熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* F9 ]0 V  c. M0 ?( O
好唔鍾意呢種感覺, l) H8 N. Y' I  [. a
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ o7 N$ a: ^; y9 c* ~* W個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' ]; s& ~; U0 d0 ]4 @" R
覺得好空虛
8 k9 D) ]3 e% x其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 h' e' j( ]! w3 }: N6 _卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ {4 l/ N) [4 D# T
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ q6 M( g5 @  `, Q
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既," Z- s& E" P+ O' a0 b0 B0 @
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺: Y$ i( |6 ^5 l, n
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ A9 H8 |7 n" G! d
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 V. L2 @& ]" t, w, b
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙0 }+ ~' l( A  M0 P
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. k" Y, \- f- d/ Y8 X$ }6 J) J" @
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶." `* R! j2 z$ c8 }$ R
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..2 v3 Q9 l$ J8 J- T) Q/ n* ?
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.) e5 M! \/ {# t* C3 V/ ]" z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 ]5 J# F" ]' O4 _2 D; J
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# ]! {8 p' d: g+ ~( f) u
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 z  i+ J4 `5 w- Y; y3 Y# P* S
日日有車站,5 |, X* ?! Q$ u3 @: n5 J$ u
有目標!

+ O2 L/ D/ Z4 p" D% Bwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; E4 t# Q1 L" ^7 v- b( N( l$ o如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- H  Z( z. v' Y, N* r6 S: ]/ Q好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 R: p/ h& ]5 l+ g7 ~2 o" D  `
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 h) Y2 O( Q6 v
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣- T& g# r% ]1 I  E0 P; ~
覺得好空虛% [! Y/ Y9 c' @! ]- q4 q+ F
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 \3 O( d/ Z) A+ A& m5 G
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 E# D* M9 f6 a1 d5 I* B
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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) w6 y0 p- P1 U0 d* J8 |" k- a這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' Q8 H8 V$ v" M5 z4 A+ K& Y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
7 O: ?" E9 f- e: k4 o" F有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
' F" K' u: y) e, `/ Ba) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
# w( R' g3 @* c% I( ^. O% ob) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ [$ I" Z9 x6 _# [9 q# ^9 S4 kc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 J# P) m- Q( X* z8 A

0 m, f% [$ Z9 U% X" b7 Y6 F* N: T5 @Just another thought on lonliness:
8 ^! I1 |8 Y) j5 U& \8 d. k1 KLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....+ k6 L. w9 t& f' F9 d
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 b8 v& v) K; K- t/ Z8 ^6 E8 E
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺0 [' ^5 M3 Y7 n& W* A0 _! T% D% P6 J
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
" n5 L7 g' ~2 N或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～1 N. ~- {! z" K1 G/ {: I
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 O5 ~0 g+ U, {! k( Z
很少會超過一天～
7 t9 F7 F/ G; q2 J$ c要期待更好的明天呀！