熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: Q: {; }  J4 f% u8 ~( w$ Q" E
好唔鍾意呢種感覺* L# ?" F2 b% z; z4 ~; P
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 K  ]0 O1 I( X個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 J, [& _- X! v+ o4 |2 Q& B
覺得好空虛; ~9 F7 \7 b/ V/ h: r( I2 \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 @! t7 P( V* Y6 A卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ _8 J1 o: S2 x2 x. M
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 Y0 \" t* k6 ]' n( w$ c- e+ Z
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 E3 I9 O. A8 e; }" _: c/ ]
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺; A* n: t. l$ u7 ~, ^# f8 V
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 A; ^0 F3 U' t4 x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: k+ \9 y' A$ h
日日有車站,. a4 h& {9 h) t8 Q! t; _3 c
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
' ?9 Z+ n  ]) T# x- A  U你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
$ R. e  i: X$ A如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

0 N: f. s! Q5 H+ W, |$ }" @5 w我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 W7 T/ B0 q' I% Q! K: W
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞... L% A& U8 c' n
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.( g3 _, A; P8 d5 k# n3 h
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
; Q( Y; k0 U/ p2 c3 j其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,  ^, n- K4 ^) m4 C% k; G# B8 F
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& h1 t. Z7 _( q! \9 S% a日日有車站,
1 g0 k  \6 m/ {; a7 V& {: J# n) R% l有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" v4 o& ]& W; b8 Q) @3 g3 t6 a
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 a2 ]/ E( ^1 H3 ~+ A' J好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 w  v3 a0 Z5 u. V5 q) Y0 O
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% K4 f7 \; @9 P* ~7 H個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ \+ c4 @8 Y- E# h; u覺得好空虛
" M4 E$ G" \6 e- P8 M. v& k其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 s' s/ F& X; F5 B; z! R
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& |& Q8 c9 }' c  x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' u1 d) j4 h4 H7 k

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6 Z1 m$ M6 P2 S! n' C這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
5 @: m" m' l4 y/ N  N% c0 V唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ L0 q/ b6 L) [: e! B% d7 O有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:  [, c" y! [. d% A; ~
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long  Y4 e% N, J5 H2 s: {! z+ C
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
0 H0 o; S0 ^* lc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- ]; I+ _% n4 e  v- R( [
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Just another thought on lonliness:
5 H% d* r8 h6 {/ U  V5 R5 MLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...../ z) L3 m6 Q" {
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
/ u9 Q1 S0 ~. L( Q% x我會有一種十分空虛的感覺( J; T) L' T( @/ ?0 `
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
; O* ?/ x. v: M5 B) r或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～+ z& R: @9 ~8 I0 s
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉* L3 [, M- r  L
很少會超過一天～
  T& u4 ^: C" D1 {要期待更好的明天呀！