熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 G+ \& }  S8 P; l3 ^( ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 {2 ~+ ]' S0 l. ~' f* X* f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ J  J, i5 H* U# B% \
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 g6 F1 C- ]$ v$ c5 h0 Y7 n
覺得好空虛
. ?3 K1 v! i$ Y* @" A# U其實早幾次都有試過係咁) `+ L. z. R; O. f: S6 f
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己0 f1 W$ r3 T, n
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,+ F. L5 W: F8 L+ ~7 k
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺$ B& H" \' P, I9 `. R  I, d+ R* s
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- W7 A* c) A" u9 D- q! }: O% _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 h: y8 v& l4 B. Y
日日有車站,2 a/ u/ [2 ?" X1 Y% ?: {) E/ k3 f2 J
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, Z& D: p9 K) d+ ^" i如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
! o* M! B* ?- N; B7 ?% q" z/ t感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..  Z) ~! L3 I2 v) `
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.. Z" M! j6 z1 d' P4 r8 X
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:. p/ R. x& R4 D  u" P9 s, V2 n! h
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: M9 V! \; ], s, d5 j所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ [7 k. F, m. q2 @5 [日日有車站,
6 B, o: p2 W& `- ?  H( U有目標!

3 P) c% H- t! w2 U9 zwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- V' ~. E2 ~. G
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- y* W9 ]% L1 W' v7 e: i3 C# e/ m好唔鍾意呢種感覺" _, {/ ?) I1 z9 c- z& T1 z$ ]
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) @- z5 V7 p0 ]* n: c# K
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 k5 ~/ y2 f" B1 C& W: i/ U+ x1 U; L
覺得好空虛
" R  i' x( A& P, L' b5 g其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 j6 r8 w* s- v9 T6 _. p* s2 e卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" y% `! Z/ J. ?6 w* _用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( j1 o; g+ E8 M# E- Z* S

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% _7 ^* m$ \( W9 i# r& Z這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
" X5 K. e7 K' t7 h$ Y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
2 g6 C! I$ e6 q" ~有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
! R  F$ p9 J, A) m$ w2 Ra) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
" l% @6 P+ o( W, Wb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- t; C# w+ v% w% p. K: s& r' Y0 E" Lc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.2 U; G0 q6 d: W1 w
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Just another thought on lonliness:
' }) f' s" r5 V7 Q% W  ?Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 c! H; h( n5 y+ m
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
& I% e* O$ {+ Y7 f! Z或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～1 c! ]" \* I  q  S. q3 z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！