熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, a- {! R3 D& }6 I. u
好唔鍾意呢種感覺% ?4 r% u# Z! {: _4 i9 n0 z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: _* q1 M5 p1 m: q9 w. i個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ W2 e6 b2 o6 n$ J- y/ Y
覺得好空虛
" ]6 _8 L' ]% {其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! Q7 b$ ^2 g: M7 u( i: Q4 a5 ?$ _( G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' s- v$ E# Z/ w: g4 w用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,6 b4 x/ R, \7 X/ k. n6 w: m
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
0 K4 Q, Q% m  C' g" t% z; @熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ e# o4 b9 ^8 A- o5 L' Z4 n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 j- t1 P# }* F* L: k日日有車站,
- l3 l' \0 |3 h* d* P, k- s: S有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙9 j  }2 q* V1 _0 q- X
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 C/ G% Y/ m+ u7 E1 E  D) c$ D如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
: @: B* q/ B. \& `/ c1 t感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
4 x1 ]  \( k9 ?) b玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
% J$ B1 G; E: W總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ e& e! Y3 g# g
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; ]2 F7 X7 [4 V2 G/ c1 w0 U所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ s& `$ U% I; w7 l9 G日日有車站,
! x2 |! j! Z" q, ~7 n' F7 t+ l有目標!

: c) Q9 e+ N5 ]6 Q) ?4 u$ c6 ~: gwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:3 |  R% N0 @! P, f8 U
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 w! t9 A2 L7 V8 Q( D# W好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 x1 [7 s+ t, U! Q5 ?
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 O6 B3 x5 [1 U個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 x  }: `# V' _1 `覺得好空虛/ h/ X4 S0 f5 ?
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: |; ^& U4 Z; L+ W6 v2 l  O卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 B4 G. m% m$ z8 v1 f5 B( ]8 h
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 }% d) ]+ [. i/ y. a# L

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( X1 o; P) V; Q1 p. r3 x" u) Q' c
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
1 T6 }* E, W9 j5 G* u6 w6 s有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
( ~& J* r/ z- A+ _* L  b8 ma) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 c  \/ u$ {' g$ B) k7 r" L: mb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  g  K$ X4 M  m5 \) V" D( Ic) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.% P5 ^% _& U5 z, |0 `

* |- F: v8 d- a# m; X. dJust another thought on lonliness:
; n' M2 b  N- G# b: m5 VLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...... N2 u. M$ v# |; o
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～4 l: P5 P# k4 a" x
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
0 ]5 ?6 \" D* S' ]1 j就好似睇完一套好睇的電影) K. V* A6 D; n5 a5 |; ^" E
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 n' t4 ]8 R, u; H4 y' }& f空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ r3 W0 }2 F0 E5 L; c( t: F& I很少會超過一天～5 B5 [! G: l/ ~9 g
要期待更好的明天呀！