熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 ?( {; i9 E  l- S好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 w4 M  r: B" d5 |- j' s琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' f2 T1 r) @$ |, m個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 e( W' o, V" E5 p4 O. v& X& K覺得好空虛$ O) r9 e) u' g, ]+ ], u2 M
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 M. _0 l. a( S$ ~卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! K4 o1 Q# m! R7 {+ o用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 C9 z: g0 z0 T9 z# w
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
2 l% p: {+ t# u/ j( G- D熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) b5 }3 d5 W9 G4 _" J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 B' q8 ], F/ V' @$ o
日日有車站,% j$ L# x4 i! W0 {9 r
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
, S. \6 d" ]7 I/ b4 R0 U% J5 h. L, K, m你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 U' M8 g  @& k' `. X) L6 _# @4 I如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.6 ^8 U, D1 v7 Q4 S
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
7 N  S  G& x( Q1 d玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
" I! k8 E8 q# c- |" R總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:! `6 M( W) C, z* k8 |
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 P$ V1 ^! q2 \
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% ~4 T  z9 x. e# v' a+ I2 M$ f日日有車站,8 t' P5 q# Q; p: O) u4 `8 t  X
有目標!

/ ?4 D5 _5 I$ ?what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 I' g' d8 ~/ y' V+ z# V! b如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  N6 e( k2 D3 P, a8 K, s
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" u  d$ H# A6 F. D! r3 R$ N琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' k& R5 _: p$ _' f
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: p2 F, T  ^& E$ L
覺得好空虛
( q+ ~' ~1 |6 |1 c; M* b其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 l% o  L' f- a: P
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 J7 U1 g  v- r2 P' ?$ r
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 a' l1 ?# _3 t" R, M& `7 g6 Q

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) \" r  B( p8 F8 A0 b+ V% h這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
3 Z- Z) ~' h; J; E0 b$ X- b唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
, T& n8 l9 i2 m5 c9 b! y有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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' H! i6 U1 S% L0 a! I# ?. J& @* `People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:3 j$ K) q- c9 [6 k  \6 S
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
. f8 C# E; H: l" L  [+ A( rb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
8 v/ ^% Q- T0 {4 ]# Uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
7 }! k. E$ y: J/ U+ TLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....  ^1 t9 P& f2 ^. ~; w
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 W$ m1 ?0 q& v& o/ T. p: L2 e3 D
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% h  z: V, Y6 y# ]' k  y" L
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
5 ~9 X! ?9 s* A3 }# f或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～1 c7 w* _2 i# i0 p
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
0 C' N* ]0 k1 X* h6 ~) @- U很少會超過一天～
- G- `: p. G+ w6 M9 V6 J要期待更好的明天呀！