Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.# S8 z0 e! h& v8 e# |1 j
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
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不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:2 n2 B3 q$ |' q- u! n0 \- ^
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Quoted from Playbr2
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:" u$ Q. p. V# b* T
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.2 M* u: X1 x& L% K: Y
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:4 z2 n) f; m/ {' i6 g T
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:# j5 H; O9 _6 D$ y
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
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明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:% J' y$ i5 Z* G9 N: ?+ C7 {5 q( B e
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:# s( _$ \; c f$ t
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,$ s' M& Z$ c, V0 Y8 @8 _/ X( i
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:# S7 u% R2 t7 x. j8 R
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!. X2 N# ^& K3 P- z
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:, t7 j7 k' z5 p$ K
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??4 R$ J, q6 g7 X" r* m# z
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:/ @$ }% B$ U1 `
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:8 p8 S: c, o5 `1 k @' N& c$ F
做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?
Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。7 q* d0 V1 P! v
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:( z3 G1 } Q! Y1 {- q
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法% l F6 q _# ]1 F+ f( B' H
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方
因為26FUN內 d 網友
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,
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因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:$ r7 _4 A; L! F7 \* w2 ]
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐我都未見過你盧山真面目
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友
見過我盧山真面目之後
一個傻左,5 x4 A- ]- e: j# B$ Y6 r
一個都冇見過佢返過黎
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:1 H: D! ^' a) w$ ]7 |0 y q
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trista 講出我心底話!- @: {# N0 I+ T
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加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?/ i1 u! u% U3 I2 `# I
小小心意而已~
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:: T$ E! H* x7 y
講真啦0 C0 ]2 b4 |! }5 `4 j& F+ s/ h- a
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^
雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟. [5 |/ @7 o1 |/ W+ g
又少講野="=
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!' W( {& } i/ J7 ]7 W7 O p7 x$ y
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!) `1 o9 O, r+ B6 }& v
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!0 V- }: c0 B: g; y+ E0 c' A
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!4 I0 [- E; }6 }* [7 {
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:3 L# V% _$ [$ T; f( S
認識朋友的意義各有不同。
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。) F4 ]8 a5 @! w6 x: e9 d
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?; w( N( \6 _$ `/ g" [+ C9 z
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:. d1 S+ r$ ~: s: k& a
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:# \ ~7 @$ q* X7 d& u# r
叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:7 ]3 I7 C9 V; l. W6 t
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:7 s8 G3 |$ q0 Y6 i
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下/ b* H" H t2 D9 C+ Z2 E
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~4 j: z' C& ]" T- ?0 o
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~$ Z8 w$ \7 w3 z9 N, A0 Y
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:; g% J/ n' t+ Y0 z0 N$ P, \5 y
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!: Z* k$ G. w5 L* s. s% e
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!7 k6 n6 z) B I$ ?2 [+ d
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:6 x4 `2 s2 o# y
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~/ z" e8 U7 s5 r- Z
發言唔算好多~' Y' P, B% d$ l+ \' H" A
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:5 z4 K5 x" W& [- k* ~# ]$ ]
好同意。。& `3 b J5 s/ [) w# V% }
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:: ^; |/ b: p1 e
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自己醒d未得 law
Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:: x) p' {; w* N1 D+ j( l( @
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
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一段長時間建立友誼6 y, V% ` x* V; Y
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。6 }, j* L `2 d( Q+ `% U
合久必分,分久必合。
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有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。! R9 p$ a; m2 o! T3 ^
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。# `' S' o4 X, q4 `" {
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:. q! T" D4 J2 }. K
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不過...
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮/ u0 a& z) V/ e9 q1 P# c+ I
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
抄我
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:) I& w4 M" _, W& i- n4 s7 y
見係好野先"參考"咋
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
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很認同
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