熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, f. r0 k: T* K8 J2 l7 e
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- Q  J0 Z  p# X4 F: Z. c' f0 e琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" ?" f; m! n' J/ S& i, d: m個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 E& v5 Q% D0 e! E, ?9 p2 p
覺得好空虛4 K) M& g: r1 Q# O/ q6 w! \6 ?
其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 d) N, |% v* W' D2 Q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 q3 v/ I, E! B# ]0 E用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
2 I7 W, J% N. p) e. @9 O/ Q但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ u& P# ?8 v# ^& n$ M熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: R, J& H/ ]; `) Z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: H% s( N4 H' V6 [
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

: v9 U4 ?) }& O' M2 J& \3 D我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
1 L, w8 V  C; y0 \) T/ Y* U感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 P6 P) g6 |* O- S) X
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.% s, ?9 M, A% r! l
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
6 c2 J/ F& t8 b; K" @其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 o, A8 b4 Z/ y! R( b/ d! s& f" J3 n) R, d
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) A4 a. s$ A& E% ~$ Y; w  o6 c
日日有車站,
7 [! Y' E" U' m& {/ V" i1 u有目標!

6 R- |" s5 Z; n/ I/ F" zwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:! d5 r# t' d& A4 c9 v
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# I" l" A' [, E/ x% f好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 v4 t- w, l% ?& I$ Z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) @; j7 u! ?! u! l  O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
" `+ I" e! G4 p6 Q覺得好空虛* L5 M, w; O, T/ U' y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁. p8 z" W3 P. s! ?" }
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' M, U. {0 s4 L$ L- @" k' G1 j6 f
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, x: K1 g" U/ V- @

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
# c1 r8 i7 g* ?3 d1 Y/ S0 ~唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
( H6 k8 Q; z& }/ f/ o0 y' |有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
% g/ j1 L! Q/ ]+ p: |$ qa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
3 @5 m" m0 z0 f$ o+ fb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( B7 ^: p5 J, X+ b( D
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
. f" L( m$ m0 \: n) |Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....; Y* [2 Y' {' {2 ?2 w0 j6 m2 a, `
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
3 e' Y4 H3 W4 B1 E1 [0 t# o我會有一種十分空虛的感覺- O7 }1 R' m+ _4 p- e! j% W! u
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影/ j5 u  _$ j0 h
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% x* a( G/ {; |空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 v# H1 x: `$ D- v7 q. L很少會超過一天～. y) o) J: i6 g2 \
要期待更好的明天呀！