熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 |/ E* Y0 c9 v4 t$ Q( v0 W好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 k, d1 [) N/ @4 P琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: G; f9 n0 G: f* G個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
, |; z1 x, J0 z- L0 P覺得好空虛0 x* D3 d; b) U$ G+ z- N% a* f
其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ c; ?7 a! `1 S/ P  H" k! C4 ^
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 y* @' s( I1 W' V
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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+ J- N# t( U9 E2 l5 @6 b[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ u- V9 o, s; V. ?
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- o! U6 d7 }2 c' }5 t9 X4 t日日有車站,
8 C7 W1 Q: T/ N有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
) u7 I! [5 ]1 Y- }4 E7 d7 U你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ r9 @+ t, n, [" Z" ?' y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
- H2 F' j9 H- G  s, e9 b感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) c  h% l9 Q0 ~# x2 f* U玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.' j' k( c" O3 [4 i9 U
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
6 g" M, M; ]- w* j0 m7 s3 w+ T9 z其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,3 C0 K+ o6 e- z. G! r; D
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% g; u2 T7 V0 q, [
日日有車站,; I5 E9 z! Q# ^, D% g& V
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- b# G% v9 F5 l
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 g0 m$ i0 U" U3 h6 c好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 P6 E0 N: i+ u# h( c9 o  t: ?7 _
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; v# X1 F, P1 d; J3 p2 I個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 c5 I: T4 B) j9 V/ S
覺得好空虛
- O4 {1 B; f. u* I1 P  _其實早幾次都有試過係咁% i' ~# G! h* ~4 @, u
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, B: @& _3 ]% j
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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; }/ y: A6 N$ y! R9 }3 U這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
( Q: O# _  y: K9 d5 [8 q! S, m唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ b1 T; K" C6 S) A5 O) ]1 i( A# j" }
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.% }5 o$ C. T- B+ S* h: Q

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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long" a$ D$ G' X6 T1 `( q- I
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone." A; [5 u* U7 J, ~, ^# W* s6 x- z* x2 C
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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' i0 U. {6 h, @9 c4 A$ U" q+ h1 YJust another thought on lonliness:( B9 ^- b* ^8 w. h) x) }* G! M
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 y8 e; D) E3 z9 zBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～# q, |3 L& P& b' _
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% m, S1 c2 v/ F$ x9 K: o
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
9 D) Q* t) i$ Z, m或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
9 f: ?3 I! S) Y! b, X6 ~空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
; y' p5 R- t* |4 S. J5 Z+ X很少會超過一天～
$ z9 M% x/ ~+ d& h要期待更好的明天呀！