熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, c, d! R* X8 |3 W9 q# Z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺, |' P6 [$ ]$ [/ A! O6 Z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* f0 L, |0 D$ ]+ j' R6 Z) i個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ X6 H/ z6 M& \0 n1 K% s覺得好空虛$ O& n7 J6 S" c( c! [
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, Z1 R- x2 I$ E% H% r8 \; A卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  O( T4 ]0 h# }& q  J& N3 f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 t$ D3 g( E1 w7 V6 |# Z

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,6 h$ Z% v1 o# U: U3 ^" \
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 @- L6 O6 F! ^. ~+ V! l熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  r* [/ k) X/ r: B+ p- z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," k3 N1 k4 n! B  k) O5 T8 e
日日有車站,# c! \9 ?' S8 M6 z2 ^! }; h
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙0 K5 T1 W) w( _! x
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  ^' i7 |" G/ Z5 j1 u5 o8 B: |! @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
1 W; g% C0 Q1 G. f感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
# d0 |0 y( x2 v; k, o) ?; u玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
$ l" p+ S3 P* H' B3 v7 x8 t2 L9 n' Y; h總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:, Z/ V' ]. x* e
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 d% A2 R" b- I- C- [- t9 M/ V  Z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; A2 X, Z9 B; V9 d1 I$ r6 z) C& S日日有車站,
7 j& B) h! }& [1 ^+ K1 |$ q) e有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# i: y8 i2 c4 \; c
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ }) @9 H( l8 I8 X4 {
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 J+ h1 m% {' D7 D0 O
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 J$ L7 S, I  F$ {. q* x+ Q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) }2 _- v# T8 T" T5 ]+ Z
覺得好空虛
5 |8 X/ _/ m6 {其實早幾次都有試過係咁: @# p7 a+ K# L; B  Z# P- e+ w
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# N' |  N# [4 F- M( V4 l, U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 ~8 ^7 o- q" r0 m# G2 a

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8 U' v& P' y0 Q) G) i5 {& \這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.) w/ E" r. V& `& Q: `
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.6 j: d0 |( ]* ]$ d! d
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:! K# \6 _' r6 F0 \
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( H, M- A! m7 r; D3 c$ Jb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. W8 ?3 Y+ [) T3 g5 I( d
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess., ~- n. \: }, a) @1 k, j
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Just another thought on lonliness:; o+ M5 e8 h! L9 b% u) H, r; h
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
  C, @' s9 s+ Q( x" j5 r5 bBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～' w' G3 k. D% e+ s! M+ R: N: ^
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺4 Q& a4 s1 ~- |6 ]
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
& R% d( Q4 E- @5 G; r0 Y  A9 F1 G或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 o! v7 u) D' d1 n4 b6 T空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
* R& V0 h  W+ F( c& k: P很少會超過一天～
/ S: a( _+ _' R5 v$ a, x, d0 i要期待更好的明天呀！