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作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM     標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 F' B* a8 K, }& O8 N6 e4 I
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
2 w5 R' E5 X% e$ V" R3 M琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! c$ {8 V& Y/ E* y6 @3 u
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 T7 k5 U1 Y$ a# k: q& }
覺得好空虛
1 E( Z' ]' E$ x: i7 G& {其實早幾次都有試過係咁( c# J) O' `' Y; o) \+ d
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) B( U5 g7 M, d$ l用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 W+ x: l& q, [' P# W
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作者: funnygay    時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 Z; }2 M& R! V* v/ Y" j但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
) `1 g) n5 ~7 C; W6 }' B熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面
作者: Christy~呀華    時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* }: v$ j0 F& T/ V2 ?$ e
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 N6 T# Z+ z' R3 a
日日有車站,
& l/ Z8 R. I3 x4 |/ `: V2 i5 c有目標!
作者: taipotse    時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙3 x& C: K! q* g, \& N9 |& n
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?
作者: markmk    時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM     標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 n4 y. x& ?- S6 S. X如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...
5 F  h5 ?" R" P( c3 V  R3 o; Z, O我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
- u& `  u4 H: J2 R感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..7 h( l& _8 k/ d7 d2 R
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
$ [& C! O' m6 W4 s總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.
作者: 本篤十六世    時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
7 p3 R) j/ D4 m- `/ ~; R其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, c& |- v: l' k5 W* t5 }" n
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, Q, `: {5 _  _% x8 w9 d
日日有車站,
1 R" r" K6 C( \$ R# s有目標!
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what does he mean ar?no point
作者: rest365days    時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* E7 `# p$ W6 T0 G" |3 [如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  e+ [  {' R& w好唔鍾意呢種感覺" F/ |: ?% ?2 [% v5 s* I" y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ x: ]( H" I. M0 A9 t6 l6 t! s
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. z, i3 _' V8 m7 B5 M+ z覺得好空虛
; y( c, g8 B4 F" U  B9 R' \其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ w* \  N3 ]9 x7 p
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 s! U8 C6 K5 k' Y- j7 i: w7 J
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 w# m3 i& f4 x* S
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.3 Y# ^6 \/ T; a6 L8 @. U. e9 p+ o
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
9 Z4 A" E5 [1 V+ u, b/ s, J有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:
作者: Gretzky    時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
+ e2 i2 j& G3 V0 q5 I, Za) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
3 H& G# g5 j4 H6 D) B1 j4 r" ob) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.6 x1 o  Z: W( Q1 o* T& s5 K% s% Z4 {; u
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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7 M/ y& e  B- k2 E' @* \Just another thought on lonliness:
+ o! _" y, d7 FLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.
作者: Jho808    時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." R& A# @9 M3 o9 U8 c1 X
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!
作者: 遊戲    時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦~
2 y3 v* W& N- A, K) n, y我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
" S1 [7 S# Y% v& b! q4 c就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 @' t4 Z) `" B或是打爆一隻得好玩的RPG咁囉~; B0 b1 f8 V4 o
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉0 N9 ^: @% }4 k, ^5 F( z
很少會超過一天~
, g  N9 a/ o. A& p3 @6 M% u要期待更好的明天呀!
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:% F, G$ A% f6 D8 G; A: n

5 Q' @9 R/ ~. Q' Y/ T我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...
: p( H( G4 x$ r# F+ w1 }; m其實我有諗過一個問題! }8 w( U. A' {" ^
如果我唔覺得空虛
7 r9 ~6 w" i/ f3 \又點顯得出我果晚特別開心
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5 n4 _3 ^7 m, ^3 f( v$ Q; \" `+ }9 K3 I3 \正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:
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/ Y% N4 k% S  u: b5 Q  f/ I這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...
- j/ Q  a: A1 U% r: q- @3 }: ]# [可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
5 X. O9 ]7 Y! L# I% O其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年+ u) r* s* Z9 W, R$ G- U2 u) T4 K
每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎" l; c: I; P4 g! |4 j6 L6 |
而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突
& h  p5 q6 Q, [& j/ b但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係/ s3 R7 u6 I; v" c+ J9 K- H/ L3 P
so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒  ?- T; ~7 F2 J: t2 N
cos我地有人做野係輪班的: P7 n; u, X$ Z6 s" r. ]4 j
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同埋可能你都講中左d
& H6 e4 }) |+ S就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧
& v' i7 E8 ^) `有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到4 E& e( d+ X* c/ k" q$ C0 x# C7 i
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:
1 `4 J. h. S9 n4 Q. NSolitude is part of life....we long...
  x# K/ p) B/ q( y; H2 Mthat's the reality...5 \- {+ l7 D9 J, c! K; C
你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:, b8 u. B5 E4 E& A) Q0 k, z( ]
Actually........u feel lonely is it...
$ V1 o) s( q+ V* ~+ s: {' Ci know..i know my fds won't leave me5 a! m- B+ @3 U& ~
but i juz can't control my feeling# [8 g) g2 |0 Z7 p& J! ^% p
maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先
& C: P1 X  |( U/ E. E- Ebut i hv some questions..
+ r: I+ A# |4 |' E3 Z, Z其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢+ w9 _& ~9 S9 a9 A) A' Y- |: C! X; d
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要8 M/ a& \' C! j( Z
我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲
6 S- L5 T2 N3 P4 V係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野8 i: x( k4 x/ J6 n7 y7 a
呢度有冇星座高手?




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