熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% o$ }9 |, W3 g9 Y4 L( S3 A好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# N, I1 Y% U$ a3 W1 ~琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 Y# s% b) ?$ K( R- `3 c
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 y( @( a" q; a$ h% I& P. A覺得好空虛
6 c1 x& V9 ^% ]其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 q+ n8 R) E  g; h. D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" M* V5 S" B$ A- Q  {' w' e用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! @& l+ N6 N/ i/ M% q. Z6 Q% V
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既," ~7 k1 U! V% k0 W
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
% f/ X2 j1 Y8 C熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 C+ D( S. {& |* \$ }2 r' }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 V7 L: a4 }2 k5 X  w, H0 W
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 q% \+ o% `' v  z4 `" C
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

3 }7 @' m( y8 h; x: O- N4 _' u, i我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: _6 W4 |3 X/ {' [! l8 I! F0 A
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..! i- N1 r: t+ G$ W! V& l
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.% }* j& I- Y+ P' A9 u" U5 j
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. D2 H: ?# ]# O6 O! J2 v% P其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; J8 {" B/ q# }2 _6 Y' b/ p
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- k3 n" ]) m, N日日有車站,
# x, ]- V  x+ U/ ]有目標!

! ~. ]- O+ K4 J+ Lwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 P: G$ y5 ]- o如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 R/ g7 a) I# C, C
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  o( k1 ?5 k) w8 C1 s" {琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  G% K0 G2 [" ~! A. ]" U
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 J; t) ?# e1 I; Y2 Z覺得好空虛" \% b6 z( h$ y0 b0 Y) `; y0 ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' P% ?5 x5 o% W+ C: v卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 c* C- r$ V$ \5 S5 |用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! _$ I6 n7 L5 M' c4 B/ k# E

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ |% p) c$ r6 X- v$ o4 }/ o唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.* v+ w& k4 Y! v5 \  M* }
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.4 U, ^) Q6 |. p$ E5 p
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
6 K4 C/ Z, W( X6 T: Wc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:3 Z, \. m$ M( p
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....7 M. Z. s; ^( v+ d0 }  \" Y  ^
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
! U2 K9 w1 y* n2 D! A我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% w3 P2 P; p8 w6 w5 L6 {2 M
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影  _( k- q9 v0 O+ Y  k" O
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～9 @- y6 D6 n. U( w6 Z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉+ O; S0 g" i7 v1 T1 n4 O. d0 q6 @4 C
很少會超過一天～/ C, ?& e& _" \& _  U7 u
要期待更好的明天呀！