熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 R( |# c, O" n$ f
好唔鍾意呢種感覺( Z- U: C! o# v) Z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
/ O4 Q5 Y1 S$ j: L, `% }個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: C3 z2 c$ E( S! P覺得好空虛! E/ L5 ?! R( y* @
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 [# M, `# U8 M( b; o
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 x: ^5 o+ D- \, }# {用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% {( O, P- ~& K. u

( K- P5 a0 ~0 N[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,3 }% y% k! Y0 W5 l0 ]7 z
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺4 c  Z1 Q1 m0 z* O6 p
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 Z, c' |  x7 K2 V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. M/ w* O' [5 _/ U
日日有車站,
2 V+ O* v7 @% M- C有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙- J2 Q2 U, o: D1 I3 t* {4 O# B
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 A! K" U3 z0 g: u& E如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

8 T4 ~9 z3 U9 R  v/ q, U' J  |我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.. O% ^  c* f6 g) N& q3 L
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 m3 w& p, |0 A" e" K
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
! Y2 ?* M) E/ g' h& k6 ~總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: M/ o6 D7 g8 p, V; a: I+ A其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& n  d& A' y6 u7 B* W$ Q6 ~) p& b# G所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: f! R( C/ r: [
日日有車站,
' }. i* d6 D' _有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 D' _3 Q- T& @# @; O
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  a1 z8 i# f6 s! T3 h4 |
好唔鍾意呢種感覺+ K" K; U+ A. }* x4 w
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ {3 _9 @+ i( A7 t
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# c2 l: g- _# ]* z覺得好空虛
7 c/ Z- w* k0 ?8 V' n其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 f% g" g2 }6 f7 X- D9 p
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ L) C. r/ G; R+ D7 l* J- A5 O2 h$ W
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! Y; O  X3 ]$ d

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( {/ A# U  Q! ]! r% m  g
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' [; `  y' Q; h  f' `有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.! [: _; }% S  z& C2 ~. R7 @

$ c7 v, i8 r3 M) {0 j+ jPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# t  i. E( X4 k/ W$ o) F9 Ja) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
' X& x' R/ y, c1 V+ `b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ {- O1 F6 e1 _) u5 V, e0 P+ vc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.) S$ d- B9 `/ H

+ F; W3 f' c. i8 R0 p% NJust another thought on lonliness:# u  n+ L% O: L1 U2 m
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....( c3 r0 W. h( W$ |5 m) D% I
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～, M$ K% c8 L  [
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺3 {, E' s1 j2 g! c1 Q( B2 o
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& `" P( [# p" u% Y$ L
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  k$ C/ Q5 ?" q0 K+ e: W空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
" B5 W9 h1 ^+ E. A4 M' C很少會超過一天～
& m) ?3 _; f, E9 g0 }- F# Z9 Z要期待更好的明天呀！