熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 s4 m+ E* S" o( J好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 T$ g$ W' i) U, y! ?* m# ]/ n
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
7 m7 ~% L% ^, c8 J$ H個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 X3 r  P( U/ D9 C8 k! L
覺得好空虛! p) S: @( Q! q6 F0 R! {
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ h+ w+ V9 j: M3 `5 f3 y卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- V; e$ v) I/ X$ }用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
6 S9 ]3 g9 J$ x, V6 E% }  |但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺% r) G' F0 e  ^  M
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- J3 M& s/ P2 E8 F9 c) I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) ^% V# I6 W# P
日日有車站,
( H' l% E- N" |有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
* ]8 o7 |! e3 L7 D2 e你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. X# K+ c3 J7 V: H4 Y4 Y如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

$ n$ N+ W; F6 w6 P7 Z4 g我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) l3 q* n" j' w感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
. m" }9 K3 \7 N玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
  e8 g/ u4 d$ p3 P0 W8 P總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
+ }! e& ?" F, {) S4 }其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, N8 u( _! ^2 |( w& k
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,$ t# U' X# [4 l, B6 C
日日有車站," o' }8 ]1 p- ^+ _
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 y  t; y9 J. d! `! \9 r/ d. U/ d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! r+ F, d, x/ {* {7 c8 l
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" A: u4 b' [4 X  F9 v
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) U8 W9 z$ v% N+ X+ Y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" {$ s  N9 v  J2 c' P5 Z! y" k
覺得好空虛! S5 M1 ]8 J  }5 Z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁- r- I$ V! R7 N7 `0 \
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% L' u1 ?# N: n  e9 l3 I* _  P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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- A( {& G9 Y" B! Q5 ?( b這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
- b) L# }# ^4 o0 w% p唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.+ d7 l& d" e' L: p4 D
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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+ _9 V1 |3 ?) `People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:0 F  V/ N! x6 W) C0 w5 x/ A1 @
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 z* q! a. M3 B  W' e
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( k7 v0 \- I/ A8 g  A1 f  F
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:5 Z; ~4 f! i4 ~# T  X
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....# [$ l2 P1 D+ @5 O/ r+ P( Q
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～# [# Q7 u3 W& e. p* V
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
% R1 C  K# j( i3 P1 p! Q$ c9 R* m就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
2 |" D1 ]$ @. y) r) o6 e5 Q4 N) C$ y) t或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～0 ]' b. a5 ^; \) O7 E: J
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 \7 U* ^' ]( _4 b
很少會超過一天～
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