熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 s; I7 @1 \3 z4 b+ q& A
好唔鍾意呢種感覺, t* B; s9 o0 Y% V# ]" D9 T
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 N- i, X5 _6 V& x" k( q. r, L( s
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣. q4 S+ r% {  L: j! ?
覺得好空虛6 k4 _4 s  Q# ^8 P, V9 |
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 j# n3 j8 z7 M8 O卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ [4 v! v1 l! v6 M/ |" s, r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
: b# e& N! c9 N但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
! X7 L+ x% ?1 q! U  O熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ F: |# ]7 J& \4 ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% \, Q* R# C" d. l日日有車站,
& [' z: Y: m/ \6 o; Y0 h有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
2 Y) E7 H- P) ^7 R  z0 x3 F( ~你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( G+ k  E. D# ]' x$ C: ~& J4 b1 c
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
: J5 D( q5 O6 g6 ?6 P感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..) t" w  u- j( v& g" I& Q% E
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
' {/ T: q  O. {總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
/ T5 D' a8 {( N: _1 [其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ E6 T7 e  ~1 z1 X( R
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# U9 a' p8 N: F: i  {日日有車站,
2 I  Q+ O8 a# U% r8 }有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' l6 O+ M, F& W+ `, O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ m( s( o+ p/ W
好唔鍾意呢種感覺% _9 I+ H) N1 N1 b% W& C7 m
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ b9 z- X) k3 y2 Y5 c個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣. G9 v' ^7 N( {" n; U& L. F% U
覺得好空虛7 y. R2 Y) f  F' _  _* x7 ^  Q: R5 N% J
其實早幾次都有試過係咁" G- v2 x* x4 h" I; s) N
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 R; @" Z7 b, y/ t6 N
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; l) D  X$ w4 Z$ e+ G

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
9 f9 ]6 M9 n  A  D唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
& b4 m9 E6 |% x0 M1 Y有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
+ |# `9 S1 D, ]# wb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.' R% [7 x- H/ R2 {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- g, a! |1 R1 o& e. H! w# p
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Just another thought on lonliness:
( l  v0 o. J4 l5 O1 a; [0 VLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 y, E' K* }( I4 P3 |7 QBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
- }4 q) |$ b1 r我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
/ s& |3 T4 ]1 k4 v) r& X+ k. y就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# I+ _1 L! C) c& }
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  x! D. q5 ^- H8 v: B" Y5 R" B空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉' P! ~$ k" O0 d7 W6 e
很少會超過一天～& B9 d+ w! b5 j- m. i- @, ?, u1 P
要期待更好的明天呀！