熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ |5 ~. s. V: \5 V6 ~+ C! p好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& E6 F% g+ ], D$ t  L( }. L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 _* ?8 r+ R9 U; Y/ {$ v$ P個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; ^% i' K: X( I- h! ?( }覺得好空虛( s" u+ h6 i" I8 @
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
$ {3 B, `4 ~, H, F7 W" R卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 o/ F+ U2 f( e用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# S  W9 h; r5 n9 s: u% x  h1 {0 A
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
/ Y0 X4 h9 i/ l/ z但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
$ @2 F7 v+ P# N& w+ L熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: L. _9 }, g# w+ q$ J: V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  ^: W% N5 y/ C: s5 F, o
日日有車站,+ N8 w5 j! U& j5 m' a* ]# a
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙, U5 M6 {: R  ~' V" a
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& `9 n# a$ C% p, ?" D
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
9 S' n, k/ f; Q( e- j; i0 [- i感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..0 S+ R: r. {% f1 e; H: z. T3 n- i( ~/ y
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
& {4 e- f$ o& P' N; J總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:9 L8 Y- z9 }; N) J
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 N) g, O# Z- c- D
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 E7 l4 Z( A( E! M: ^6 n) P1 d: y( e; \
日日有車站,( b/ P8 I6 x, S2 N6 M
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ U* G3 s1 \, `8 H" }$ F' y, q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 S! q0 t. k9 \7 @' \6 i" e) g
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 a$ L, i. @$ ?# W
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* c; T  P$ h# |/ a# f
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" j/ K" ~  ?" \覺得好空虛
9 E- J" d8 q0 y其實早幾次都有試過係咁% g- F- O9 n& ~" |" t! c9 m: q3 _+ k
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# k) K  D. X. H1 V* M+ ]  r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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8 f. {4 X. d% x  h% R8 H4 ~這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.3 @' e/ x5 e# b5 I, J! V6 q5 R! b
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.5 C! a) v7 i8 n# b1 @9 N$ K* s
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:" \8 l' W; j2 }
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long# F% g. Z' w* n/ p' u: `
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.5 L9 y0 n6 m, W4 G0 o
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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' A$ v3 e, V) N. ~Just another thought on lonliness:
7 H1 b# t) n+ H+ q; w- _Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
$ J$ |- d/ i4 n* c- a6 KBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 M: ?$ R: D9 ?  ~4 B
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% @2 r! i. g* ~8 [3 M1 e* J7 b8 U
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( q$ @+ Q0 |) g+ O" B' k: W
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% M3 b7 P/ X$ @$ k4 H6 |; ]空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
; z8 {0 ~2 o3 s' J9 h! Y$ l很少會超過一天～
( C0 K3 b: `! C2 k要期待更好的明天呀！