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9 {! P9 Y- p  U% L* i假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任) ]2 R( e, ~. d) [( r) G) v: N
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
' U& p" i/ k8 s  v/ Econsider in the following (not in order):- G* A( Q' }, A

* f% |" U3 w+ @% J" {* C8 R1st, how close the relationship we are?8 J9 e2 E6 w6 ?; ~# e4 n
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
$ w' K- N# u  F6 \! L  s8 m3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?- N4 t$ \# w$ H* i6 O# ]  v
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?2 l0 k0 @. N; h5 l

- |, r3 F! ]) T0 pfor me:* P' j; X7 v7 s# Y/ g% z- j' ^
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.+ h+ [  w2 C% C9 W* k2 I' p4 q
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
7 m7 C0 w% D: X; Jbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!- a- j* g$ Y- j+ {
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
; s. ]- K* r" K1 z第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
; U5 o1 f# J' K$ }人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個0 S- @; u) ^& k4 D$ z6 a
只要有數我都會滅