熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 ^' }# D0 s: O/ Q" Y( W7 D( Q0 m好唔鍾意呢種感覺. U5 a+ s: {; K' o  i" f# h! {
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  C1 j" M1 i. R1 F$ M  F/ n3 i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 g  \1 t1 W# r8 i' z( o* Y2 l
覺得好空虛
+ ?0 F3 |  [* S$ g2 [" f4 y其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* A- x. L% Q% t# x' l4 y" B卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 a9 i) G8 ]- l用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, G$ n" Z& X) i/ a" F
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,- C1 Y. _7 @9 J) W' `+ P
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
- y1 _9 d% X' @熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 ]* M; h4 r7 ~所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( A6 I+ U6 ^6 N. {
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
5 K3 @% k8 L* t& C9 q' g你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
$ U/ f: _# M& S/ S如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 O6 v6 ]) Z, t% H$ Q  i* G
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..  p9 u: M: k8 V. S" F* o$ ]# Z! I! P
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.; P; o2 r1 e# c9 V" c% l! x
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
3 v9 k* T9 u2 A; k! O+ X其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ b8 J+ ~6 w) S9 f' `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( a( f" g# `: s5 f' c日日有車站,
9 S$ d9 K, c* E有目標!

$ k" i8 E* o5 swhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:! T' i" ]- L4 d3 M# }$ a9 b9 V
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( x6 {, C# N( L0 r好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 g/ O. }' h5 P( h3 p; a7 S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心. K! z! e. U2 ~( N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 }$ ]; x! o. l& V3 M/ y' R0 M+ e覺得好空虛2 s9 E  N0 \+ |$ d
其實早幾次都有試過係咁( U- v- _! }3 }
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ E# t' r2 p5 u3 j
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.  o1 i& {  E% c
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
/ C) z2 F5 i- X# c! @* I. D! A有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
' ~6 r: L$ j  W0 W1 ]a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ a% f3 y+ }/ e6 Ab) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
) f( Z) C: O, G9 _5 U5 `- A. Ac) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:; J' y) E9 f# {( D" S
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....., X# d- W% [4 m1 V
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
6 V1 N" ^# U2 t* W! `: q我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
8 a" Z( n% @5 G就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
0 K$ B+ t- X, {( L9 T( Z4 ?. \) q或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
3 e  D3 `6 K4 x& W5 I6 A1 s6 R空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉, s( M. T$ T1 x* Y
很少會超過一天～
7 T) T3 L9 y. z要期待更好的明天呀！