有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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- T  d3 K( ^- d, Z0 w* b: h3 C- i感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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) s& `* J8 R5 Fany suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似... \2 t* D+ D0 ?8 ^# q9 @9 v
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..6 c% w# A0 d0 C4 J! j
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
* E$ e* v1 S  A7 ]  L哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me6 L% t. W& {  {. o9 e

: ~! o8 |/ F2 T. w% `2 B9 T3 U唔係好想講experience...
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  J: G0 t3 \8 ^! d' M不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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# o+ Z" C3 s: K, {, C/ O; h9 o我唔係想做獨行俠,
; I2 `" A: j. j( P只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
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1 u& q+ Z% r9 q  a5 g4 D& B我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:+ f; R9 D3 W0 b; S- a
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！
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