熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( V- O; ~. y' k- G* \5 _4 |0 R
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 @3 @  N* o1 T; `
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心. C- J0 |$ @& j  y+ i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! f* t' ~7 H' \, _
覺得好空虛5 N% t+ W& h  ]8 P
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 I* `7 m5 c, c* k卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! W2 ?5 s' y( k6 [6 [6 t' w
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# _; l$ t& V1 l, N  j% }, H, h
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
+ O- j8 A; N1 R2 S3 w  E但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
- A9 o5 t( H1 h) y熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 R0 q: G7 v( p% E9 a' V0 H$ P
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 d$ ^6 w& B5 S6 X4 ?5 a日日有車站,6 f( f. u! l( a' p! }% y& d' k
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙" G- d0 b2 Q9 _8 O& Y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" \8 v) y+ _" m5 a7 M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

- X. v2 Z4 P/ p* a5 _我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; N  ^1 B# k2 p感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
% k0 U0 B7 n6 b; [  Z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.% L& C1 A$ F* T- G' J: r3 D! o
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
- s; h1 p: Z* ~" i- p: Y6 H其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
. F3 {# H7 \, T1 ~: k% \. W所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 L+ g( A7 u1 _) |; ^" b
日日有車站,1 L# T! s. Q" ]' b  `, G, y& m  @6 ]
有目標!

+ f( |! K/ e5 fwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 P& W/ D* m2 z$ n& v! b' j如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 p8 ]$ `( `1 t( ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- t% D. x5 U( ?琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' R, u' N+ J- D, ]. X個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  ~3 X( |- y9 x; A覺得好空虛
6 u- a& i  [( j- i4 v% Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! o1 u. I, c3 Z+ |6 z0 k- F卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* W+ {( @+ }3 Z* @2 b
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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) k" _" g0 _1 [! r5 [: ^這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
# X- B1 r6 x6 ^1 P9 ?( ]唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.) C- ]; Y3 ?4 y, H. }5 z
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.1 g, S" m8 R7 Z$ H! `7 p5 v
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.$ I2 I$ Q3 G# n9 P9 y3 h+ B

' a! m: C; ^4 T( U3 nJust another thought on lonliness:) S2 C' d: I7 z# Y9 y' f' W
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....., H' R4 H# n  r9 [
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! {" \* O2 d, K7 j
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺) R5 F* M1 T6 i
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( Z; g, M/ F" D3 s3 l* C# \
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
8 m, H, B: v. s. a# v1 }空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
: A0 u+ I3 N  a4 Y& J' `7 p很少會超過一天～
4 H6 r& Q" a$ d6 @9 U2 m! ~& W( a要期待更好的明天呀！