熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 Y5 \+ F6 m0 h0 s% O
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
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個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: C1 y3 `" {" [- ~
覺得好空虛
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卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己9 g2 q; H. J( t: U. P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
2 _# F" U+ M& V但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 V: c; Q+ w# G# A2 T& I* c7 C熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 O$ m) [2 D/ u所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# i' K0 T0 u3 P, Q* C- J日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ D) `3 S+ F/ n; ^  N, e你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ I& J) t3 I, S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
3 C$ {! A* _. ]# h感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.." @3 l0 x1 c  `9 f8 m6 g
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:1 T# s) J; m( v
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
/ b* |& l/ U$ D0 K, N所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ a; i4 o9 t& x2 p' e. z+ }
日日有車站,, F8 \* }0 G1 }1 s7 D$ W' i4 Q9 O
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 O( q2 _' n7 a& P# ?
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# l7 B8 Y! V1 N0 z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, z/ {: W# p: e3 Z; {. B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 _  x& n) Y7 Y* u& x# F& z" A個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% l0 r7 H4 }" g6 j" V
覺得好空虛8 Q- E+ R2 W  |8 o1 m3 }) \$ ^
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 ?+ W# E8 N! t5 X! M- r* @卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 B! d; c' j9 S" k/ y! u1 D用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' F$ M) x( p, c# g

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! P' n" ^1 z. v( W: @唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.9 L$ ?9 E8 Y6 X. O" P. ?
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
9 W1 b$ j5 [) ua) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
2 M7 T" W( y, y; v* ob) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.6 w0 B) c5 r* |! d* `
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:$ c! U# x' @# H5 o" B2 L
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....6 `9 _7 P; i. l9 n1 R" _% ?& e
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～" m5 Q( s; j! T8 e
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
( U& @" d& Z) A& h% d空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉- E; C. }: }) s7 F* S/ H; g% _
很少會超過一天～
: p. @9 d( }1 h) j要期待更好的明天呀！