熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 A% {0 ]: D9 D好唔鍾意呢種感覺- ^* u; C$ }* F7 x
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, Y. {3 l; Q( ?6 x. i個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣; H1 h6 k1 f( D# O
覺得好空虛
! M' ]; N$ f# v  d! G其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& M  G3 @3 I- n7 R* m, ]* u! m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: H9 T; a, `: {% e  A+ w# y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
& X; ^5 [, [# V* v/ S但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺& i) @. a, X; S2 T# Y. U4 F
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. T$ b  U' O& Z+ U1 Y) b
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. I, A9 J( O2 e
日日有車站,/ w) a1 `# I; ?/ d
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙$ B5 r) S! [( X. e% f+ k
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
# \* V0 i2 I9 U2 C如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

$ a3 F: s+ ~7 R/ L  F* {4 f我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.4 i& z  h, T- p/ }5 r3 W! J6 _
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
8 J+ L) ]! H9 r- _6 D8 t- C玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.4 X( W$ v- `* G7 ~7 H$ {
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:, x, `. D) m, U# W7 U, |, Q  u0 I
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
2 k; L4 b5 S; u0 `/ x; z1 p; ]# y) I# k所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. V/ o) J! A, G! q! A
日日有車站,% c5 e  T$ v( a# C8 h+ o* x
有目標!

% S: p$ Z: F# t+ i: p9 w: O' n4 kwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 T6 B) S* h) X# m& V如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 O$ ]9 ?2 C" d# N  R8 d) x4 U好唔鍾意呢種感覺, ^2 z4 \' w0 `' A+ f2 h+ K
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 m: H7 W. x. o1 v6 f) |# g
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  s1 @, g: f* D, h; q覺得好空虛! U8 I5 s; X- E" z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 y% }* O  T8 Y7 ~6 g2 ^0 v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 a& U4 A- l2 V# X
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 v, D6 o, K$ F/ \8 R* f6 o+ P  I( c

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; W/ d+ g1 u$ t) z, k( G( }. K7 b# w這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! g( P2 u2 M1 m' O唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
2 R+ k, y+ L. ^" \, e: |- j/ ~有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:4 x3 X3 y6 x# w) z/ c% @4 ^
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ k6 H, B) n) Y1 C3 a( Gb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
* I% c' ?) A+ q; `0 Y  z& A( Uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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6 b9 p8 y4 ?, ~5 t; L1 @Just another thought on lonliness:
0 \8 F! I/ `2 Q- XLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 |, x  g7 l" pBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
: O* q' |; [5 }$ o: e: W5 Z/ o我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
( D8 D) }" ^# [  t6 Q就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 ]# z4 B7 N) f( B; _- G$ B: S; M
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～- \2 i5 c4 S) L& X' p$ z# d
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉) T: ^* U( G2 T% {3 |& v. o
很少會超過一天～9 ]/ Y' {" \9 }: Q; X7 ?
要期待更好的明天呀！