熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ W, v! Z6 e* F- Q( |+ i
好唔鍾意呢種感覺- ?- c) L) A% n: }# U( B* a
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- b& ?( [, B! p; n個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 B: E: U1 }4 h, l6 w. d覺得好空虛3 b0 o8 z9 c& F, V/ R
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 B0 j+ P' K) j卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' {1 W/ m9 L4 P7 _+ E  b7 ]$ u用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 F; v$ A9 n" n7 k! E

# D& u% T( S7 I( w8 o" t[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既," f3 x& _* T9 W$ M# X2 k$ K. A
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* y/ ]' k' k+ D$ l' R; ]0 j+ K
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
/ L: y7 S2 _2 E6 ^5 p$ p* q6 I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 ~; ?0 `: E# B% F. Q日日有車站,( y! z. k, A% x/ j: s0 Y7 {
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
- X2 N& `9 Y$ Q- T* z% b; A! G# X你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, s+ ^( K* U% V2 X+ O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.0 ~1 E& }& d( N
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
+ _& L* W) U  ]  l1 S玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.8 S& E" {$ v: u
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
0 f3 |' }9 z# C7 r, Y其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ i5 ^" r/ U& g) p9 |) b所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," Y' N, ~9 [9 A) f7 R  }; N
日日有車站,  X: q9 G, ?0 \! Y( P% _
有目標!

  q. X2 W. {8 n5 d" ^9 i" Gwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 \2 z9 v- a" [  l
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 B$ ~. f- R' p# J6 H+ n+ Z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" y7 G  ~- s3 v
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* ~8 R' B9 D9 x$ Y. l$ q/ s) o個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- `; I! {; `) I# Q覺得好空虛
% _- n; a4 ^" n& Z7 E0 q3 d其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% k7 o: @* P+ k# d卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 u# f+ n! A" C4 X# Z7 H2 ^8 R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) _( @! O7 w. S) I5 h  s

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+ y- s0 o" X; z9 C. {這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
% _, w5 G8 J+ z9 Z9 J4 x4 n% F唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
5 k6 s9 f4 c+ h  L& M4 r+ c# t有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.- `* P5 _; @' ^" F4 k5 O, a
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:  `8 j1 m: \8 D+ Y$ m
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& v4 ~) s9 Y4 A9 Y) tb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! h( D$ p& F4 l6 z
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.: [5 E1 C: O2 `% i/ `3 L5 E

, Y) k6 l9 R0 DJust another thought on lonliness:
: Q  C# N& y$ M% c9 OLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
: S" }+ J) n% S" M1 kBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
) a5 h: |* t" ]7 ]; T我會有一種十分空虛的感覺$ K0 k# ]/ l' D% C- a2 s0 e4 i
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
( l2 C# z- z6 g. f1 K或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 i. }) m; g9 e- x8 _空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
& X: ?$ D1 {8 [5 |' X. z很少會超過一天～2 y6 G) n5 I+ {' y% F, P5 ]6 M
要期待更好的明天呀！