熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# |+ W9 A: T* w$ T% R
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" X# o! O" k6 y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 p& d4 V+ U9 w% r3 V8 R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, U+ `) I# H1 [8 V- s& E2 b% Y
覺得好空虛$ N+ V4 {3 ?% R9 o$ Q% y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 j0 T6 j" {* n: m7 h/ m* J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 Z& Z; P6 R) R3 n7 q6 a用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 \% ~1 g, p% C" p. D

$ E2 j7 C  T6 L; ^0 W[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
, Z/ o! r/ f% z& _! }但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺7 \! g1 H; e/ b, ^
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 v0 P4 d5 X  _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( l  @, `, @; m1 n) B
日日有車站,3 _$ f: A: b3 _* M5 S$ _
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
8 F* z5 G4 [% D4 B. C- u你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 z6 n6 E) c- \" Z  h5 y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
# U: ~8 W; p# p4 ?  ~$ l& D  F6 v6 t0 F感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
+ G3 H$ Z, d' k' U7 ?( U& u% G: n6 n& z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( [8 M2 ~+ V: Z1 r( R" G" Z* G總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:) R; {' I" @2 L' R" H' n: [2 L+ A
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: s' s, X7 V7 R6 \1 r( S
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 @2 L. H6 |) \4 {* P3 i! E6 P3 j日日有車站,
- {' j6 M& J1 e有目標!

6 I2 [/ A7 l3 O9 Ywhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' ^9 `* g3 l/ W如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! `$ a3 L8 @; i, K2 M
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 b/ W' ~6 ^$ s$ P) Y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  O, J- g6 s0 ]個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. ^% _: c9 f2 V1 z覺得好空虛8 u! M% x( B+ k2 d$ U. f8 n  U
其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 Q2 I( U# |3 b! ~* l" x. i  o
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: j$ s3 g: X- [9 f* J% C" t2 y# w用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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9 D" x6 N/ ?0 l7 c8 }  @這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
& x6 o2 k! u* d唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
- f& G+ v+ N+ |* f! f有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: K5 N. P# K( ]' J$ e7 k

  S' f. U; R( S! F; E+ dPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:( g  J+ @2 X* h: i  Q* y1 d
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
# y2 {5 g# q. z# X2 ?b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.9 a8 A" P6 v2 v. x2 N" ^
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:$ W6 g! y/ t% V4 P: Q# C
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
" K: W2 i2 }6 j/ YBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～  x( s/ a9 @* O
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
) g: x1 l4 k$ _- ~: [就好似睇完一套好睇的電影4 H+ T/ I/ ^( D8 h* x: P# j, q
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～" t  u' \" J8 y) T  V0 Q
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
) W- A" }0 V1 f  H- \  w很少會超過一天～
3 b3 Z& J1 K: h$ C0 j要期待更好的明天呀！