熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: n: I3 U# D  ~) f好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 Y& B4 e! O; J& k8 r
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ G* V' `: S  x: ^' z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  t$ [9 e/ e, J2 p  R8 e
覺得好空虛+ b7 W( m- H& K3 _) p. B
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 _# g( G7 C% V5 x7 J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& x$ ~, o  s) f; g3 V* G- x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' C: Y+ E& P6 s) E9 x# S
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
+ g' V/ z# ?0 D9 U7 c但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
, E9 l1 A: [8 ^熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ ~/ u/ d6 Z' v4 U2 a
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 m6 H/ N% u; f3 {3 v  Z# z8 p6 K日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙- ]9 Q  i: `" \
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% k: e+ w) T# h9 _; p9 W如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.8 S3 m, }! |7 \6 F" A* D
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..+ V* p7 x# l9 V1 n; _0 g5 u2 n
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 d' I8 X/ ^5 b/ ~1 r) z7 Q
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:8 i: j5 P& {% e: o, `5 Z
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, V+ c' \+ j+ V1 h
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 S! m- W7 p( d* E, m. n2 I
日日有車站,- c" v0 R6 S' }: k; z, w
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- ?1 q* }8 l  p9 w( z$ d/ j4 e* z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 N4 c  I" r; F
好唔鍾意呢種感覺* |3 F/ e, {9 k. ~
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 |" }) s* N& O0 Z0 e0 C8 R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ j4 v% p9 N2 l' Q* B  p覺得好空虛
  Q  b6 q' `& `+ D0 h其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ ?8 F9 H5 ^/ j+ }
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 K1 n2 \8 W' x2 z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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$ D$ l+ x) p9 E% c4 e, k: Y, [  m+ k這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
5 d4 ~3 [/ l" e5 L( f唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* }% C% W6 m6 r
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
4 z, O  d! z: R$ a- [8 A, ]c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.$ k  k6 C& r4 O: |2 T% X+ p( n

1 Z4 g) o" @9 {3 |& Q) G* T# g2 vJust another thought on lonliness:
* \0 J! `  r7 \$ {6 o4 Z& f: ZLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....$ X) e* d" V/ `. _# a# t
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 x7 R! V5 v4 }6 p  r' c
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 x4 D3 ~' ?% _' F
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
0 m7 l6 ?  z/ }- J+ i3 z或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～1 s1 ?+ f/ r8 n
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉- x/ o) I$ e* U" H4 U8 E
很少會超過一天～8 C5 Z- w/ s  I+ E2 a- F: X
要期待更好的明天呀！