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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way+ y h- @- Z- |0 V# C
consider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?. V; ]: D& B# w! [
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
6 e7 I. N8 u# r3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?; @7 a# I2 s0 G" m0 ~
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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for me:5 a, ^' z6 t7 u7 Q8 |7 T$ z) j
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
3 M. n$ `. ?7 V( H, I0 R. t3 Dbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
% S. Y" l7 D$ z. S1 k* J. J- ?, Obut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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