熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& o# U7 I. k2 X  `1 N8 J, [1 z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# q0 F' Y' d0 |0 d, H7 `琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 I; U# J- l! m: X0 ~
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 D- M2 w6 e$ S! B& z覺得好空虛
* C" p0 ^3 I6 @0 `3 \/ v  {% w: _2 F其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 X# i1 n; x% T- m/ ]0 o
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. o* P( e, Z- B/ A4 k( g; b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% k0 J& A2 L' K. Q5 P% C) W
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
* Z9 a* y( {) R& \2 }但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺) z' W* J4 ?* {( W6 g* q7 b
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( h1 p" _/ y5 ^9 c6 m
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 ]) O! Q7 _4 ^8 C0 u' u日日有車站,
" h$ J) C+ T# q( D& ?; H# Y! G有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
: b4 ~. D. p* f你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' s- O; ?* V! R% K# ^5 |; ?: T如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 N% l" k6 ~% ]1 b; R& M+ O
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 u+ F5 I  v, c6 q4 V) k! {玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 `8 }( W6 a- |7 _5 ]2 L
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
+ ?5 F8 ~" a' u* {. Q+ x+ C# Y其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,3 Y- g3 }6 U7 T" \2 i% f# l5 A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
4 ~- b7 ~  u2 J2 T% R6 w' i4 F日日有車站,
8 y/ t) A6 m6 O4 R: C' m有目標!

% @% M' ~: F3 A! ~- R1 K& G% P: ]what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% p7 W5 q! ]: h! k3 u如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; k; K8 F2 c/ g# ^
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, h8 f7 s' ?$ I: P( O' C: L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ Q! M; @/ [2 ?. a' p( j
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 u" K6 o0 G8 }. u覺得好空虛
# C4 @/ O+ k* P8 \' M" ~) I5 {. z其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 s, {, ]7 @& J  T& e5 J4 b
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  \: i# `4 M# F& m  T8 ]用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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1 L) V" k' i3 m6 |1 A0 ?( w這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
+ q! m. Q& c' Y( C: `7 p& b( e) ~唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.3 a4 y# M8 v, L8 ~
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.. O" f0 C. a9 ]

9 V5 |7 o, U3 ^4 [8 C# h7 G4 JPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ c! q- ^/ A  {2 v3 x
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
: s$ {% Z2 \. U! I8 ?& P' X4 n$ y9 Eb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
' z$ Y! R/ S/ t0 i9 u5 cc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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# j! J" W( n$ V8 t+ BJust another thought on lonliness:
9 \. |5 S  M! ?: P, ~% V  W1 V1 DLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- L6 p0 p( T2 a5 j' B
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
/ }8 m8 L+ g, N& K7 y我會有一種十分空虛的感覺' T4 M3 L- k- l: N" m
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
0 e: o6 x9 P9 S" k; K或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～. `  Y% v# d- E! g0 _1 Z8 }" O
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
* @5 f) Q) O; r' E/ ?很少會超過一天～1 I8 [+ X9 J& {; K8 G5 d0 f8 c. y4 U
要期待更好的明天呀！