熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! t7 F* c; B: D& @1 \
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" P, y& l) s. z+ p7 _7 D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 s9 K  R. n) c& P* z
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% ~3 Q+ H/ y, J% I; j: Z. |覺得好空虛
3 I4 T# |: I3 Z) N" {% s其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 m4 K/ O- u. {0 f4 o( a  Z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ i% |) t8 X! {8 Q& `9 a4 W) j
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,; L8 a8 C% @! U6 f# [+ I. B
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
* E7 W- G3 ]% B- s熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 ]9 l4 X( ^! ?1 e所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," t0 Y- [; U) V6 X9 M- j2 i; q
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙+ Q) A/ C7 I  W, e" F
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( C- [. p) d7 i3 L
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

( N) R6 x0 W0 T. [# _( j* Q( w+ j我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 g8 p6 ~& W( [! g9 h' X1 a* l7 l5 H
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..9 H" Z. W6 T" e$ k& C$ j
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.# x, d( p# z% ^  O' f
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
# ~5 h( b, H% S4 A& k, o其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: z6 v# e7 E' p1 a# ^0 O) M
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 D' ?' i" R6 }& M$ }8 a' x' U, M# w0 B, F日日有車站,: \) a5 V& X. d2 ^( ^4 y% v
有目標!

" i8 z  u) |( I  }9 t" `! Fwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) n9 i! g2 d6 K8 ~, \3 T/ E/ d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 P) R" C3 _: Q3 i4 ^
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 Q$ ]: [! a. h7 P/ ?! b( x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 w0 p$ t. O( p- b2 ?( x
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 s( ^" T" s: q+ U8 A) w" T$ l5 j, U覺得好空虛9 r* u4 [) Z6 m1 b+ m
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; u) m6 v1 _2 _卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 G* @6 R/ `$ ?7 `+ z( b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" h; R8 F% n. I- u/ W

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) r7 i" e+ S2 Q4 }* X) |# C這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
. _- s0 X; U6 e# m; Q: g" W  U唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.# @" G# |) o; ?7 j' |. Z; G6 B
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) j! D1 B1 D. q" t
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long2 s! t  @- h2 M7 ]  ~
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.4 t- q, v* h5 }; m1 @
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.  Y8 {$ [1 T- s# Z* Y
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Just another thought on lonliness:
& p% b! |9 J% l+ hLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....% z& S8 v5 ?1 t+ s/ b' C( m
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～9 B- u8 w( \7 a. M5 x: V6 h
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺* @) A( W+ R, Q* |, @
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影; `5 w+ o" G1 y6 U
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～* X2 u: h8 G& W4 m- {0 ?+ r
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉- K% G; j! I! ^2 ?5 R3 a
很少會超過一天～
: a4 s, L' s3 d要期待更好的明天呀！