y7 @4 V# B1 |! u
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# w6 i" D: S8 u, o' q) c日日有車站,. L- o( U/ q. P; N9 b  \2 D* R4 A- A/ ~
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# n* h/ Z4 e# J2 \2 d, \
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) a/ f  H! X7 d5 ~2 y, L好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ a" B% b- `' B5 }+ b
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- o) a+ W2 i) |# e$ _個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 s) n( t" n4 }- G( q覺得好空虛
$ M+ p2 ?$ O( l其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 s" [$ @. R0 n- |7 Q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己7 ?, R1 d/ ]4 p& Z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?+ i7 g  o* F( h% L6 U* z0 H

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.. t$ }5 b0 n0 u
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
  h) O6 ]! {* P& x! W# j有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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! v) N8 U0 X- b! D! APeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:1 f8 J: v# G' e3 W* E# |
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 g3 B' y  w& x! a+ z$ o! [
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.0 X( N- ~* e/ y5 b' y2 m
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:7 a6 v" [7 k! M1 `' M3 }
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....4 f0 L# G1 L% r8 H/ j3 P
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
' O8 {$ g; A. R. S我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
; p6 j+ i, |  _' Y就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
, s: R* Q2 K$ Z$ t# d( h' |& Y0 o( n或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～& T6 [; g0 f. X4 u
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉" @( W( j" P9 X9 h
很少會超過一天～+ D8 u6 U* a7 n& I
要期待更好的明天呀！