覺唔覺得拍拖好無癮 [toro +]

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有時候回想起以前的感情，覺得真的是入心入骨，中意一個人係真係中意她。

大個之後戀愛裏面參雜了太多的功利因素，男女都有，各取所需而已。散了就散了，過兩天又找下一個填補空虛。

對這些“托“，我很厭倦

[ Last edited by toro on 2005-4-27 at 02:41 AM ]

advvda

Originally posted by toro at 2005-4-27 01:13 AM:

你所講嘅功利因素可否再講詳細d呢？

其實我唔覺咖，不過聼落朋友講，同埋上黎E度睇，會覺得，男人都為性，女人都為錢gum樣。

好多謝你咖建議，只係就算遇到自己中意的人又再好好彩有得戀愛，又要成日擔心維持到與否的問題，ED嘢細個就覺得無所謂，大個就覺得好無謂！

但你講得好0岩咖一點我覺得係，你對人咖感覺係點，別人都感覺到。

advvda

Originally posted by Rika at 2005-4-27 01:52 AM:


I think you loved someone deeply before and somehow you finish up with her. Is that correct?
I can see you did not wanna finish up with her somehow you could not stop her. right?
I guess you are still in shock and disappointing, that's why I can feel you are so depress.
You might had sad experience. But You should not bring the bad thing from the past to your future.
She hurted you, a right person won't hurt you badly.
It's no point to be sad for a wrong person.
You had loved someone deeply. You know this feeling well. You gain! You learn something from your her.
If one day, you find someone is loving you deeply. You will be so glad.
Because you know what love is.
If you don't love what love is. You won't teasure anyone's love.
Don't be depress just by one sad ending.
The best is yet to come~

Gosh,incrediblly correct.
The only mistake is I am shock by u but not her.haha...
How can u know me bloody well?

In fact,it has been a year since we broke up.and that was my first relationship.
well ,i donnt want to continue it anymore eventhough i've got NO feeling with her anymore.

She did affect my attitude to this sort of"relationship".maybe its the reason why i posted this topic.

advvda

Originally posted by Rika at 2005-4-27 02:20 AM:


The memory of first love, first hurt will be forever in your heart
For now, you might take it seriously. This memory still drive you mad, drive you sad
Maybe ten, twenty or forty years later. You look back, it might be just a joke for you.
So why you are so depress just for a joke?
come on, be cool, be tough! you are man!
Look forward the future, don't live in the past

說真的，不需要10年20年的時間，我已經覺得像一個笑話，也已經覺得已經很夠了。
或許不同的人會有不同的方法去對待，我相信我不是一蹶不振的那種人，這個我自己知道，事實上也做到。

會不會我tough到，已經沒有什麽所謂的感情可以打動到自己呢？
你說得很對，從過去學到很多東西，知道深愛的感覺以後，可以分辨到他人是否真心。
但對我來講，我學到的是，就算是真心，又如何，正如前面bro說的，看得很透。