熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, \& J8 m* V5 F; u4 }, x
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% R6 Z+ G& U9 l6 q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 |2 ^- Q3 `! s0 x& |2 x
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 k; a, o- G  K- ^
覺得好空虛
, S) e( o2 v8 n# [其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! m6 z  Q" c$ Y1 v9 p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; Z& R% s3 L) n' V# t, |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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+ Z; ?/ z2 k0 g% ]; Q7 }* m, B3 }# F[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,) u$ k% D8 T8 M0 d) ~; q; _+ e( T
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
3 |8 S+ k- t! j  E( L# S熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% ?4 ?4 l2 m" R5 i) q' F( S7 A2 o
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  m: _2 }: Y6 b# m/ U日日有車站,' h  @: F& _, V
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; ^/ ]* C$ f6 e  e  l6 B
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

. D* x' g. P- ~* Q2 G. t6 ~! D我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
  c1 V& V! U' W. [" q" L; `" P感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 s. Y* _# E# [8 f( L
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 n6 e6 ]4 E7 e& V/ e! h& F: f
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ {6 i3 I( H" h* v
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
/ S2 E/ V$ Y- [# J7 I; ?0 T4 |2 q所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. ^9 C# U+ `; n6 ]0 R1 t日日有車站,
6 V8 X$ j5 ~( F& s有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  z( J! g8 s" {4 a6 r
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( X0 R: n, I* n) [* z3 V  @2 a好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 P) N2 a- ?  N/ I琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 V- p2 d# g) O) o個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- r+ L4 m& ~0 }+ d' ^2 S覺得好空虛
$ X  Z7 q5 {& }' {# D* P* Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& h% Z1 j) B  P( V: A5 m3 v+ t卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ u( ~- p  d( J  N1 B用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! F* F% j# V- [7 D6 J; `0 y0 R2 ?

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
9 m' R9 P8 c, w' U. [5 w) C唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ T0 c  L7 o  n( L
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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* k) ]8 o; y' f; \( pPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 x$ V- ~  W( ~, L8 |2 }8 U2 u
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 C9 `' y$ C' _$ H" X3 J
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
1 _! x8 M5 T7 J4 |: R# w! Ic) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 P) z5 t  U, r

) I1 |. R! R, T, Y: pJust another thought on lonliness:% d3 F3 C- l/ c) s; F3 ?  G
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 ^- D. _6 F- z/ U5 v: R7 t0 aBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～2 ^: Q! n1 s, f
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; C+ Q! z8 O1 E2 g/ z1 }& E! F
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
  j; I' S* F% D或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～7 w* {: K7 w5 M8 ]
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  O. r/ v% P+ f& y/ t
很少會超過一天～
  \- B) I) c, R; @. u要期待更好的明天呀！