熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& y) L9 j- u; s0 J好唔鍾意呢種感覺; Q* a! H" E; i& }
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) g4 _- u& o# H個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 \3 p  J7 Z0 P7 O1 n
覺得好空虛
# y( i/ a+ ?0 s! r' u/ S3 q3 y其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 |$ f( }  z- B9 o
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  q# C. N' Z# T: Q; p3 B2 ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
! X# e7 `6 ]( C9 h2 ^0 n4 b但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ Q: @+ M6 Z0 H/ G熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ J5 U' l& {2 ^( ~
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 N' q; x# F2 `, V+ |8 n$ n6 H
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
' [& {# n8 e; ]1 E; m# F你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 j4 _! f" a8 X( o: h0 I" |9 b
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

' b' R( Y" d8 `% v& r/ N我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
# R5 G" S& B: S& D# D& @感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
; U( P% {0 O8 G- m2 Y1 Q玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:: X% Q  j  f: P; `1 m
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# j, ~- d6 y+ W" u; {所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& X% T# `( d  i7 \( X
日日有車站,: S4 e& N+ ~: M, |& q6 ?9 K
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 J- [3 K6 ]$ Q, }: N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' Y' h  u$ O, Z: D9 l$ f  `7 r. {
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
) J+ Q, F7 L' k, B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: s" @9 u) `# e3 I6 a5 G! b4 A
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 l+ F( v& L. @6 l( n* X
覺得好空虛
" |; j1 H* W8 [$ ]0 k" E其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 J: S0 ?2 Y+ j& x4 L6 M
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& @+ I2 w5 K3 @7 i9 u
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 F  Q- V+ w6 W0 @( C  ~6 C

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
% [$ u& m" {% T4 @' d/ p唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.& P9 H: |" [* q
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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7 `% _8 K0 n8 [4 ~0 A- t9 n; [3 r( GPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
) V  h0 j4 c  w. a* X0 Q  _a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
% M) Q& {% Y+ g# |; V; O5 {1 tb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
6 U% o2 M. G, m9 c: S" ^c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
# }  |# R) Q$ O0 ELonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ t) d3 y; K4 h) x5 sBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
0 h; Z! S6 @. P- p5 V/ D) [我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
- N, k/ q6 j3 d* n% L1 ]就好似睇完一套好睇的電影) X* E/ u  B" V. C) i* @1 @
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
$ G# O/ g2 z# L" h% v9 Z3 j2 }) M6 e空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 p; d) h) C2 v7 x3 f$ o; Z$ ~
很少會超過一天～
$ Q% b1 i* R3 Z5 e4 Y: R要期待更好的明天呀！