熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
7 F1 @. ?4 S( L* }' a) I' U- k3 S好唔鍾意呢種感覺' p9 }2 o* ^" Y, C
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. z+ ~- X( {+ {0 g0 B個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( a6 _- V7 }& A- V覺得好空虛
, e) g2 P1 v8 b3 ^+ A3 t其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: E) k& W& m% G/ h卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' m( O) O. q" s
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( `$ N9 U" w2 l0 I: T  [; D但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
# R  Z5 `0 y; Y4 u1 E% [* a+ v熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ V3 f# I* H3 d7 ~' F所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ Q! S+ u  }( ^' D, F3 P8 B
日日有車站,( ?) L! ^2 V; W8 ^1 [* G- [
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙9 I3 \' ]; \  j' i
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 a% L& L# q! l0 g1 I. O( D
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
8 ?* O1 ?( B* D. e, B感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( e3 K( U6 y9 l2 `玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.6 i' W& M; D+ v% ]9 r* L
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
# }: v- Y% {; `9 K9 c- R+ ^4 E  Y其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 [: M* g9 u; O/ F4 w5 e7 |所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) @2 o& }5 e4 ]9 D: ?0 n' t日日有車站,
. c. n, \9 k  r有目標!

* F: d% x$ i, F' t- \" ^8 ~# h3 ~what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 g4 u8 J' j2 [- x4 F2 X如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; t' S8 I4 ^: t! X- {好唔鍾意呢種感覺  Y, M9 U" R8 h% W# O
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 r. c' u. t9 L# e' J
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 j/ j5 c8 w. g& ?9 x) D+ A覺得好空虛
% T$ Q9 s, B7 j其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 e' u* Y: g& H  m! X" Z* f
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 g* b3 o2 q2 a' F  ^! S4 S1 b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.7 e4 B( F3 f3 l- S& a) n6 M/ ]8 N
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 n" {* m4 M) E
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: o; j4 d5 D+ U/ K
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
9 P6 U# ?) k1 l% V6 aa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
+ O6 B& O9 Z4 B( ]# p3 j: Qb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
+ Y- b4 c% ^) w" `; Z) Cc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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7 B2 x9 X" x: q0 D0 }5 M: c; yJust another thought on lonliness:
8 H! I6 o7 v* P% `Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
, n! y' ]- c- |/ |1 m- ZBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～1 ?: F  g! j" P( J( j: ~
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
. }0 F- w0 v' W就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 U3 _5 F9 L3 C9 n, C* E0 b1 i或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～* M& ~* J$ t" \  L; y3 V
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉) o( m  h+ r- D) h3 G/ w
很少會超過一天～
( s  }& t/ {% Y; z) d' i9 u& Q( C" Y要期待更好的明天呀！