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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way# C& t* j" D/ B* E0 o; I( [
consider in the following (not in order):
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$ Z# |5 U/ E& _: |9 l- H5 ^* U' D. ?1st, how close the relationship we are?
' f1 j1 A9 a. |7 B: Z0 ?# w  V2nd, how serious he/she has done?
7 }4 j# O! q, b6 \3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
& p  p4 T: g: h: y5 u4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?. \6 u, C3 W7 P7 z" R/ r* L+ m$ r

6 x+ o: S( M) wfor me:9 R- ~2 S. b( R3 O# y6 I7 D
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.* ]$ \8 I( L7 `5 y
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
+ o$ n5 [8 ~( j' T; M9 R7 Fbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!! y5 b' d" X7 D+ N

* G5 o$ y! p, F0 j. a! vbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
+ b" }$ r: V0 D; J$ z0 ]+ o0 v第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。+ d+ M- i) x& m) E0 v4 Z2 A( s  w2 j
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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