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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way3 v% H( \& Q/ m6 B% V9 V
consider in the following (not in order):
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: t( a: C" i/ F7 a5 K# V1st, how close the relationship we are?
7 j6 B+ u% \+ Q2 t2 ^2nd, how serious he/she has done?
% Z6 u( \; I6 V+ W4 v; H5 @/ H3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?9 [3 M8 |3 x8 S0 h3 ~* o& [. X7 v: S
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?; ]& W' j( {! ?: x0 v5 ~  r7 `
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for me:
' ?* Y6 o) o. |/ }i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
2 d1 I6 h. U' _$ u7 G, w9 Vbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
% Q, s- V3 N3 Y" x  f' q# bbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!. E& E3 M# b+ k. K/ G
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
& _! I6 I( l4 `$ Z0 X2 O* u第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。6 Q( ~7 i: a% h# v$ ?1 k
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個0 l! j+ J$ h9 I- @) B
只要有數我都會滅