熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 ]8 L' H& n2 m- G! h2 ^+ Z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ }) ?/ G9 P% r琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- U: d# H: i! @' O( ?# x個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: M# q7 b3 ~7 X2 p6 t5 H3 ]3 u0 k. v覺得好空虛
/ Z0 v' u, b+ N; i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 B. x: r1 Q! b# w- f: J7 M卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ b9 N7 S# U6 w  E, E用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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/ s1 n0 c! M; m$ e* w. z[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 l, z8 ^" V8 T/ u- K: n但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ X8 b  [0 q9 k+ {% c7 F" S熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" f9 u- m) _/ l3 q+ A. t; A, `2 V/ m' t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 q. m2 j4 Z; S+ z日日有車站,
* C2 a  G- G9 |% {( O9 v4 `4 e有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
# F$ U- }* m) J; }. W你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:1 e( n) f4 }2 m" L. h; q- C/ v
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 p4 A% s6 \( C- J4 q  _8 n我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.4 i; S8 h% Y4 Z. B+ X' c6 L
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..; Z. ^- [" W2 ?6 [7 Y
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 s; R: R) A' J6 g, @/ v
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
/ U/ ~2 ~) x' j$ P7 v' z0 r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 G; [) ~+ ^" R7 i; }; |5 ~  s所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
) }- Z: n( ]6 b5 m# w# g1 ?, T' \2 v日日有車站,
$ B! n- k2 B! @: J2 L% G$ E9 e9 ]有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 Y+ Y" \/ |1 l; [: o9 @& l" v7 o; h3 p如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 \+ G- y9 r8 w" t
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 Y: ^, y' Q* X) o+ q. W0 r+ F: }琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* }$ m  u/ a' k" Q9 w: }! D個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( Z" [2 w/ u4 V' B$ q
覺得好空虛6 `: k! c7 L2 y) P
其實早幾次都有試過係咁! _4 i, ^5 W2 a, [# O, p! j
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* v8 g8 J0 k+ ?# R3 x+ \; E; Q+ N
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 c4 \! c( T* @7 R5 D1 ?# I

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.- c3 @9 u4 o( k
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
5 ]2 Z7 E/ N1 j. c& ~, z) Z! T有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.7 H* ]# Q6 \8 S& S
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
+ p; n# Z# b! A& \5 x0 ta) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long6 {8 H, ~/ n* L( V
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  D- p( d% k3 i$ v2 a. ]c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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$ P) n4 U$ U& \! l6 W# WJust another thought on lonliness:
& t  q. L2 s; dLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
8 W* k& C! q: Y0 PBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～4 f/ |! q1 e0 J, \- H
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
' t. w. f0 M0 l) H+ g就好似睇完一套好睇的電影! L* h5 W& j3 J; x, |, Q
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
: T! s8 W. k5 q  I) O4 ?# m空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉8 @0 {& F8 M* n8 k
很少會超過一天～
5 V. B* |4 b; W  h0 U5 @% f  V2 N要期待更好的明天呀！