熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: F  J* K' _4 i好唔鍾意呢種感覺( I6 j1 r' I" K4 D  a& [: O# d
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# B. ?; ?$ O; n/ r
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, b1 i! c+ C6 g& d2 k
覺得好空虛. P  M$ {" X8 S8 d& @
其實早幾次都有試過係咁' {- }) i  t1 _- h# X2 f# a) J+ v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: R' {0 k' f' ?# ?, }
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! x1 [/ V+ u, @$ D2 Y
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既," b" P9 c% R! M8 k* P# C% _! [( J' y
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺  G/ J4 `/ z+ U' ]+ `) h
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; l" x( Z/ v' \6 A7 ]- E$ O( f" L) b
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ |3 d+ `8 O1 ]; f6 |
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 m+ R1 O" F/ r$ [1 n5 P8 s
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- G; J3 ?! |" B9 X+ }+ V
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.) O$ L4 g2 t' m- Y! {" X& Q
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
3 T% P* m; h* s* C6 z& z) S% d玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 H/ A# s9 d8 Y) U6 x
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; H- E' m4 I$ h) a: l- C其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% Z- s/ _, f/ g+ o, T5 Y
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& E( z. I: w2 P
日日有車站,
' _/ }: d0 s& T有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- {: U- a* u( f
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 F$ R' j6 t( q" s( d" u好唔鍾意呢種感覺* S0 r& c. o5 V# E* e
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心9 s6 C0 s1 W& e1 }0 k4 o, U
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* @1 Z$ }8 s" q- [% T+ f" h/ A
覺得好空虛0 s; g+ ^! }6 e' Y7 ]/ }6 T
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! \& ]  m) Y3 o卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 n+ @8 g+ o7 t+ D* L$ X
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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9 w1 m& \" h/ P" G/ U4 A3 {  g這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.) V- O4 {# W; e/ U- n+ I6 k
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.9 w4 M9 K# {" }! Q
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.( U! J6 K" S& n% I. v0 l

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7 V+ J2 Y( }5 i; |a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long# J8 T- i9 u, b7 G1 l# [; {5 m
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
6 C4 }/ o5 s% C+ [+ E$ N: Mc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:  E! G/ f* D! u, w
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....: T8 T2 N- h1 Y! P% Z7 a
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～6 V1 e; G. B% ?! `% B( z3 [2 S$ `
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# M& b4 D6 n3 p) T: P就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
  y' W( H. B, ^' Y( F或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～" q1 ]1 x8 j) Y6 t' y
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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- H+ i: ^9 R! J  [7 _" ^' G9 t要期待更好的明天呀！