熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
2 g$ O# p+ v! g/ y好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 T+ c$ W% a3 x/ Q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 w; v% f1 B0 q2 e% q) k
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  v  V  ]) k8 {5 b$ J- d: M
覺得好空虛
- P1 e5 T; |7 c6 o) q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 q8 u7 ]% g8 {6 D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% M$ i5 A: `( A  z% |" s- Z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,) N4 `0 b/ K; m/ L/ z6 m5 P, G( J
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺+ X4 ]: O. `( g' O
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 G  `2 {3 R" x' @" r所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' ~) T( H9 g( @2 A& l
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 p- e/ C5 Z# f$ }; D( Z9 x7 d* o
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" g- b( U4 e% s; {. }
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

) m" Z3 {6 v$ \/ E我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.1 F8 W$ x6 I, Y7 x+ ]
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
' Z0 H( H; s* I/ `玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
, W( S! f9 a- h  {3 G# a總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:  ^& @# F2 |" A, F1 p, f( w
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,5 f" K: p: f6 v0 A4 W
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 f4 Y1 S0 v8 P* r6 y! b日日有車站,
0 R6 ^& I* |# ~- Q6 D" n3 B有目標!

' J; W( H1 {) ~# I4 [0 Uwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 E9 `/ r2 N5 h9 `% Q4 r5 J/ F如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' t3 c8 Z' S5 e' P/ \
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. ?) n1 i1 a6 r5 A- ]( O0 }琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 Q8 p1 p3 B" }4 \& t5 J. q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* G8 h8 @+ A3 L$ w$ h% `覺得好空虛8 K0 V/ w! q, X: {8 @
其實早幾次都有試過係咁, X" K& s- X+ l$ u" J3 W" Y/ S& b# Z) }
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 s9 r* N" I; ~: l. D, ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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! f5 J! J7 f- P- E這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' B6 ^; F# V8 b) y% e唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* |  M) q2 B4 H) N
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own., d2 A$ X( F' R+ o) f; d

% z) S) w  i( h( _& yPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
3 K3 f- o  f  W- H7 ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
  }& q: c3 c& n7 A% O( Ib) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.+ N0 |6 Q1 q# b" k& b0 K) U" M6 ]
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.+ L+ ^/ ^$ V/ ?& L' O: }: E$ _

4 E$ i. C, m' J# }# D4 NJust another thought on lonliness:
4 s: u. h9 u1 B/ z1 Y! o7 xLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
- D# ]7 u4 i) |9 A1 [  oBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～! b1 b( S& C9 p2 W% Q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺# Z- f5 J7 i; J: P3 n& `' {0 U: R  q
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 Z" b2 r2 r  g或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
# {) }# @- J) A3 K空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
: q: }* J" q$ T/ H3 U# E很少會超過一天～% p. e  x, b4 }+ K% O
要期待更好的明天呀！