熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 w+ C# g  I. V5 a
好唔鍾意呢種感覺  w) u5 Q4 H5 ~1 o+ s
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 O( f  I3 y1 Q, ?( r" D7 e1 V個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" Y1 W4 i6 N3 E# R  R# ?# c覺得好空虛' ?4 t) V) m& q8 U/ ]* V$ C5 V
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* v. d# U$ I1 I; m, X4 C) `2 N卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. A- \" W6 O% E8 }9 B5 S" d用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ r  v7 K- d! `6 O; A

1 ^3 o/ J& T* H, m& {; _8 s4 A[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: ^! j) \" r5 M4 \
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
% X3 Q2 z6 u/ A1 F/ L熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& z' Y! O0 M; }2 d) ~) Z- C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( k" J% ?( i2 a, G( w日日有車站,
& y* A2 X* x& m. K1 w有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙+ j% A6 b: u( N
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) D3 z, B9 h/ O; X- l% z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ J5 q. r+ I: C& V- M, b' |/ l' |我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: X( U) C  r/ n! J
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
+ }% m1 p0 Z1 q# r) v: l( W1 \玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 }5 W) m' {; S( _. R
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
/ D2 L. F- R- W5 ~& I, I1 E3 Q2 \% n其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# n$ l8 g9 S' c3 L: w8 g所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 e9 w+ X9 @& ^+ S日日有車站,
% G3 S- L: Q6 [有目標!

% L: {9 Q$ b* z3 W" nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 C0 \8 L7 Y1 q5 _
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* i5 Y, w# k. y7 f- A$ S2 F/ C4 \
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, b8 ~" Q, W7 i$ S& `* z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! c' Y) v" X9 e" O1 `個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣. p& q8 r2 k; ]. M' J
覺得好空虛
$ S+ c# \% s4 n' C4 O其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 L  E! G  B) d5 h& ?卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ i' _8 X  |$ |. x: G4 z! b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
* l0 m+ L: ^8 A& @% _. n

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9 g8 }2 B4 k7 d* `" ?6 J這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
5 j) P* C, m0 x$ v; M! {唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.2 u% _- \3 O2 k- S2 {6 a
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.5 G/ G- F" M5 [

. z% `' E4 W1 Q0 `" R# @People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:  n0 d. E4 ~. A  F8 ~$ V" k% S
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( S7 K: @% {0 o5 r/ s0 cb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; h' a# D/ e* v) d+ a) lc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
* u) B3 ]0 P# b6 B+ ^- C; u: @! `Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....8 U# E. w! B* N2 N& K
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
" F; T5 Z# @+ ^# v# z8 h2 J8 H* D我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
' Q# @! T2 U) J& ^/ N就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
0 v. X" `# h: t1 T; @. Z0 l8 `' d或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
; e$ Q( p1 p" s# m/ [0 S3 g; L& N7 X空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉$ L5 N' k- @$ s3 g+ V# g6 k  D
很少會超過一天～, J$ D( d8 L  Q0 k
要期待更好的明天呀！