熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 c' z( T& S) V7 Y4 [; _好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ }' t0 Q/ M2 u2 U, o  X琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 O" s( m: ~7 n2 x1 @個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 a. N, K- G7 o' t9 E2 x7 X8 k
覺得好空虛" u0 I3 V+ u2 V& J2 I! s* ?
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
3 X: h: d5 i2 e: w2 A1 X6 W# L2 W卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" j' q+ p& o& L" M7 x
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,+ }% y* n- \2 K# Q2 M, P2 D& `  e% L
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺1 o& k" M# {( C7 ^' G4 @2 G
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 e' W5 l  {7 o# K所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 E. Y/ g; j6 D' \
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙" [9 O. Z$ s: C
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 l4 x; a# X3 S+ g0 }# `; N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
5 _' V! [: W& [3 L: }6 T: r感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..$ E4 {  i. ^& y. m2 c; A
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
8 S3 z# F: g& q0 F總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
0 y8 d! t( ]5 b' ^! k其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( y6 @! @( ^4 R- @, G
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 \( X! g; Y& z/ E! N日日有車站,
7 E! n5 G: B3 S/ @2 ^( l有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. d& T7 A( C! n9 m& b$ J) t+ X
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 O+ D  I: {1 k# ~: e3 n好唔鍾意呢種感覺) C0 B( v- V8 W$ S
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 x6 E. l' j" ]# c' u; a; Z
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ I( a/ A# H. M1 X7 w7 X& G
覺得好空虛! L& j  g. a( a& x/ l, c
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 Y" n3 x5 U4 ^$ D- ?. Z( j8 P, m5 @! z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( M( O2 s' I; m. y8 Z2 o; {$ I7 W0 i
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( v% f) i" ^9 z( A$ [- H

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# Z/ a( N* a4 W% }& J9 a這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
5 ?" w" ~. @4 Z唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* z; t, o+ O8 _3 X6 A8 v
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:% F- l  T" L  N7 L
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
% u; x4 D. Q1 G$ C" u3 e: g5 u2 U5 Lb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
1 u( x1 t; |2 X$ |- q; ec) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:: s7 f# M- Y3 M+ S9 F8 q- `
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- V+ B. V1 M3 t8 q5 R! g
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
! D% G8 L2 F  Q4 x. q我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 _# t$ W% x( N9 S3 r% H1 _就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
( {9 q7 s! @  S' n或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
4 C4 N+ y8 L3 a) M) b& c6 `空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉% X- ^0 O# M# p! M, J1 `8 l
很少會超過一天～
: y& ^' R) J+ s/ F) N要期待更好的明天呀！