熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# T4 W  s& {4 L0 R9 f好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 k' C6 D5 }$ o: b8 E/ c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( k; `/ c& F- t& `" q: D! m
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 d# A# S! r* g$ E% m! q  l覺得好空虛! I% J  j. G* U$ ~( H
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  u$ s& K+ I6 B  i$ z/ v1 s- [! ]卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 g: ^1 V, F' P) k  c用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 O' D( s3 T9 B$ {" c3 X
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
+ A  G0 D. v2 @' a7 e但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
* K, t# x$ T# Y. f8 R2 P! `熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- u" V7 P  i: q8 {! S2 A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) G. X9 M8 k* `! K) ?
日日有車站,' j3 S  |) S1 ?0 l
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 m9 a" Q5 b7 @6 N! W" @9 k0 F你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: ?6 W8 H! {$ \7 |& F
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.' R( ], |6 C, ^. u% l& X9 J
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
, R% H% P9 \  m" f玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 Y. {* P2 M$ I1 J
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 d# H& ~, x' L其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 A  s% g/ J# K. j; y: v, A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 g# L. B2 }& b5 Q6 |! \
日日有車站,1 G6 k; m/ A0 x9 z; L  b
有目標!

5 _' g7 h# q/ q6 a0 {  p3 }what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 n& N4 x9 |; @, i/ u- P  T如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# N! F' K: U& T好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ Z3 S6 Q& R- B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 Y7 a( p0 \+ {: y$ F8 m個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
, f6 m1 z: y' X- m7 m$ ]) f覺得好空虛1 q( V- ]! A  S6 _7 p5 J
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# r1 F4 y: D0 F. T4 a
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- R3 S7 _; `- R4 L用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( ]! i2 O4 ^! N# J7 K' l8 g' b" F
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
) {( k2 W" {$ ?% |5 u0 x6 w$ ^有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:% X3 I2 g8 l. I3 i, L
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long. ^0 W% E2 X; O7 h+ R3 w
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
: E7 ]5 Q, i% G) q6 y; W1 @c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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! L$ C% G8 ^- P. }5 EJust another thought on lonliness:7 A! ]6 n: m' a( T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....  u# K& M, R# u) O
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
$ k$ v4 ~% ]2 r, w# L1 @/ d或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
: ~" b; T6 e# ?& f空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉( Q1 n2 @% d2 F
很少會超過一天～- C7 Y% K7 j5 e! x
要期待更好的明天呀！