熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( y& U2 M! q, u. R& Y
好唔鍾意呢種感覺( ?+ y) S1 a! S7 A1 @' u
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 ~: C3 p/ F* ^; M5 w* |) L
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: Z) g2 {" N4 j$ {覺得好空虛
/ f! F- ]& o% Y! Z+ o# a9 A7 d0 ~其實早幾次都有試過係咁
$ G. d, \6 P1 [3 |5 ?$ Z4 g; x2 a卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 Q. q9 S# R5 A$ l# P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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3 X/ q4 J' Y/ {- s2 E+ r) I# r[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
6 K5 l# F2 E) j8 Z但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 I9 x/ P# {" H7 f' a熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; c. I3 x* }4 \( [$ b所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* V  ?) z- z- c9 }& ~7 a% k* Z; W
日日有車站,! B$ G+ |& p+ Q% Q9 F0 T8 R9 L6 U+ l; }
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 m/ ~+ L( q3 A6 W; r7 ?
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.# S: G0 ]' O6 T6 k) z2 A
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
1 M3 `/ ?8 @( k$ t$ {" C2 t/ ?玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
' L0 E$ w  _3 E9 V2 ]總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 X/ U4 j1 g! s" R: ?其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 g$ ?, B0 i) U
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, r4 ^& ]6 b. w
日日有車站,; C4 y' Y0 ~& d" m* ~# G' U  `6 O7 x
有目標!

* [6 J1 {" C$ W4 ^( t7 U  Ewhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ g3 c) h5 O# C$ M
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, x( ]0 |2 Y& c5 S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' M' X, z; o# y. N7 Y" d4 Q2 z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  `/ Y! k4 e* ~' ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 z0 N6 }2 ^; o8 b* d. x! r
覺得好空虛* G3 X( z5 k0 k' e, Y* h
其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 U& _. c2 R" [6 p2 X
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 m% H8 q) Z& }& y  P3 t, R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* z. Y$ E& r" P

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6 x+ @' `4 V( r1 |7 O這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
. b& P9 H+ j3 ~' C- M, g3 k# K唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
! B' U% m; ^. {+ k0 l4 W. X$ u有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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( i5 K4 `: [; b) {People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone." q. k: [5 s( x; D; z1 P7 A
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess./ R! w" |3 a. P2 [

9 b& {1 T9 A- F9 CJust another thought on lonliness:
! d. c0 Z( R- P9 OLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....6 {' h: F: z! T& x, ^/ H+ O6 C
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( u0 o/ r. L# v) n: s
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
9 V3 f; E- S8 e: c空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  y% U, h8 z4 j- E
很少會超過一天～
. s4 \9 @, ~* t. `要期待更好的明天呀！