熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# o7 T) }* f, J" m: ~- ]: Q5 p
好唔鍾意呢種感覺. r3 e2 n2 S+ d: Z" J6 S
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 Z) o2 v% [: H
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* {6 |3 E  O1 b
覺得好空虛  K# P1 N4 ], [& s
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' T5 ~6 x+ {1 t: b7 q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ I" C$ n2 P6 d! r1 H  r; B( E0 V, O. D
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) C- [; n; l" p' i8 _

/ y# V% ~% P- ?  i" v1 `' H[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,. B0 J1 R8 ^- m3 z
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺6 P' q% x6 {* Y3 }  F
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) u3 A7 a! G/ L  w
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" S; O$ M& P, Q日日有車站,2 @. A$ Y/ S/ U3 P' _
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙' ?9 T1 l& \; m3 l
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% X; a0 G. Y. q/ D8 T1 ]3 T* U如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.& n8 s" j* _4 Y) W3 `+ e) F" X
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..! g6 H% X" _9 T9 ], @$ ?3 {- S
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: _2 f" W$ [6 I/ K! w9 ^3 j
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
2 `% f4 A$ Z& F, ?其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; ~4 D/ Y/ Y" C) t; m9 k
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 l( L2 L* T4 x# C" p  F: T" U% e7 `日日有車站,4 y) O( k3 a; M3 Y& D% f% \5 j' \
有目標!

5 ^# o7 k: e1 c  H5 y* ~# o/ mwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' X2 S4 q) q- D  v1 q: D! \1 u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ o& ^9 A4 }/ h5 w8 b1 J! E; c# _
好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 D8 n+ }6 @3 w# J
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ I7 v. a0 q9 }4 G8 N1 G2 e5 ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' Z+ [# K, u/ |) k7 Y
覺得好空虛
+ K* F/ z( Z8 b* P: r2 \) r其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 A3 p! T; o8 S* t/ C% @/ Y3 Z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( _: \) D3 {  S4 A" T8 l9 ~4 H2 M" i用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 S% X& x' p( t% ~; l  F8 C2 [

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ s" d0 U  c+ @' V
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
0 e0 P! f  _' H. c' ~; z5 X8 }有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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  Q7 \2 w6 I* o; y- j- Q! bPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ S. G$ U5 w7 \8 Na) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( v3 w& w( S( l/ U8 zb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
8 j" p  g* t9 h" ac) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 k# T# B. W, L! j: x* t! a. B- f

/ O$ Y0 n( K& z9 VJust another thought on lonliness:
& r1 m0 f0 I8 l2 aLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
, S4 J( r9 I. i2 XBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～6 m7 g+ {3 ?5 G! V/ X/ {) F. B' \
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺5 F1 `; l+ z& {) f
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影1 Y. g8 G7 i* Q9 q2 I0 j
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～6 V2 G4 \  U* r: n" ]! |
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉! I7 ~. w5 U- u$ g9 |7 N6 E
很少會超過一天～
# E7 ^  j" ]  K0 {! A: q9 k8 d要期待更好的明天呀！