熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 I7 p) {/ S9 U7 a. b好唔鍾意呢種感覺; i# e$ v; A. J; a* i/ m9 g) u/ j
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 `6 ~1 V  Q5 J% r; t) B5 _  @
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ h; A  n. e5 [" D9 Z覺得好空虛: Y" Q$ ?4 b9 i+ Q( ^  n( L3 s
其實早幾次都有試過係咁& e# h# X$ R: [. a
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 L- Z+ I) g) \1 p: f用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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7 F3 S; n3 ]2 E6 \7 m[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
) G! |2 I1 G' q* Y5 H但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* s4 x0 G8 l2 s: i4 ~
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ }2 m+ R& Z4 E5 r
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 q+ ~" s" |: H0 H/ K0 h
日日有車站,/ b4 u0 q& z( @/ ]3 r9 ?
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
  m9 g, z, o7 W8 G你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 W" g% Q3 Q# K0 Z0 D; T8 u  {如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 j5 G; S3 B/ E6 p( G感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..) U' Y4 |2 {2 e- h' i
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
) y* f; M9 z' z' ]& {! E% t9 q; O總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
% D. X7 D2 d; Z2 o" n0 N8 Q其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 h3 l+ `+ F" N; j
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 J9 S: g( N0 W
日日有車站,
$ a. C0 O/ B. e! o, I有目標!

+ M  H$ P$ T, D3 x* f! Rwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 C& C2 c% S% j; s如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; k  F* @" `* F1 S好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 D% r6 c2 V+ k
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心& G' p$ B& Y/ a0 h6 s
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 b/ s! V! k* S% z) N' l# w8 F
覺得好空虛4 ]* c4 G% h6 q  e' }$ i
其實早幾次都有試過係咁) b2 r8 J' R) u% E% v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 p% n7 R% y! s* ?8 S用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& _! _7 B1 }2 O& s$ X

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.1 x2 ^' _& D6 B4 ]
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
5 T0 F$ H0 A- a/ `, D8 D  b有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.( F) Y$ l+ y- p
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:6 n( G7 b/ `% L) F  V) v
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long; [' M$ i9 ^% }% b7 R9 D$ ^
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
9 V, s0 g  H6 x, X9 S/ F! C% Rc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
6 v4 T0 }6 ~3 h, LLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....: G, [) n8 Y, C7 Z8 m, `9 B7 R" u
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～8 Q- w( G8 [9 I5 C: ?, i* D3 s
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
  S2 d- N9 h& s( s' f3 G$ z) k9 m就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 C; E. L; {  W( q7 b# b
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 P3 S4 z7 R/ D: K2 S  k空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉+ Y" L* E. L5 i, K
很少會超過一天～
8 {! Z0 g" m  H2 v4 p7 v1 h# x要期待更好的明天呀！