熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 H2 u) k6 l; e3 ~( ?好唔鍾意呢種感覺
; i* W0 W. o( d9 p* k" `5 b" L" o琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 }# A$ K. @; J& N! w; m! D+ e個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ r$ e$ H9 t9 ]* z
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* E! c% `3 P3 a; c/ P9 Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! x0 |2 b, C, V. X1 a
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,' H/ Z9 g4 ]9 k+ ^6 @1 L8 k8 W
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ T; O, T7 S* O! Z" j5 F熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: u" I% {0 G4 M
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' T4 f1 ?) ]6 k4 J日日有車站,3 C# i) z0 `  w5 T2 a5 n
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙  H  v" z9 N! b5 M2 ]2 Y
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ x( l% z. s' z3 b% J
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
* A6 c1 j0 \$ E7 ^! H# l1 W3 ^感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
& E6 D% n2 K0 O: {5 q: f玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 A7 H' f* {  v/ ]& \  O總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
/ {$ z) v' Z, {3 b6 E% u0 _* O其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 C3 }/ a# D$ h8 o7 T- J
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 Y- x' I* z6 c: q8 a; K
日日有車站,! C( Y/ f& l# j3 V
有目標!

. r' n! l) P/ S1 F$ O3 jwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ Z# P0 }; o/ B; x5 C' P" U如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
+ ?- q' _. C( V' r8 C* J好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ h& x/ y8 {# Y/ O0 K4 X6 B# q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 W" y; D, ]6 s4 \- Y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 P4 E0 f" N5 E
覺得好空虛; K  `4 Z1 X0 h+ A( x6 |
其實早幾次都有試過係咁* V  P; H' v# N( q' E8 i: ?
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 j5 ^( }1 S# N! f5 @! m用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 H* Q2 m8 p! C6 n, Z' x, v/ r2 y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ e) c8 P8 e6 }% g4 E
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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9 k+ k% q! J' H2 j6 IPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
5 z; R) S* E- Oa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long! Z1 f0 v5 x2 b- G+ U
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.2 D: ~4 J" Z9 k* k
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.2 {* P9 s' B1 {3 _" U/ d7 n
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Just another thought on lonliness:# u- N! q# Y8 y
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 Y  `% u$ P4 h7 N
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～8 L6 e/ [! ?: V8 |# J
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 V6 w2 t! [8 c2 ?; D! w
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
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空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！