熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( E: M8 [9 q# K  \- f
好唔鍾意呢種感覺: x2 `& N3 }3 p& y( j
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  @" z1 S0 L9 t. K/ }! S2 [
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 X3 K, r9 R) M: t% O0 V覺得好空虛
- E# H/ N' D# G; G" s9 z% i# n& g' d其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% m( b, y8 G, n4 B' j. {卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ X7 S  E9 b) G( J用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
2 j) m9 y3 T7 A* q: H但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
( S5 \4 H, @0 L7 g; }6 D- Y熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  M( ^: W* B  k+ b所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. ?: I% b2 M# l4 G! \' U3 n- @3 r
日日有車站," a* i8 B7 z) [5 A( |
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙" T. ?4 ~  G4 o; h$ ?. g
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ x0 _5 A6 h: t3 A/ B& M6 C3 e如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶., N6 ]$ l( u* `& ~+ A
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
& Q: u% H  |6 {! f* b玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.$ j: t) `- V% f2 Z% G
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
5 n- m1 Q9 x8 J1 N其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 }3 B/ p4 I; w& \1 J9 L/ P$ K, M
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ |: z2 j# K9 M
日日有車站,
- E- l' W# X$ Y- Q有目標!

8 N3 G6 r8 J$ Z; U% `0 }1 C; x1 Swhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; Z/ e9 H+ F6 e如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' q2 Z6 _9 e- i4 J# {5 i  L好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 J: h* r  n4 Y) d" y% e琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 ^2 e; x7 I4 L( d" |9 ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) H( ~# l  W$ B; H. O9 s) }& H
覺得好空虛
1 Z5 I2 q/ \2 {8 e" W, j8 i2 e其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 S  E8 p1 I- v* m1 ~
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, q% Y4 P# _6 P, ?. j% V4 G用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.  Y5 n; C+ b0 W& @
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
2 @/ p# \; `) @8 O, U# c9 H有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.& [/ k* s* n5 O+ N2 v) V

; U% _; \5 ^' l/ f- i0 f; j) \People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
2 l# J# o9 s6 h+ ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
6 f, o8 T8 e# N2 t0 L% q8 wb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.- j6 w: S$ M( o9 o1 x/ W2 C
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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; p- W+ m6 S- D$ w0 v8 X3 ?Just another thought on lonliness:
# l! @  h1 S9 [5 y# `' Z# gLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....( d2 K8 ^6 C! H9 X( l& R
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影/ p# V% U9 X/ r
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～/ o: l! h& T9 Q; A4 V2 n
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  \0 W7 U% |* ~& ]  {$ H
很少會超過一天～
% p4 F' d8 f2 Z# L4 F0 Q要期待更好的明天呀！