
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:/ S7 t2 E1 z3 F6 E, m; n
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題& _* b/ s9 d/ l |+ M) [- S8 P4 t
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.) c1 f) L% d _
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:- U+ ]( ~/ f6 [) Y5 j. [
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:. |) q1 h* z ~+ {/ j
Quoted from Playbr2
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:$ K0 C. |0 ?3 l5 t- J! |& x- d
我成日都有呢種感覺:4 }7 U! O4 p6 V- y! \+ L, N/ F5 _
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.+ g# Z# I5 U1 W, `
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:# W, L _5 E5 c s
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:: v" {! s: t N$ g" r' @7 z
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
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明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:9 g; `$ p+ n @) t0 }! C& g/ X5 g
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:4 d' s1 O7 m) N3 @1 z D
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,+ B9 X3 G; V+ e% w6 [1 _2 Z
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:, ]2 U& g7 z4 b# c' X8 b
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!5 B9 U9 R. h7 I# a$ I8 K/ H7 w
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:% G8 U! s: F u8 k! U
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我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
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有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:: j5 i4 V, ^' U" Q4 x
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:+ A, x k& V6 x# C5 `% ] r
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。 H" T3 D+ ^) N8 e
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。6 X7 x0 h$ t/ V. V
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法. |6 @' _% H7 T, |5 s7 B: b; j- B8 X
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方: d) Y3 C* g) n) ~: J7 H
因為26FUN內 d 網友
雙對黎講,
比較成熟," ]. Y0 p& m: z; ?
交流比較深入/ H1 f8 Q& X& ?% {% J# Q1 C% M# |) l
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:1 Q- ~* H% b! O$ g. A
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
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以前有幾個網友, o, q# ^; A, z2 z0 L
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一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:3 Z: Q; T5 ]# m9 y' }* w; g4 G5 r
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!
加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!, e! x: G) O8 l
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:) U/ p6 f! W/ C7 S% B& H; l5 M
講真啦2 C' m/ I( F5 q' |! @) Q/ \0 I6 [( R
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!; P1 E$ q* ?9 \. M8 {( ?
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:! P! y) c0 d' D$ |( c- W, V
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以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。& E0 [% P' |' M6 x; }
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。6 B, I. b/ i0 D& ^
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。; Y4 v. Y- U" p/ V
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:
當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:( ?* ]8 F7 T6 V2 {$ |' T1 }9 }
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM: t0 S4 k s1 `5 V5 A
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:* Q( f5 X/ @% P4 U% D& w( L
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?! V6 d, J/ H- [7 \2 t3 ] h+ g. Q
唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:1 b. G( q1 K% C, n5 A2 E$ E. K Y
今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:5 n0 v" O1 a0 M
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~7 e O' q+ L# ?0 X' K( w" ]8 @
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~5 x9 `/ C' U: T/ G
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!3 h$ U# Z( W/ Y0 P. w4 A) ~
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!. j1 h( q" |' j
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!6 o. g4 X6 Y$ G! w( T
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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# p7 O) c0 u& t' K5 c* a, B) DOriginally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~" w3 j3 @9 x& G. G- A8 Z
發言唔算好多~& X3 t/ C3 H' U
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~5 | W6 m3 H$ {9 f
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
好同意。。( q2 Q" K. t h- } ~
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
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自己醒d未得 law


7 C5 q2 c+ Z: p6 @& E% aOriginally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:+ o! x& B! b1 w2 ~7 u
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一段長時間建立友誼1 ?$ U! }3 C& o9 _
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜4 j# J' r/ r3 ]$ L1 g- j; @. A) l
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。: b; q4 L3 w+ M4 U& h* Y# G' ]: ~% y
合久必分,分久必合。
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有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。2 i& }/ B0 Y' v8 F# U- w+ C
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。" D0 ]! k8 A9 W, o; a
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:( ^+ [0 I8 W7 x; g8 N
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不過...
* Z7 @3 k/ C, }# }, ?6 NOriginally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:4 b& J8 _7 w6 a2 U
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,* U u$ @/ J$ }( g Q0 |! f
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:, {- w2 `8 l/ [- j* t
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:3 S4 ~, ]# |% M1 g- X0 r
見係好野先"參考"咋
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
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很認同
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