熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; }. U( p8 @6 G+ P- d. ]好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) B. X7 N! e8 @) i2 q1 r" t琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" }" S1 T! \1 c個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# o" U" `6 _! G7 ]# n9 B# U覺得好空虛
7 Z+ w/ \3 ]. v. i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 W) U; Z- J7 }6 o. U2 M/ e: C& [$ H  V卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 m; ^  d$ C, a9 S0 F
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ c, A% {6 n; H# B3 x, v
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
1 i2 a2 R6 y* Y& F' v( p但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺: S, Y! s4 B/ x/ a
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) u; r0 Y% ^$ \8 \# i/ C! o& M9 E所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
* C9 y* V. N4 W+ y7 g日日有車站,7 j7 e( G$ w7 c% T% B1 b- l
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
6 v8 D; W6 o2 @+ y) W/ |你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 A7 O# q- f& R如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.; N8 f  t* @6 T- k2 ~+ F$ r1 J: r3 z
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 F2 U0 N  n; `' B( P& S
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ m6 d6 G$ u) ?& {$ Q8 n
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:( h0 m2 I5 T* W* |9 W: F+ A( x
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 h8 A8 j* y* D) \所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
* y3 U* i2 z, P5 }日日有車站,
9 e. p* ^0 v: J3 v% ?( L- W9 R有目標!

# {" w8 f8 d0 B' nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, X9 O* `( J/ o# {% v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 p/ G% `$ f+ K/ L
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! a  p$ d$ {  y5 n' A2 @$ O+ [# N琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ a7 S$ L1 e2 O+ {. D
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# z. P: ^, ~: z8 g/ M6 X覺得好空虛
4 q6 l3 S; y; I. o其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 T+ s* p, ^! Y7 {/ i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ u* S$ z# G' A5 k; d# S- ?7 ?3 K
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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2 h1 [2 i2 i7 D- b8 F5 N" t這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
7 ~( Q6 o- o7 w1 V) l% v- S唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
/ V. S  T: R8 C5 c有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* f- S1 F& R' T/ L3 u
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
* }: R$ T5 @4 k( q( ?a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long- H! g8 d5 Z) Q( i0 E+ k. [5 F& p
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( K$ @6 X- |' |
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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" V  n9 N3 M0 M5 f3 Q* xJust another thought on lonliness:
) H( J3 b5 h! `3 XLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
; s3 n0 H& Y6 }0 mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～4 U; q( N8 p; P0 J3 m% t$ T5 ^  @
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺0 _: @, n# v. m) ?* `! o/ p
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影) h8 U; Z- Q8 Z5 E+ f0 u: _0 r
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
/ ]0 r! V4 j( J% G, _( {空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 P# o9 z. n$ G0 e8 h( ]7 Q很少會超過一天～
+ ~9 o. T  i! J要期待更好的明天呀！