熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# U  Z9 L) f. D4 J
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 I: r" ]2 Q7 A3 z- D琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# B6 L# t" x; [; E! J# g
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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- N1 D* k- B1 S# R+ B, J其實早幾次都有試過係咁' N" |2 e& [7 b( s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  v* C" q( E( N/ \. i) Y用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. m# j) U2 f8 E( M. u& V) M% m
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,) f5 A; g3 v9 H# e8 x3 B+ V
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
  q! L9 r3 C+ |, _  i: D$ v) N5 I熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  p+ K; g+ L* B7 ~, U+ K所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 P) A; M3 O! t* P( Y5 L
日日有車站,+ C  r# a. I5 Z% _' J* O, P2 {9 q
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) l4 u  R; r& Z# W# L; G
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 w- s5 C. y) ~- d2 N( z! P
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( m- s" @; l: G玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.$ k2 {- T) O! u) y  E! F6 ~
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:' X  H) ~3 C4 P7 G, `& o
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ S% R* O  d/ K& `" E  a$ T
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. l) {; U! v; k
日日有車站,
' z3 H2 U8 A& U" A5 I2 i有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: v, G# i5 X; J+ i* p& J如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 ^6 N5 m8 ?$ z2 P; \% \; h7 _$ h
好唔鍾意呢種感覺) _2 t) ~9 l9 g  z, v. L# b
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; @+ L9 R( V( w2 D  p
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ {8 U7 K9 I1 p3 Z$ c& P+ G( C
覺得好空虛
! Z- r( K) H, S$ P! g( F1 n6 {2 S其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 S7 I' B0 F+ V+ q. R/ B& I/ [卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 k; _- ^, f  R0 N: a用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 E& O, |) P0 F" }- R* N

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
/ P7 f( r. [/ ^5 x) U; ]' f8 V唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足., h# q& x1 \) \
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
- n7 I) Z( V: N, j  j- |a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
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c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 [& v8 V# }  o( u  \
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Just another thought on lonliness:
9 |# n6 B9 h4 K8 c( t9 DLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 z" I8 v1 ?/ C- mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～- A7 ~' Z- s7 d. O
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
! M; N6 g1 P; F( H$ s! H% c就好似睇完一套好睇的電影$ c6 u# w/ ]$ k6 M/ e7 b0 `
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～$ h& |% q- z$ }) F% {; w0 o# H
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉. J) ~% R* D  T
很少會超過一天～: |4 H* [7 ?* I& b/ c1 j
要期待更好的明天呀！