熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 b  k1 D2 Y. Q0 M好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" \$ Q2 a% _$ `琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- [4 f, u7 x5 c# [
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' b% e% O; Z. c6 M" M1 S8 ]
覺得好空虛
3 X  D  J! Z, f其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 R: }8 [  v( j$ _' \# I0 {: R# d
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; q% ?- N/ Y9 i% E6 n4 e用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 ~+ l3 [4 y, T; V1 @8 X/ l" a
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺$ J1 s2 {; _7 a% W% x7 T3 e9 w
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 R" Z. t% f( D. W8 J6 l2 f; J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車," R+ _& a+ ~* f% t3 H' W$ Y0 H+ d
日日有車站,
7 g4 B4 }2 h* `: |/ X& Q有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙: ]% ^  n- L* ~
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# x# _# C" T( j4 B# s
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

  @3 q/ v0 x; B8 D! c4 v6 K我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
9 n5 K0 t% T0 A2 H/ t" G; b, \感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
$ k" I) g% r- n( ?/ `+ S玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
' \% t9 c3 t) Q7 r9 \! O* _總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* y/ k* f  Q! m' ~" H! D& L其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 s# ]/ n* S0 z( N6 i4 A+ h所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; t/ E$ f1 Q; {+ W% i4 K6 n& W日日有車站," S3 y! b' N8 d  b+ L
有目標!

# A* P! S6 {2 H  O, kwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  u( L, G  l3 a/ y/ z. s  `
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ Y, U3 d; c6 e3 v8 N- L
好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 }, N. [( t( g
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 U) l3 f8 {/ I
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% m# C* {0 n& V. Y7 r# z1 T
覺得好空虛
* a  `$ ^$ f- I- Z  u2 `其實早幾次都有試過係咁" F) {4 _2 k  ?8 m* `* p
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# O. Q* Y4 c7 Z! D# d% x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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3 m+ B8 t9 E/ d' s! |這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦." F; v( i( v# y5 N) b+ _$ o
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. C/ M9 `) `- M) t. ^7 j( \% c
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.7 ~8 v0 ]4 Y! C5 ~

' y+ `: S! J- U2 x& b# B9 |People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
) r+ A6 f  Z. Y/ @. }$ ka) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ w* p1 _# g0 e" J5 C. ]b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.& i7 N6 r2 \" ]( o
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.+ C3 M  B1 }5 f; i# m

6 |! k  }5 t- O$ M, k3 wJust another thought on lonliness:
, `9 |* C4 o) O, v; oLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....  A9 ^! O/ i  H7 I8 N7 L
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
% M. L  ]2 o4 l7 }我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
  z3 K; p7 y8 ]/ _就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% M. {# H' U3 v$ I" N或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～* W0 m+ N' q6 X; B
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
0 p' E6 R$ ^( @) ]- e很少會超過一天～
8 P. _8 G# z# v+ c要期待更好的明天呀！