熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ ?$ R/ G0 J* J" R. J* G) b
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 f( x, Z7 `7 B( m6 f% x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  G- x4 E/ I) }: B0 p
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 p  i1 }5 q+ o, R% M* R7 ]覺得好空虛
$ N% f$ j& h' c6 S6 r! \其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ F4 `! Z% Z' h, ^卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' ~! u" a: Q& Y: ~$ ]! q# o
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
+ i( X2 l  V+ f9 f' T! L
1 _2 m: H7 D+ h2 s# c" f9 W9 f$ s( J[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
; ^3 S1 q; }6 a但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺' R8 h4 a# _9 @$ f, b: ~: d3 u7 A
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  F! T# _5 A5 b: T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, @( ?4 V# w$ m. T; a4 e
日日有車站,
6 U: c  J* ~* w# _' z1 V+ ]有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙/ P1 ]* v3 z' j/ l: \
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: Q  |% `( `% F6 f# c) W4 X如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 n' p4 r4 X$ b我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶." I2 ]( b) F' ?! o5 Q# J
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
+ E- N$ Q$ b8 W9 N$ g( `玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
; w8 W, x1 W9 Y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 q- V+ D4 C6 d" D
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& }* _6 v2 |7 z4 ^+ h
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, m6 y9 m' V/ I# I. k0 @+ R日日有車站,
6 b( u$ p& ?( O有目標!

; r7 r3 U' V: O3 v! g  \: S
what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, s5 n" N1 [" D, o: N3 @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?9 \" @" \2 s* r- v% S( o
好唔鍾意呢種感覺# T* J$ I' e* g% z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% ~9 b8 o) K( S4 Y0 }0 {# \個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ P* c( ]. I# ?8 B覺得好空虛
5 p; t" f( `$ z* j* R" W& Q* h其實早幾次都有試過係咁; V2 q* R4 i! t: r- _& ]
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  D3 L3 x3 T7 r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 p# V% B. n8 w& A/ u/ s

* y9 e  x, i5 t

- Q: z+ p3 @' x* `7 Z, q" `5 Y9 x這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' R; x* n& ~8 z% o$ H) A唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
) _! h$ {1 f: X有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own." O# f4 j! K& o& C; u& H5 [

3 _% f6 e5 w1 A6 [( J! V2 LPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 x* X4 v3 Z9 Q& G- c: v4 @
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long/ X7 f2 s4 V9 Z" ~) u" Y/ _* [2 [
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
+ `, R: z( `1 z' U+ hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.% S) a' n( l4 w! B/ h, Z
+ b! p  F4 Z7 P, o( `2 _; ~
Just another thought on lonliness:. N% E! h6 o/ ^3 [) R
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
% M' O7 }2 H& b3 g& {But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
! k+ W* A, ?" [我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
6 e( ?" ?3 g: r+ S' g4 Z就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 O0 j0 q8 o  P7 e或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 d$ C6 `: i" x% Y; b' h8 M
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
% i4 u: q: f! \: e& N9 h很少會超過一天～; v; F  C( l: o& ]- J) q; i, C3 a
要期待更好的明天呀！