熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?5 K4 w. H* l( p5 g! G
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ S1 e3 x# X3 }琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; l1 z4 G6 _6 V6 D個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' f, g/ v% i" O$ ?1 p2 u
覺得好空虛
/ I9 h+ v# V  x. r' @' |其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 N8 v) j0 m, e& I: j
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( m/ H4 G7 h- i( `用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 [0 l1 }5 u' p  |

9 ~9 {' b9 y" E- a/ @+ \- e[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,. l8 ^& c& y+ K( N! X  g
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
1 ~  k7 I3 W$ u* K$ `5 p- c* B1 [! \熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) L3 i3 `+ H) E  m2 j所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,/ J2 ]2 b' X3 F" T% z! E6 e/ ~9 E
日日有車站,
5 z3 {" A  `$ P9 C8 U有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙9 t& f0 p$ g) U$ I/ m
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- r  Y: j5 z4 X0 y( {- o# y: s如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

/ A- a* z& A6 \! Q6 o* ?我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.; {6 x2 {0 c) W2 s3 r9 ~
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..& n! k& s4 {& @* d' C3 [
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.- Y, ^# v* ]8 R4 ~
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:- {! x  y2 V9 v  p1 r
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 u3 Y0 n+ x7 s1 Z5 m所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 e% Y8 i2 h! D6 ^% T日日有車站,) }  e0 ?9 ?- \- e# D9 ]' h) `  D
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 m) |7 I! w: ]5 v9 T2 d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
4 `- Y- |$ T+ l0 w. I4 n好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 A7 C, B, s; v# Q; ~9 j$ L+ r
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 G6 d/ v' D( n/ [5 ]個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 G1 c$ l  x- ?* r" ^
覺得好空虛
, M, @- \0 o% w其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ h0 O) e, ]( P7 q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 T& H6 g) O) ~8 W2 }# x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# }1 A( a* B- i

9 Q8 Q- ~5 O8 o  w& x3 c$ S$ s( m; C' E3 x# w; `9 W  g; i
這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
1 I( i* m. b& i5 w0 k  U唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
) T, X* J, O$ M6 _$ K. U有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: R0 Q0 k& f& L3 O6 X; U
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long7 p0 x) R7 {6 c* k. Q/ ^/ L1 n
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
" _/ X; E2 T( E& b4 ]c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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5 \& z: }& L# U- I; I9 i& ?Just another thought on lonliness:5 ]9 q5 U- o' Y, V: W' T. K9 [
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....5 U1 B0 ^$ i! v4 c( l+ u) ?/ ?
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～  |4 d# A! I& |' d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
: `, T) p% q7 B- Q就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& e' I, o, W1 J3 }7 O) o
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～  K  k4 h" |( ~$ P2 |- G  F1 w
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
/ O' \  w/ [" W, d0 L. K- b很少會超過一天～
% g( p- B. e5 E# K; b要期待更好的明天呀！