熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 r8 L+ R% {3 f7 I+ }+ h2 \好唔鍾意呢種感覺( e& x( _! u2 n3 k7 W; \
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
/ Q& `- z7 X! |個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" ]2 t7 `9 }' X覺得好空虛
% D9 F2 O) p. N. q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ v4 K  X. V- L/ z6 {卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* T0 W) G- K6 c) E) V, A6 K
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 H' _/ Y  n/ g4 E4 J

+ e1 J& V& e9 x: e- q# U7 t' ~[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,* x& k: j) P# Q: i( j6 a5 w+ E
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
4 z* Z9 v  p8 F; G4 T熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: ]8 k* d9 V# c" w" K. u$ i  {所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ G8 j7 X( C# {日日有車站,& d. Q& p' J& `- s3 @
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
  D3 h. z* }$ C  g你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; ~2 b7 Z7 G9 P0 `
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

0 G' h# {$ C. H) m  O* t" x5 ~我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.( j& X0 W. N- o! q
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
' x9 ~4 Y( |* B$ I* I. X0 Q8 ^玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
$ [) J0 T2 Q: F& `8 i9 B3 a' e3 z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:) p& T0 A  X3 [4 G$ w% V% i, f( a
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" w8 `8 M1 F& f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# ?8 ~( M7 l: j4 o
日日有車站,
( W4 r# J; M9 j有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  C1 L2 x  R$ F如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
$ N: a" a2 J$ \2 B- Q) m好唔鍾意呢種感覺! ~; @# e: J6 l1 D" l
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; ]0 `  m* r7 I/ p
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 a5 q9 X- p: c6 a! X$ O
覺得好空虛
' x9 J- h8 o9 q: {# G9 K# C其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# B1 b. X9 j3 s% \卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ \+ c( ?4 D! L* N3 T# i# n用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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, z) Q% T& u' q( F& Q% y& T. N這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
& d' k" _0 S. W, F唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
. v. V5 O+ @) P有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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2 k) @- P, l! r( y- @- q9 HPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:# e- {* w5 Y4 x2 b
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
3 G- a( G* j) u! @9 U% o) Ub) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
) e' x% T1 @1 a4 l) i4 rc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.; j' R& X' b6 `4 G' t

7 c8 D/ T+ j/ n: q/ y5 J& VJust another thought on lonliness:! t. P* ]5 F  O6 D% T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." Y5 X+ C$ z5 E* Y  ~
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～6 Y. j$ B0 V0 A7 q$ D9 {% L
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 m; z: V2 B# v. k* j: u. A
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影, G, k3 }: n7 k# F( U
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
" L: I( s2 B7 w6 G5 v空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ A! E3 n7 _! T很少會超過一天～
' c' e4 @% c5 x: s5 L) }$ |要期待更好的明天呀！