熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 g+ {+ ^% o' _* |5 e" d# v
好唔鍾意呢種感覺  c- s2 F& Y/ W% A
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 |  s  ]. \& a個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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% \7 }- a  ?# u; S0 C$ G# j其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 E* [9 b, x7 e7 B
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 G  C# T8 z/ m% \: H! L' R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
* f1 I7 j: w" y( s  W! i但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: A! X' v! |1 Z& |* @5 ^( J- R! f# g熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; S' b, [! ?, W* h& t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* X! _8 U' A/ G
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( [+ s# y; v" o6 {$ M1 B
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
# N* }" a# {- h6 m/ p$ c& z感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..9 [0 E  j& v: u, n4 ?: g6 [& E" L
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 s4 Q& Z. @) a3 A' B" |+ u
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:0 t' v; Z2 ~4 W; ~5 i
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( h4 ~9 _  z' C: u# M$ p3 g* O
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ r) t' F6 m' g, r+ B% Z
日日有車站,- u  h, _# J) M# [4 P. `
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
/ A9 b) p0 X  u' B3 E如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
, `+ k3 z$ h6 J8 c/ i: j: K% ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 z( }8 Z) }' G6 e8 O0 o
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, A: m* `& l! o# S( ], i個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 ?/ h4 [4 H! t8 N7 V& Y& U覺得好空虛3 g+ d- ?5 R5 l2 h
其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ v' M' Y5 ]1 H! A
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ x6 v. L+ s; x' h; F7 x
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 e# ~1 G9 y" x$ {* ~3 D唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.8 l" }) H9 ?$ F9 B' O6 r1 Y
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:6 d( R6 e; u9 o  m
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
6 S$ `8 H7 r3 {1 F% {b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
6 X! I3 R: K" z+ e: zc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.# Y( x" m7 a  A0 K
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Just another thought on lonliness:. P. B) n0 n) v8 b( |) d' v
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....) b: L- l6 c1 b" y6 d& O# n. ~: @
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～" t* b1 O* m& C  V
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺, I$ J- d; V- F; V6 N( m
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影" n3 H/ G- U6 ^& w- [! W
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
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很少會超過一天～
; e0 Z% u/ f7 |) l+ u+ Q要期待更好的明天呀！