熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 |8 \! z* l3 h
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 x$ J0 M9 Y% W6 k1 f/ ?琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 ]2 Y) a" P1 l' e7 w* n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' Z' f4 h- x2 C1 L! q2 c覺得好空虛
. i3 F" c* O& H+ G2 _+ o其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 d  B/ A* K; c9 R3 P; G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 q  O0 u; G$ e# ^6 O' P  V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ `2 H% k5 `0 S, @4 g" t. S; V, j2 W
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
, r* X, i+ N/ ~1 I但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* E2 V$ `6 \9 Y  i' T  O2 G
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* E: G7 v" i, Q% I+ v6 e/ m所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 B7 g* b0 i' ]4 r9 G0 |日日有車站,
+ [' j/ }) D7 E5 S有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
: d6 S; d  Y& B- h) g) @你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 a* h; w/ D- v( ?9 @
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.8 \6 ]8 G4 a9 Z5 G( ^/ a: [: C
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..! H$ l/ k" e* w+ ]5 _
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.. v. k: Q& ^$ U- d8 [
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:& g6 j/ W# ^7 J# H
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) v' q4 f9 d$ U$ _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 j& f& W* ^+ m. f/ m
日日有車站,
: p3 y$ Q7 X6 m3 x2 z有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. A' u* Q# @# i
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, y1 C7 m0 s3 O$ g2 `+ L# ^& S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. f# ^5 e" ^" z, j$ p& F7 q: p& s6 t琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 X& _* s0 ^3 \  v3 u$ O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; U9 K% ^7 J: E: X" w3 ?4 ~覺得好空虛
# C3 F- \% L3 i* z' v' s其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 K$ K6 R5 s$ @0 P2 G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 X! I2 I8 Y5 z4 \  D7 v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
' [5 }9 A! d3 O/ H

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4 C: D6 q$ [' T7 i" J$ O8 E這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
* J9 }  ~/ D, Y9 h- e唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.0 T: c& D* @5 x8 B  ?
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.5 ?/ l2 v5 I' J+ R; M$ R

/ P0 d0 d3 X2 ~$ h5 ^  {People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:' b8 `. b+ }; F9 I* s/ X: N
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
4 {% J* u5 D) r. n$ t7 eb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
7 e' `9 ]7 y; W7 m) H# g+ t3 v! S6 f+ o) ?c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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. b6 Q: _/ Y/ w1 fJust another thought on lonliness:; [+ v( B) I+ k# _! v2 J1 ~
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
) f$ L' }1 Y$ J# rBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～$ t' h9 r4 P- B& q& v- N# q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
2 h9 a* }/ j" F, J) o& y& q空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
8 [& c" V1 R/ ?; R: ^很少會超過一天～1 m/ K+ ~$ U7 \, B6 ?4 y( `
要期待更好的明天呀！