熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& S5 |6 Y; W' q好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- _8 m- t8 n" d2 A8 I* q  r琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 M! X& [3 K+ G4 `1 E! R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) W* k% G" y* Q覺得好空虛% X* h; h; p& [6 u0 H
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
$ h1 k1 E. @" P; M) J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" ?% O& @  o; P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 X- G. U/ r1 P5 k3 v( k# C
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,8 @9 n* j* m2 \! _. D5 E
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
& @* E/ m0 f" }8 M熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 J. [: Z* j4 L2 p
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- d# l% Z- _  A8 |" V5 p8 f9 b日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
7 L/ O6 H, L2 V# w  j, c你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
8 X5 W! `/ i+ b' {/ t2 q- X$ c如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
+ v0 |7 @0 H  p$ ?感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞... i7 J0 L' P/ _( W* R) k
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
/ t, I. J8 g- X# y6 c7 M/ k6 e5 m總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
7 f4 N" h6 ]! ?7 p( w! u" {其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ w2 P. {( S, g& @! a0 G( v& |+ M% `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 w, r0 g# L/ G0 j' P3 g5 ]2 ~
日日有車站,
. q, m0 u5 o- @! T4 A  j有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 G: g# o) a6 l. C2 V
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# U2 @$ K) A1 b" |9 s1 ?好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ B) T& ~# `8 k# a& E9 Z  z9 R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 ~5 B! L' D/ D7 K* c: l
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
' l& Q- U5 U; |: L! _覺得好空虛3 o5 l! N& G( T% M8 {
其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 G; }. J( O) q# H$ F# a
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! ~* n! v9 r4 b7 ^5 m
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 A$ M3 `. O. k" f

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0 ]! {$ F3 [; E6 e  p這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.6 ~, Y3 u' ]- ]2 \
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 Y4 B5 E% Z' I) j7 i
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.. [9 ], Y. @' q+ ^4 `+ a0 L! j' z
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: Z4 c; f! h$ y& D7 `6 g
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long, [4 w: }+ s7 R$ I) d
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  D# Q1 Q" K& {4 ?+ H+ j; t
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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% z; n7 W9 I# |% i, X7 Z( a1 C$ I& ^: VJust another thought on lonliness:
4 f* t- d( O5 z6 K/ w' R# |Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....9 w& M0 t& F8 H
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
- F" l% E4 U0 f我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～6 t# W% V$ u- C0 f! k& H& h+ y
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
- @8 _' l1 J) s7 Y8 C( B  w很少會超過一天～. `6 a5 i# s4 d
要期待更好的明天呀！