熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) _+ I% i9 U) I- p* }, M
好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 r) A# [) U, Q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 C+ f6 g9 M' V. |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ ^( W$ y3 S, R* D, t覺得好空虛* W1 b0 }/ H+ V) `8 u
其實早幾次都有試過係咁; G7 V9 i6 a# t% d
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 x/ V& W( \" k3 c' s# ?1 O用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: Z/ Q9 ^) P" A

* d3 j' M2 t/ B2 `[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
* E. Y% G6 k) ?/ n) ~5 h但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
  X3 v9 N( R& u$ Z; H; H熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 H. U( W' e- [7 I" ^0 x: B/ D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 d: {6 D: ?0 R6 j2 }, r0 N5 c- r! {/ \$ }
日日有車站,
1 Y3 Y6 d2 s  T8 y- `" |% u# U1 K8 {  t有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙* l/ p% q) t- V' `% ^4 x
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 s. M( G4 n- D( W如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 A0 l1 U7 |' o( D3 l2 M; v我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 j3 f. x7 m( L# }
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 U6 y: e2 l! r) R# H6 O# e
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
$ _' v# V, z$ S; x總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:4 W# K/ k" x  i" V5 |$ Z
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' q0 U. h  j1 v' t" E
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ x% ~# h  v4 E1 w; d
日日有車站,
2 h, b# t* V4 E+ ~  L; y有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% H7 M7 |2 T' m, E3 R' H如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( z) p) Q/ j& v/ o5 M, Y" u好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. r. ]4 u* W+ ^8 _: o: c" f- @- a1 f8 S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 L# `1 [' s0 J" B3 T/ S個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( \7 w' {0 a5 f
覺得好空虛
$ n* m) v% h, e# ^其實早幾次都有試過係咁  E1 \3 h2 D$ N
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, l( ^* Y& L# Z. i用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ W% z: z0 Q7 r/ h9 ~$ P) O+ c

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.; ?4 h. @# b  p0 ^- d% V
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& Y, M; e$ e' c  }! {) Z: F
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: B- q( D) s* B( T$ s

' f( J$ q! ]! q6 F9 J4 WPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:# v+ N8 V4 X7 z+ u
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long& }& ~, ?% I! d, M' ]3 A" b1 [
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! w# O( h8 x8 [& H* j. ^
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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$ ]. E1 C' Q% ]; R' `' f9 dJust another thought on lonliness:5 g% K* c  D: r: J5 \
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....& m( b* }1 W- C9 b
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 `! f; ^# u; z+ m, W我會有一種十分空虛的感覺$ d/ ~0 H* X3 u# Z# b" v
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影+ \$ o6 ?6 d7 O- |7 a
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 W' v! j! |9 u4 D3 \' Y
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
. P2 Z* d5 S- a& U+ u% e+ `0 }很少會超過一天～* a& U' ^6 S; o% C
要期待更好的明天呀！