有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
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# ]4 h: e& j3 w0 z* L4 T$ j0 S) aany suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..6 \$ B$ F' L/ J7 E9 q
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..8 [7 t; O2 l  ?, {" Y7 g: ?
咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:
" m' V& Y0 X8 ^& _# d哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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1 x$ N) M0 S* g0 M5 Z' g6 ^( q% L5 x2 _4 Wgood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me' K9 D, [& W% Y2 L% k' C% x  q3 z1 I
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唔係好想講experience...
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不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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: a* L) Z- G+ J4 c5 g: Q- M我唔係想做獨行俠,
6 Y% J' m0 B# X& n% v只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.% J1 F2 h. [* W) K; T! `+ a
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:9 H; e. m' D" z5 g
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/ N% W% {# _- Y# }& Q6 e$ a* @& f  k我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”