slwong3

Actually, I would see this in another way.  From what I read from your post, you should be glad that you have her to be your girlfriend.  Your girlfriend would rather sacrifice her birthday, she would rather not having those expensive birthday gifts but to make you save more money and concentrate more on your personal economic situation.

Your girlfriend said that to you because she understands you are not rich and you don't earn that much.  She doesn't want you to waste money on her birthday.  Maybe her words were harsh at the time she spoke to you but you should concider more about the meaning behind this.

On the other hand, if I was you, as a man, I wouldn't leave the girl to pay for everything like that even if I use up all the money.(remember we are man....not just the "faces" but it is also our responsibility to take care our other half)

Also, from your post that you mentioned, it seems like it is not your girlfriends who is the type of person who use up your money fast.  It is just your own problem that you do not manage your income and expense good enough.  You know you don't earn that much from your salary....why would you still spend 3200 to buy that birthday gift.....

I can tell you are not mature enough to balance between your income and emotions.
This is also the reason why your girlfriend would get angry on you.

slwong3

Originally posted by infjlam at 2008-7-9 01:46 AM:
身為男人，我建議係：
１）盡快清卡...

same as what I thought