熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% K7 e& v6 x+ J' o& T3 i
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& ~" q. m+ }: H# V7 A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! `+ ^5 Q* @! O+ u7 l2 \個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 I+ n5 ~) `9 ^2 Q' u! K# N覺得好空虛
# g) |/ O& n* o其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# D+ c. p$ f- |3 K/ @9 w' ~卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 w' m7 ~. E5 ]2 Z$ b$ }# F用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
* r$ Y! x  E% y# \+ e6 z: ~7 b9 {& S' }0 v. z5 K* b& j6 n  w
[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,+ Q) r7 I! D$ a; d2 o
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
6 ?( x( n& z# ?, P& F熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. \4 t6 s5 l' E' T* b( k  e
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) k) p; i  L: o  L- _2 w日日有車站,
( X' o! F( ~9 m; m- _0 z3 S有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙! Y# y2 d8 H2 r/ U5 T$ r
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* X* v2 L! v9 c
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& w7 h2 a5 y' F$ h) E
我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; G& y/ O$ t/ V$ }- [! g感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
$ E/ V  x" M4 q0 j玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
/ a3 D, K7 |* [總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
% x7 k8 M, ^4 b1 ~' o9 ?  Z: \+ g" b7 T其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 t3 b6 h) E7 a! G3 e/ [) _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," N0 A2 F, o! R
日日有車站,2 u* z. P9 X  Z3 P
有目標!

  @' Q$ C5 u3 d, q7 D
what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( N3 U7 w' ]' m! f: i7 t
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. t5 @* O/ [, c7 n
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 C7 J8 r$ U5 B3 J- W4 U: v# r0 Y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! N& @! J: {/ n0 u' `
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 h8 h7 h4 o& d覺得好空虛
: g0 i* A5 b; Q1 w; Z其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ r6 Q- s) G% g) }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, I, ]; w  C; C: P, k1 L用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: g4 v' M, }6 N/ c9 n( [

  a% {# H5 {! i+ O, U; A4 c8 ^. c4 [. }, q, c: y
這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.; ]  K+ ~9 |. a, u, w8 S
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.8 C8 I$ |7 ^1 L7 T" }/ @
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
- o' u( @# t4 K  M7 u" k, J( ^" `2 W2 z4 B
People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:* n. V+ Y* c" ^! n6 a
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
+ Z/ h& q2 O' x  z2 Kb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.- K5 F& H; Q* G
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
0 O6 p# s) G8 [; W, F$ I$ j% l# p) C% ]2 D/ U2 }% S/ L' [* T: s
Just another thought on lonliness:# P: D+ o, D4 r+ r0 |) d
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....' d9 x; C% d# d* i0 M! n
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
) [1 z# C$ T& R* `我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
; i1 k5 ~& `0 r, x就好似睇完一套好睇的電影8 g* k& V/ F3 F% L4 U
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～2 G7 w, |% b2 O) E: B5 b' @3 s
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
# x* W" V, Q  h% t$ T很少會超過一天～
- ~6 E! {$ O# ?- n& Q要期待更好的明天呀！