熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 C$ t" Z& L' t" m' f好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( T5 W& a, N2 `& |' z* x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  p/ v& x1 L, T9 A  y
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% x, T4 D( u# {' P
覺得好空虛
# N/ |+ i, k# H/ a其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ D& K, p  Y$ I" o卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 O8 @: d+ M1 O1 n( k
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
6 B7 a" x$ U7 B但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ G" Z) S" K( C* K7 V  ~& S- x熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 n/ y  W8 v, q3 f: y3 u7 v所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ ~8 [  ?5 ^! l日日有車站,( t# G# B' g: E# n6 b1 N6 S
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
; m, x; G: T% X7 H* V; {你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:, o$ ^# B6 R. T2 k; v. ^
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) w7 t/ {2 o9 p- F7 W& N2 b5 T感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..- o/ M2 k' o, i' m
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.0 P( [' H9 ~# J  ^$ F0 `/ `# W
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
- U; B' R, ?* o2 k) D1 }5 e, E其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 d5 ^( R: C  s" _" j) n9 ?
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
4 l. ~8 I. Y5 a6 f* i日日有車站,
8 S. j) a& r) v. n- {有目標!

: c) b  Y4 ]; q8 s  D) _3 S# o+ twhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! g' }& i1 z, D, k, B% E如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
1 n1 G& c9 l" e6 n8 F% i3 \4 J/ e$ I好唔鍾意呢種感覺) M) \% u' A9 ~& q/ n! z# f9 ~
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 ~' V+ u8 b3 J4 {0 Y1 i6 Q* A' l0 I
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ y) p7 {: z% H6 P" w
覺得好空虛, I  }8 r; T3 K, {$ Z7 V5 h
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 F+ j1 h0 {! p0 V9 }7 S卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 l- E) A' {- S- W* c8 V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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9 }* T: R, _, t# s這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 C1 ^+ {9 s) m/ R唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.0 k7 \( `* v& [- d2 u3 r# x  q
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.2 Q/ Y* v$ n, F# d

- E4 V1 }3 G- ?; fPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
4 F- ?! j% I' C. wc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
, `; q( _+ D0 b4 X) p( m9 ~8 ELonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
6 O, _4 I- h# ?1 lBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
/ y! ]" \4 }9 E. Q6 y6 N- l我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
% R2 H+ p2 c6 w  B就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
! q3 s& S6 e4 v$ M/ I& Z% O或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
3 S+ X! e$ [" j& X, A空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 q1 G! k1 I5 t( \9 I很少會超過一天～; M! p. ]" u0 _" v# U7 \$ N
要期待更好的明天呀！