有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?..." E; w" f) q( B( B
8 A9 [0 J: t$ Q4 Z7 E3 G; e
感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...
1 p- [  B% y4 S' c* \7 J. ?! P, R" b- u6 E1 R1 @) u5 j. D
any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..
9 D( {/ W; f0 q- S4 z7 {( @( A我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..
( f4 v& U" h, s  Y# u咁樣學下功夫,多做事小說話小胡思亂想..嚴重d睇心理醫生./吹眠..純粹個人意見..

john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:( g9 g5 I" n0 ]$ n5 y! ]: ]& o
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

4 b8 g4 \$ A3 [* R
4 @$ D; e* |7 A* e9 ^4 d' X
good to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me
0 h) X6 {3 B" k" Y  F+ R
6 M- x7 |- q+ Y/ P$ ^唔係好想講experience...' y7 j' x1 O% u5 q1 K( t0 x7 W; J2 x
' U# _, L' t/ u$ F' ?
不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....% l: ?/ x& D( c* N  z0 N5 p

. v' \& n! ?4 u; q2 T2 P# R* g我唔係想做獨行俠, ' K; S1 S6 Y  o+ Q9 r
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:
$ [( x& z1 A$ C$ E9 i
: Z9 F$ ~. v4 L5 @$ q3 t我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.7 _$ G8 U( A! J$ M' G1 z

. ], @. v+ s* Y解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:* V8 V5 |) `4 k3 |  }0 M2 t7 v
個人分享:
& t8 g& k3 I" N" s( `) y: b+ q- p2 d
我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

$ j/ p/ G6 e8 K
係呀！2 i3 S) y, {! L; v2 v2 f7 G+ }! `
只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”