熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! p! f0 ^: [% D& p$ W好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# B( \3 {" u- E( s1 M5 v, c) f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! U+ L( x. o$ X, @1 ^/ K3 n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 a3 Z4 O( b+ t
覺得好空虛
  ?8 R1 r* |/ d% Q- \- Y+ L; B其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 D5 F- [8 z) ^2 O0 Q. Q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  n* K0 C! _# U1 s
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,6 z/ H* ~# V2 T9 a; {/ y# g" t
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺8 k4 _  @  I+ H! l$ \0 f7 B
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 m3 N3 w9 N5 W; y5 q9 U7 {- f/ \+ ?
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙& L2 I1 x! i$ W0 D+ Y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' B0 W3 w8 q- T' b% I, ~: T如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

' B1 ]1 r! b1 i1 |+ J我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ v* N& {* s4 E& X8 o8 C- v感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞../ d  W3 ]/ i! W2 g  C6 K* D4 b4 [
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
1 ^) o! D3 o& m總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
3 Q7 |) X, d& [* M" [/ \其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 C; d9 v: c* b8 q& E- |所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 Y  _; n; |4 F! X1 V# u
日日有車站,  v' _  ~) I' y. U5 M- V0 u- E
有目標!

  H( ?/ |& @3 xwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; T. F0 @& F4 g3 Q5 Q$ b& y3 G1 a* J如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% n/ r  g- w! d/ H4 ^7 H4 L好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! V+ q1 T: ~' G. A3 B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) ]2 R' k$ f7 U4 c個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 H9 @5 m' o# R+ S+ K6 \覺得好空虛' g, ~6 o/ ^5 B9 g- J/ |
其實早幾次都有試過係咁% b; {6 }0 u& x3 e1 B5 w
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& g% z) C; Z: G# O$ f9 F3 o, z' P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 G1 o6 D3 \, l+ ]' u1 M

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+ {4 o; E$ [* W這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.1 _: W& }0 k" \0 O& u  E% V' x
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' ^* r! P- o5 K" [有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ o# ], V, W8 F# r

/ w5 `- S0 f$ p- A7 q! FPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:( o$ C  b; }* \. V$ h( ^. O
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long) ?/ Q- V) G% {; o* r: d
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
7 m. |9 c: }" U1 tc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess., }' j. h' z; N8 z# y5 \
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Just another thought on lonliness:" [8 o: q! W" a0 T) b; @9 s4 S/ _
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....., D5 Q& s% s& w$ ]6 E. @6 w) _
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 ]1 Y9 K* z' a+ T% r, h
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺8 \: y% Q  \: o& S. V
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影/ x4 {  V  t( e) S; i. u. N- V
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～1 P5 y# N3 c5 a4 O2 ]" a) G$ l: e
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
: t" |7 d* m  _很少會超過一天～# P! H& H- [- x& U8 c& E  ?
要期待更好的明天呀！