熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# @" ]) V3 H6 {6 T- K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 \7 A% g- M+ `) p9 [& n( @+ D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# D  P. R* {( l0 A2 a個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ B, i& Z& r, e+ S
覺得好空虛
$ V% e: V& H4 _' M其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 C0 u+ U5 J$ S( w7 h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* ^6 ]  T3 [; N7 `  T2 I
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?- i& r  c4 @# f: Y1 v3 d- }/ Y4 p& ]

* P7 S0 Y) D# ^4 r. v0 f  m5 i: G: w[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,% ~0 ]3 l. |- h* q. p
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* b/ }* O- P; E: B! O2 d$ s
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) t, f% p/ _% R8 A/ Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,! b) V2 ^& k3 @0 H
日日有車站,+ z! i% N4 U* W- Q+ C
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙( Y; ]/ H! |, @2 d
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 k) ^- z1 c4 l+ z7 e
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

; r- p* O7 g- _我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 q+ w! s5 l7 i6 I8 z. Y5 V
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 U( U  O1 Y3 E$ ?
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.8 g6 ^: r) x" p3 {( l9 s' T+ `! H
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
$ ]% M4 \3 ?$ c/ |. s+ K3 b其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 \3 v% L$ t  e9 h# o所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 H' t- t2 ]& k' k: Y9 H. ^日日有車站,
! F* w) T' p$ a" Q; [: Q有目標!

# s0 M* J8 `% J3 y( }, zwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 `  J  _  L0 j. o* z( }3 m2 f
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* \* f( h8 M8 e! T, `' `4 ]; y+ P好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ J& v" o5 L8 H& t* t琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 E0 {" Z* P1 }  r* z, }' Y" B: C個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 X% s% o4 c. g# P. o* e% c% x覺得好空虛
. |) @' G. C& E) w. x: l其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 U; J  ]) ^8 ~; ?# P: `; c卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, K- T1 h( s+ R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* C* i+ W, ^( q$ f' A! U

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, |$ @0 b3 G  F這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
1 K* |: V; d" j( C# ]8 y+ A1 v, _唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.# R" ~2 O# g: X9 |: y
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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! j' c( v  M3 x' uPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ m$ ~; t# Y" k/ c! h' ]a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long$ X- ^5 C7 y" M% f
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.2 H# P6 c7 T2 j' f8 @: @
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess." Y/ c3 u4 {2 t7 S0 u! s" p, Y

( Q- s, Y+ U% R% hJust another thought on lonliness:
: f" ^. N8 [5 O3 |* H) N- u. a$ T+ BLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
0 |  b* s7 K/ L: P0 g4 cBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! m( @+ W. V7 U
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
. L( C( J! Q# E- \# q/ F7 h就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
, {+ ~  |7 j( ]# u7 n! V或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～$ w3 e: X7 m0 R0 r6 F6 G
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 x0 F3 K) X: j" z# u* }( `9 R# w
很少會超過一天～) Z- I: j; T5 S0 @
要期待更好的明天呀！