熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: T3 e! x6 p( A" o* m% Z好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 e8 p/ @+ Z! r! }7 V
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, G8 A, ?% o5 w9 A個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 X5 q( L( Q2 N4 _# X" Z
覺得好空虛
3 s* U2 Y0 g6 c: ?, u* Y其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ E6 k0 F5 O/ e! Y, E# L# G8 R
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* l4 e) ~- p8 \% F1 l0 |5 w0 a用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
7 I4 l, ~8 X$ r# l/ m' O# `但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺% \# \( C$ Z8 Z" S) B' }
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) R5 {5 _. n8 Y& ~  {所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# p* f( r$ ~! m) X  {" q  S% n* D8 S
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙8 K" S- \9 o' _( L( ^& F( W
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" z4 r2 ^  d( [% n如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

1 p9 \# U% ]& I! E) H: H我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.. R5 y8 l; u: a
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( S+ |9 q* G7 Q玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.- R8 C/ Y' E, N6 l- c. o
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. `6 D0 z: A' G' v$ X' A其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ {5 D7 f+ y) f, N所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,+ T) y" Y1 j3 a9 V& v* T
日日有車站,' F7 i$ }0 c8 m9 x7 ]! S# E+ X' Z, ?
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ \. ~. U* q2 |6 c# G
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# ?) C) w' d. M1 F& W$ e- v5 {+ S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ J7 S0 J' d- R0 F* h. h* f! b8 \琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 U6 R- O9 F3 C' k6 r0 `: T4 P* H% N個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ J. r: q3 x! V0 q
覺得好空虛
' i9 i0 \- O1 l+ _) G其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ U' Q% M- X2 `9 y- m
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' H* i& x! \: {+ N/ f4 [2 ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( G: I6 ~. u, D2 J& Z# G

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% P( C9 U# e0 Y# ?8 |7 V這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.7 V5 _( F( c; X& h% ~+ f
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.2 d& n* ]: a$ C& ~$ |$ N/ M: h, e
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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; v8 j% i& U0 @8 LPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) F- a) E" |% A5 `$ u& j
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 C0 p7 A& z1 W( e( O
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.1 R* q( c+ w' h. A1 _8 t* A
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:" A& a9 Q4 [! F8 J
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 D6 j. h. D3 i, G
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～9 w: d& Q2 c  X' f  c5 o$ K
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺% v) v( }; z! a  _
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 W8 `! i7 \2 `1 Y" V5 B. i
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  C& z/ g! z* P1 m& A空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
. E6 K6 O6 d5 I8 F很少會超過一天～* I6 x( C0 v2 q- _
要期待更好的明天呀！