熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 g9 v# `% R$ L# u. z8 k+ z2 C
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 k  B# s3 y9 U$ x, q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 b* L. D  D4 }
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 t$ h* t$ X, ?! T& t/ a覺得好空虛
; A0 G6 M7 V4 A8 T- W其實早幾次都有試過係咁* @- F$ K/ R& T" J# V2 r9 I3 @4 T
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. L# ?# H$ }% G
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( Q' m  t: P1 @. j但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
" D  B9 ^+ M, G2 a8 t  {熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* H, G5 n# z0 w3 _) g* c3 C) t: w所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& E3 D% s1 F* O* G; G+ T
日日有車站,: w" c; P3 t; R  N2 i
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
0 w- L' @  c# S& n' S7 u4 ?/ Q+ H1 M你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 R& A" z! P. ]4 f  O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

, O, d9 X  T$ S6 x- q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
1 }8 P1 P- |3 Z" S4 j# ]  v感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
9 o3 P0 }& i6 m: v  }玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 {3 ~; K* @4 g' K- ]1 F; ^; M8 b; [" m總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
4 m6 X. r: Y2 @0 P9 q1 |& P其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  g/ ]2 {8 f, ~所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ [' t2 N2 N! D5 K' K: n! P日日有車站,( y' Y6 x; Z: O! ?
有目標!

5 d1 ]* T7 y( r* nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 J: |  F7 C+ b! {- o( N& N. @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 y$ L, v- I( \5 ^% [2 I- ^5 J好唔鍾意呢種感覺: Q$ j3 s3 N; A' U
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 T5 O" I- R8 i- o- \0 N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- B  R4 P  z! h/ f2 t覺得好空虛
3 d- R9 G- k$ d  `7 r; k其實早幾次都有試過係咁& k' ~5 p: A& f+ j. H1 ]- z6 H
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) [) @9 z6 s9 H7 c9 M. u
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; \% M* n) E+ D8 O! q  @# w& W5 A

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! j" P8 C- w) O4 w5 g. f$ [& z這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( p6 l7 K7 v# l7 S
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.+ R+ N6 ?9 q& N# ^
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.% A* e: J' f' i$ U& D

$ ~1 w$ t& l1 `+ [7 E" f1 _6 j/ m/ uPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
- t: [/ a; d: @$ H2 \! [a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long  ?# Z" t/ F' S4 Q! w" R
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.7 q( A& ^4 O" H) {7 W
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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2 g5 g' g6 H( B( d7 \3 tJust another thought on lonliness:. c- ^: D2 i/ a4 O: r- u( Q$ x& I
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
8 G2 _' Q$ G" w9 Z2 a$ }But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
: G; \/ C+ b, z. r我會有一種十分空虛的感覺! n$ D3 F* G% B9 j
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影* |8 V9 X7 q7 ~
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～- R, W5 J% b1 w1 T
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉; p9 G; N' t# I2 C
很少會超過一天～  ?+ q- Z2 x6 U' T  S( G6 R: R' r' {
要期待更好的明天呀！