熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 T$ g# l6 _( k3 p- E好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 K" K, O8 k! a* v2 S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 t9 X2 t" J3 i, P
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 w4 o4 o6 G) J- g覺得好空虛
/ a1 o" Y- u' ~% A其實早幾次都有試過係咁, f( W. q0 S3 J
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' S3 U* K' y2 u: ]3 Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& ]) z2 _2 c0 I5 x

2 y2 q3 h+ i. ~$ X" [  S) _: o[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,! n; b  b5 N- S- \, x
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
4 `# }$ A( k0 t0 @7 W  c% _熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 B+ F3 a* d8 L9 i! c所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 |0 d/ H* w5 f" Z1 z5 e日日有車站,
( |) Z+ r8 a5 I1 |6 i6 t# H有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
; u' g' U5 @( m. T* I; k6 J* k你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. A: U# V. ?0 k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ u$ A4 M* H' o9 B4 b我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
% ]0 L2 \- O1 M0 L& p' i0 B2 k* L感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..3 k5 w3 d( Y! t, N- ^& O
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* L" h! X# C8 `* a4 S% @3 h; l/ ^
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:+ D2 ^" k( C( C4 ?0 n
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: y2 u" h' H% ]& X; `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
4 {  G8 I: t) |. c日日有車站,2 S5 s3 B( {0 N/ e3 Q! v
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; r& [! _: _! _! q0 X* S如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; X* `0 f% ^1 p8 R, k6 s# e好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- l, ^; r$ i0 t) q0 _1 q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- |3 N. ^4 }9 i5 E. C" Z
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 B) p! A  j% c+ Y$ I
覺得好空虛
; n# ?; y$ r+ p# H8 f其實早幾次都有試過係咁. e9 D' |# Q+ s, g+ d
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! c0 M9 ^  S! ^( g5 R6 O0 X6 E/ c
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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9 B1 m) V$ h2 o+ Z* [9 Q9 M0 z; P這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ u& [$ e7 K$ a" z& |唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
- E1 k4 x$ Q9 z. t* I% I; ~; G有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: e) s* R( p; Q+ M

) q: R& f2 @6 E3 _People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:' D- G$ s; T, B/ v. c& I& ^
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
1 l0 `1 z, x9 I" Vb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.; l. g. }2 ?( A' {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.( y& i, [2 O; V6 G  V5 @

# b5 w$ N1 h  A/ |- r- hJust another thought on lonliness:
+ J' s; ~8 o0 e. f# x$ w  X8 nLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." h1 [  T) T# c6 _" I8 p
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
: U6 B' i5 @' X1 B; Y3 o& _9 P+ M( y3 m4 ~我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; Q3 c  c2 b5 V* ?" F
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 j* B) \2 H5 P  e/ j; x
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
5 ]$ ~3 I% e0 p. p8 ~0 f空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 U3 h3 M. [" [0 S
很少會超過一天～$ n/ u( k2 j* E' J" {" R
要期待更好的明天呀！