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作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM     標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 P9 a# H3 b+ ^, A- u- F
好唔鍾意呢種感覺  Y* o6 g9 g9 D* B6 T/ e+ l
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) W3 \" o' @% i. A& H( Y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 n/ F: P+ R! W覺得好空虛, a) }% I9 T4 o0 B  ~# T
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ t0 v/ |& ~; r! _' T! s1 u卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& i/ F- P! V: E2 T+ M8 S用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 Q: O7 E+ i+ G

  u( m" ^0 W; X5 b; s9 X[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]
作者: funnygay    時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
9 K: }+ r* Y$ N" Q6 v2 ]但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 P" |# Q: }/ O9 W  L: z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面
作者: Christy~呀華    時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& ^7 x& L0 U1 k( a
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- ^+ @) H1 Z7 A3 E7 ?5 M+ f! m
日日有車站,
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作者: taipotse    時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
# v' x1 Z7 l+ k& s5 z2 Z你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?
作者: markmk    時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM     標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) D0 s9 {9 `$ A8 ?- k+ P
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...
  {4 I# c" g+ z. |我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
- ~$ n8 A/ {$ E: i感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
- V0 ?! I: a4 V6 m  ?玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
1 w6 v5 @  \" q- o總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.
作者: 本篤十六世    時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 O0 Y' d% [  S/ F" ?其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& `7 b6 q1 w, e2 l5 c: D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 ]9 l; D, B2 [/ r8 W
日日有車站,
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8 q/ u+ @& s: E' Mwhat does he mean ar?no point
作者: rest365days    時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 D( [9 o, }' j# J; k! U如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 h; W6 ?8 N; d% q好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 V% W- H  I/ g
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ U% |) O1 P) w: |/ H. g) ^* Q) G
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( i0 M5 g' A- \* a& B覺得好空虛
: D" o* e. i% ~3 x* s其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 X1 ^$ _6 `7 Q% l
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" @1 C+ L. f! }8 f5 z6 v
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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( G; K% G$ Z( j4 H這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
( f# w' q' C4 l, n: M唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.3 w6 c1 I* I8 v& l
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:
作者: Gretzky    時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own., V& Z4 J- C+ D8 _( l9 H' ^  u
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: [4 z9 u- k6 O, Q/ @$ F
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& }4 ]# S! o& ?! I- m% tb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
! E  |" J" C- O# F" K% H1 Vc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:) k. g+ T8 ^3 R$ _# }
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.
作者: Jho808    時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
! @' ~: q) t- M" M( X/ vBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!
作者: 遊戲    時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦~
% i5 `, e* G$ b. p7 j我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
( P0 E4 C: ?  a9 a. h就好似睇完一套好睇的電影  s& d0 _: ~, R9 N
或是打爆一隻得好玩的RPG咁囉~" R8 p7 v" B4 z+ p! g& z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉) a1 p! l8 N0 I
很少會超過一天~
9 O; P' |. `; J* l. x$ M) ^要期待更好的明天呀!
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:! `9 ^, Q; y9 C1 k7 g! t" a- y

2 a& U+ w5 Q1 R% }. D我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...
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其實我有諗過一個問題
' c& x' s" B% o+ ^; _# E如果我唔覺得空虛! v3 \& {: x& Z
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心
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0 y3 l( s) |1 V: ~0 {1 k正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:
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# b6 _* |& E$ z6 ?- o這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...
! g/ U% S6 Y. u+ r+ H: I可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
( t2 O7 p0 p; |# e其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年
6 c) X) K+ U9 _  I+ T; @每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎
4 T9 |7 `# Z  y9 ~/ N# N) @而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突3 a, q5 I7 p3 p! ^* n6 O
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係
6 r4 P" k' h) |so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒8 z' F" l% N/ j# o7 |+ A; v
cos我地有人做野係輪班的
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0 w; b8 u( F7 p! a4 k) z2 G同埋可能你都講中左d
$ }  y( v3 T0 I/ [$ d就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧
1 i1 b/ E- a8 v4 Y; `有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到" ~, i$ K9 k8 S0 J
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:0 g* J; A. N3 u1 h3 M; }5 M' B8 h
Solitude is part of life....we long...
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that's the reality...& e7 |+ n: H, q% B
你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:
; x  a1 J% i$ C. M7 |. P, [/ EActually........u feel lonely is it...
! L0 }$ k- X; ]7 L* ?( Si know..i know my fds won't leave me
8 R0 i; I8 H# m& ?( ubut i juz can't control my feeling2 A" ^, [: q  M1 C: t" j( O. l1 R$ S
maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先; m3 a9 X9 D0 b6 P7 H8 c* E
but i hv some questions..
7 ~" U. X: ~7 n6 p4 P其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢7 o" y3 }( M6 s0 I6 S* A( W7 j( r, ?+ b
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
, n% m" _6 @9 P; t我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲
9 B( o# R+ h/ Q% [+ R! l3 q4 g係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野. b: E7 n! C+ l1 J- [, k) x
呢度有冇星座高手?




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