熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; y$ @( y4 e# ]5 \% ]0 O好唔鍾意呢種感覺& P+ v1 ~* B% M8 S& x7 o
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 u( Y: V$ z9 U! Y6 E+ i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' e1 m, |! A6 R
覺得好空虛
8 o/ N  p( l$ x# m$ H3 i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 z6 V9 U4 N0 {+ j& i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" y8 l: K" q4 o2 ]6 E! z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
- V% t& O# I' p- a但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
" Y. c  h, s9 h. v熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 P# _1 K& \- ]8 Y3 ]6 P/ G- i0 E
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' p8 g% V) x- {; q& P; |日日有車站,
: N" H" M" ~# J1 E有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙' z. X! I! G$ t' A# ~6 J. ^, R
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 ]7 B9 ]5 I" _3 L
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

9 q( k: Y% x& C5 C$ c9 j我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) d: u; ?5 Z/ W4 w" ?* d感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) @  Q. q3 T8 t. H6 G7 i玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
, W" O( y. y1 M7 i' U: v總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:; S5 E: y  e3 z& {9 ]. {
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! d; n1 p  ?* z" l. _所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' r+ C, O1 m* T0 u. Y
日日有車站,
+ y& j4 D3 K" T$ h有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ o" c7 y2 X# b6 f8 S, m
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& k; q/ L8 D7 T( w+ l好唔鍾意呢種感覺# W# e! @+ o0 O- h
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- [8 v& l' N9 N0 X
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, c$ ]' \: r; F- T6 I, e
覺得好空虛4 N6 P4 Z7 g3 b" ~- \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 ?# ?2 N* @) \4 l) t! l4 s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  b; L6 s% h/ H+ [) B用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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* H% P4 c5 H9 r4 u0 y$ K- Y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.& h0 G2 ?: Z' c0 C9 {3 i
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.8 d4 j% t! d6 K9 p/ N! _
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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5 U: R2 h. U8 C+ W4 j  A" N0 }People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
" ^( ?7 }4 b4 z) p; qa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long2 ~1 F) t+ S0 N$ x
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.8 c# y% ?7 h% e5 d1 i
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.  `5 X+ V  f9 \7 t" a. H: b" W

  b3 H' G! J) K, a4 I( y( ?Just another thought on lonliness:) S' N6 n3 S! k. i# v; o
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ V+ a$ g. [& W9 m6 MBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ d0 d# J6 C$ ?& V/ a$ b$ {
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
" m; }5 a* c4 K& c- Y9 a+ ^就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
* Z$ `  _/ E! t. _% b% j2 e8 E或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～$ G: o* W7 l6 |, ?# b3 ~# E+ Y6 Q
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉4 E( w+ f  ^' \7 L" k+ v
很少會超過一天～( z1 O# {0 i. p* v% ]0 u& Y* u' {
要期待更好的明天呀！