熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' S2 G- x6 E; E. ?9 o" \3 w
好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 ~+ w6 `, c" c
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- j/ U0 {: d/ R7 k4 _個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣; n2 s# r% u! ?$ U  s+ D6 z3 g
覺得好空虛! u  X& @/ D6 w8 A) C
其實早幾次都有試過係咁( e  f" K9 X! @8 n! G
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
! W5 |+ n5 y2 l- t- a/ X& ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
, t5 y6 g; |9 b" M# C3 s但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
; Q2 D# K9 h7 y( o: C熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ Q7 }3 T* d- E% Y" \2 |% Y
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- L& b2 P) j/ z# s! d- q! ~日日有車站,
. H$ X! K: s# g$ x( G8 s) G8 h; K有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙: t7 E3 o. c. t: k; @; n
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 \% c8 |' V0 |* x3 j! e如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

) d. @9 N; \$ Y) b# o: h我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.( A( q% W0 N" A7 S
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 u; r; J- \- b5 H
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.2 k. ]/ G6 H. d  J- e; }8 y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:# I' {' n6 G# r
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 @* u) h5 g% q$ @5 q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 o, c# Z# \6 P2 m9 R! w
日日有車站,
! g: `* Z+ ^' H8 _* d% i有目標!

1 @# Q) l2 f* q. w& G; _what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' n4 f- O# X. ~2 G; W, Y如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! K) r  t$ b( P/ ^, S好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 L! x- r' q+ w. V9 e! x' s& ~) g
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* c  b: |; p, B( N* Y4 S, s( o- W& F個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 m; B: J4 E) T# Z* _( Q" u: o  C" }
覺得好空虛* m7 C3 N1 S4 G* W2 O
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- m# W+ {4 T' `' v- b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& R2 q5 p2 L: e3 z/ R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' G3 l5 h6 R! m" i. H# O' F

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5 ?# ]$ G7 s, F這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.0 ?& V. y$ |. Y% |! N' Y5 d! h
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
  Z- t1 g! H1 @( V6 C" @0 Z# o有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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" |0 ]* \. S4 B$ p6 w, z0 Z/ RPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:' v- ?7 I% d2 Q* v! d% m8 H9 x% M
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
, {7 }) l$ m* x+ q# S& q& bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.5 [  h0 u4 I, c$ C6 X1 u
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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; V6 @- U& |0 {2 H: z4 ~0 L3 aJust another thought on lonliness:
, j$ k$ t- N; c' [Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
* X. h: E& X9 B. k% }. oBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～* B, ]+ W  Y( k/ d7 Q2 l0 s8 g
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
; q8 L. W% U' I6 s2 T: \0 x: N就好似睇完一套好睇的電影; ?4 @# c: [4 a7 k/ d1 l# i
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
' c7 m6 P0 p& J" z8 r! L空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉' D2 m& C2 g) F' Y
很少會超過一天～
+ J! b/ `: h5 Q2 H3 d要期待更好的明天呀！