熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" @7 L; d0 }; ?5 p0 h# ?- S# |" u* f
好唔鍾意呢種感覺! p: C' c1 u; U- P
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# j4 J, q7 V: _- R( S4 U
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣; e' u3 m1 x4 Q
覺得好空虛* k0 G' m; _6 G# Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# a# g2 }6 Y' ]
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ ^9 d# c( l: ]* J1 `
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, y: |7 g& d3 S+ j3 |( h
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
$ B, ~' q, O& @" M- K: h但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
0 p' R1 B, ?5 I$ a1 I0 l. ~熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 |, S  ^! R" y4 z4 v" p4 y6 R9 l, V& ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
) @9 v+ @/ M3 f' |$ j! F你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; Z( f6 n/ ?) [* I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

% n+ l( k6 G( k( m+ @( h6 c3 Q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
: U: C5 T: x% F. O感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
  z! s( U. Y# e! G' Z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
+ P( ]5 U+ a5 D8 D$ \7 B6 O總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:. A$ d% D. @  B, x
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# Z1 M1 K! s' x6 _" `% u7 w
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. z8 z2 L. e! M) q9 i日日有車站,
/ t; R! Z; e; ?8 k, ~3 d2 U* D有目標!

8 o1 e" n! ^* I" q& Rwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; Y$ {. y1 ]6 z$ M; o' @! ?如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( j0 B  I+ Q3 A( [
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& I: ?% d8 R0 p# k- ~) Q) e9 _8 |琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ E2 T7 s, S+ Z2 s& M
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: ?% [' B/ V4 y4 ~, r2 z" c
覺得好空虛0 |6 i, f1 _. `+ g
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) t* H- M( W7 Z8 s& S# }  w5 k卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* x2 H7 L$ h8 n0 A! g
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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; M7 _0 C5 i6 v1 ], r5 u2 o這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
9 g7 f9 }% K. P唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.- T8 a. a" g" L0 M5 b
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.9 ^, B* ]& B) ~' q& G

5 ]. t7 p  ~6 NPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
0 Z4 h! i$ ?. ?1 i6 Ya) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long8 B' ^, R: A& \" a( w. ~
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
# j8 B4 b* {4 M; i# P$ u: xc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.+ L8 L& |" r1 ]" h
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Just another thought on lonliness:
& p$ `0 x- d+ _; H5 xLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
( V: Z1 W2 O6 {9 l4 b( Z! y1 w8 Z0 d1 XBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
7 c& t. \# v1 V2 \6 x我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
. X, \9 r" ]0 y* s就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% {2 d: {, W4 M2 t; Z或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
6 x5 y- \% R& t* L- c' i空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉" h! j: ?" I* H! a3 i% M2 Y7 P
很少會超過一天～* U1 o6 @1 U! `1 _& [1 V
要期待更好的明天呀！