熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! G" l8 @* E8 x. v; n好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& O, b+ A8 i5 G9 G% e5 s! r琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* ^' Z0 }- J1 E  ~' {8 u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' Z& b" y! X& _  Y2 F: P覺得好空虛
$ u/ `' Y( t% U0 y其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 s2 |6 x/ X) ]$ ], u+ c卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 I: K  _7 d' U1 l
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 m* W& [* x% d' A) ^( |9 ~- h
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ K. s2 T- z* h/ w6 y9 k熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 D& N+ y6 U% t0 D+ Q5 k  e
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- a5 ^" @1 ]5 ^8 T/ ]
日日有車站,
( C; s8 e1 ?0 B$ i  P# H: z. k有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙: D% v$ C- q: w: i0 C! x4 V5 B
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( ~3 r5 D, L- R1 G/ `
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  Z7 z" X# U6 W' f3 M
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..- C! o/ Z( a% d( ^5 O
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
: L/ A( o( C4 s: r3 b總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* O2 S* d- ^# x其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, L7 X# C( S6 W1 G6 m7 j所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 L: M! x$ @# {: h/ b
日日有車站,1 A& ~+ q. W: ^6 i, |
有目標!

5 k. s7 [1 R* m& D0 J$ u  D2 Gwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- G8 m' S! ^# ?- Z/ p
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- A# L5 Z8 S" ?! X; I/ D1 t
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( r1 z4 ^1 q4 A# p# z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( l7 L8 T3 R: Y' ^5 t* C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# V, c+ k# K. L. p3 L! f& |
覺得好空虛- `/ K) h- K0 r! z% F( Z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# x5 ~4 Q9 \. ]) V+ a8 B
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 A: _4 d3 E* n; |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
0 L, _' q0 ?, k唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
$ j  j  j# D/ ^" y. i$ v有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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7 h) [  }- ~# W+ G4 y& e) |& J, qPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
: e) N8 c4 E7 ia) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
8 f: \& G; G" S% I1 l( bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.0 a$ y9 c- v3 G! K
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.5 e( P( V0 A% _$ w

4 ?0 h+ F& e% S. i7 h9 M2 ^Just another thought on lonliness:
! z% l2 _5 y/ t6 I6 ZLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
# Y2 u5 V  l6 A- VBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 J+ m, P0 @$ M
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
% a+ ]0 d9 a; M就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
5 G& |. m9 k$ I0 `8 W( y  f或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～8 h8 E7 H, G! z3 p+ T
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
" o4 S9 ?/ W1 t2 j" Z* H, n( f很少會超過一天～
9 [( f. x' x/ U7 P2 y' y) A要期待更好的明天呀！