熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 `" ?7 X2 q, E+ U' s" k
好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 ~! L  k: P/ K) b" c
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: m! {. R3 q! b! O個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ a- M$ v4 V7 x  B3 `% O% l9 |覺得好空虛
& c3 Q& F  b( t% D7 z其實早幾次都有試過係咁, J" i  T% I' f" x7 d
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 d$ z8 [/ ]3 _1 |8 ^用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,5 q+ r) \+ }% D8 ~6 t* b; `7 r
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺! H+ x/ l( ^  t, a( G; e
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& m% Q) t* w/ n
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ I7 T" c  }3 \9 x日日有車站,3 E- O  ?7 S( f8 I1 M: F! @. c. E
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 p* ]  I2 @4 X/ _
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) [/ K, r5 ~) C* ?8 B) k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

3 i0 Q3 M; }7 h8 e我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 q) Y: a- t# _5 \7 S
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
- s. Q- f- |% D  I1 Q5 Q" J玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.; z4 h- q4 ~$ g: |
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:" Z3 J. b2 I% S) t9 S* h
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* g- O! E! j- y: n; S. H; D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) I3 ^; O# h- s3 Y7 y
日日有車站,
4 C  D  u# A+ V! C有目標!

, |$ P$ s7 ?) w8 A/ X/ R4 j0 Ewhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" @2 B% E1 u$ v) l' i如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& w3 E/ W0 u: c- a/ D" x3 ?好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, @: m: [2 d+ ^, f, I. I: V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 {1 j' I' k% c& m8 \( S6 k個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 [; w# V# q. ]- }- ?% u
覺得好空虛5 r1 N  C2 P& `0 `8 D. `+ Z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 Q) z. p5 T( t+ E, ?
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# K* @, A- }5 K7 U& {' M
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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" v, f" \( }# V9 o! y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' X1 X3 r; ^* _8 N- \6 Y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
9 L! R  h- U* s1 t8 i" S有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.( j5 U" m; y. Y8 z8 p; k) B

  `: n7 t: j% }; D8 R! B  K( M- @People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 ^  N, u+ ^* F
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 K3 R8 S1 q; _) s1 m3 m
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  P  x0 j$ k: j9 J. D2 I5 \% |c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.4 G# L+ v, T' y

+ S3 m* I2 u! K8 H' c: D/ V: |Just another thought on lonliness:
4 O6 d2 ]/ d8 w0 p, LLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
6 I0 N( d" ^3 N" o3 U% k# P2 }( D% mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～" u6 F0 e! m8 k( T2 L4 r9 n6 K
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
5 [& G. ?: L- s8 g就好似睇完一套好睇的電影: v6 n0 X, \1 f, U
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 ~( P- c; t. y" e; g4 d  _4 s
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 u# @" U- o: N; z4 a  z& I很少會超過一天～  f) d3 e# J2 B/ G6 `
要期待更好的明天呀！