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作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM 標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ B9 b* P' S% y4 a d
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
覺得好空虛

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其實早幾次都有試過係咁
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- s( P. C; z: y. @* R0 B9 b+ b
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?

[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

作者: funnygay 時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* ~2 v1 L( l$ e2 n6 p
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

作者: Christy~呀華 時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,

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所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,

日日有車站,

有目標!

作者: taipotse 時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

作者: markmk 時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM 標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* S* ~! ^. e2 W# n! t, j% {如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 B5 X1 F9 r7 x4 ?. E6 x6 V
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: n# S; }: V; H- _2 m
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

作者: 本篤十六世 時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:: l/ j& }0 Q% L9 \+ [6 V
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
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有目標!

what does he mean ar?no point

作者: rest365days 時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. A8 h9 v& P1 w% g$ B: e+ T) s
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' Y; V, b' t. A7 W3 k0 @) E1 A9 j好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' n% E1 i0 Y0 c: Z1 U- c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 m6 b0 j) O! i- \! {. I( F
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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7 \2 ]7 k- R3 W5 I/ H; a @. U; _其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) }3 N5 k5 V# o卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 ~& V! u9 V( K* D& R
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

作者: Gretzky 時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:. m. N" H4 F9 O* i
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 e) Q# ^( K8 P( i! V
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone., W" a& J7 m6 u9 B& O5 k
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.# ]' h1 |( \* F1 ]7 Y& [
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Just another thought on lonliness:! v+ z% o3 A+ L5 @
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

作者: Jho808 時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want to keep up the happy time.....- _) a9 v; n" D+ ]
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

作者: 遊戲 時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
很少會超過一天～
要期待更好的明天呀！

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:
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: Z- n+ g9 A( `我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...

其實我有諗過一個問題: H+ g/ [' V/ z9 U5 _5 k
如果我唔覺得空虛2 ?7 u# C$ }4 I; j
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心8 O9 E5 R3 A- q4 n3 F3 i

正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:* Q- U. `7 Q5 j# R( l

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可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年
每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎2 |4 e t/ j# x" Q3 x+ b/ J& k
而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突 }2 w& {3 d: }! R% G* i, P0 k" x
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係
so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒
cos我地有人做野係輪班的

同埋可能你都講中左d
就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧
有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:
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that's the reality...
你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:
% o9 y* e$ G# q! gActually........u feel lonely is it...

i know..i know my fds won't leave me
but i juz can't control my feeling
maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先

but i hv some questions..
其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢: ~5 D) _+ m% u% v
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲) c$ {! v' A, U" e5 a, K6 C* @5 o
係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野0 ~: F! Y8 ` l8 d( g7 A
呢度有冇星座高手?

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