熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: i# v  G( L. P9 Y3 ^4 |( o
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. B2 a' |0 M# H/ o6 @琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 B. [( |/ J( {8 b. Q個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! ]( d, h- j* h* m, ~; G' X# F+ W
覺得好空虛0 |4 x5 |) }% t1 W6 C2 t( ]
其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ F( u- |) F1 g7 C
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 C% ?1 [. ~* p$ k
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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$ m3 j& ]! }1 [/ J7 g/ W: w[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,9 D- u/ |) U( `) N1 t
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
5 g- B1 |# P) Y' ]熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; O/ g& }, |: b1 U+ w' v所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  \; s0 d3 `/ ~5 U8 G日日有車站," O) Y4 k' b1 e; _$ m, S
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
9 }/ g6 s/ I* x6 a你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- L% k, e" S3 X
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
2 x7 B4 o! l5 Y5 B  `感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( m& X  o0 O& u, f. }- l' L+ t玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
: d3 N. |& e# V  @! G總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:; P6 y2 l! I4 o! {
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, _, z# I# M2 W
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ t' r! B" _; v6 A/ C日日有車站,
: N$ l9 J; @$ w$ J$ s; I  E有目標!

2 F4 u" H# v1 B' G. awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 \8 [8 n2 z2 `6 ^; u4 G
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
+ A( \6 Z6 G5 _& U" [! C" _好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! d* x6 {" x% B- z7 o8 V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 ?: R: f  z# {0 ^# m& Z* P個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; Y4 e& C% t# z/ p' G覺得好空虛! b2 O4 k6 Z2 \3 T: n! n
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ b  P: s9 B% P( a6 b, E3 z. u" X卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# [; o2 x4 k! M% D
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 D/ z/ Z7 s( f7 _# s0 A: p唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
% V$ B" m1 L. r  j/ z& U有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.& ?8 y: p& H" j2 x% Y

7 R9 N9 |5 i" L$ V# p' f9 }  s$ r( vPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:+ {  O3 [4 @: l
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 P4 x8 L* Z9 k
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ q& E) B" b: ]c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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! C4 g) D5 w" iJust another thought on lonliness:+ h. ~' ^6 o- V7 R9 h1 K
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
) a& z" `2 _/ e! xBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
  z+ S: @$ Q; a6 m我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
- B6 e6 Z+ _9 m2 j2 |5 {就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 J5 z7 T0 \' A- ?
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
/ ^5 m! r/ v8 r0 T1 S8 Y$ B5 e$ {/ I空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
3 N7 v; R2 a. l9 V4 g  k$ q$ Q/ `很少會超過一天～
7 W( ^, v) u) t5 ~要期待更好的明天呀！