熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; w. w$ A( z- [$ ?
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 Y6 T1 `$ p2 {  y) V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: I; V3 Y; V6 ]' m9 O個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 R( C! ]! C3 `) L% o8 X
覺得好空虛
& v0 `: J6 C. d3 a5 {# c' i/ g其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( U/ }( g5 c& c& I卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
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$ J4 V* U6 ]( g# ^  L8 D3 e4 }[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
8 J/ g! s% `% p: T: p0 A5 {9 h但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
3 O4 k% g! p" Y) R9 u. f熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 b3 h' P4 P4 H- n/ L% ]. A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& i+ P  I8 w2 z' ?* b8 {
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙+ l% h0 e* u! E2 s
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 z+ y, l8 ^( d# P如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  \( Q! E4 z+ e" ]% ~0 w
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
  D9 e. ~, b) i& T! ?2 w7 q0 T玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
6 b+ L* u1 a* J7 a- u% L( a% }- p總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:* z+ W0 P# K8 l" h- p6 s0 M
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* l) J! ~: t" A- i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' s0 _# a6 p; Z日日有車站," i" F' t* Q% y( C5 c1 _6 R
有目標!

( Y8 r" n3 g; m# u: [( iwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) r1 s+ A9 t2 |7 e( r3 c
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" ]: a5 \* s! O3 h" f* P' k
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 }  _, P) c; R' W. ]% S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% ]% [. f3 q, b  ]
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# j, K+ g# Z1 s9 Z; U4 F覺得好空虛
' ]4 U& C5 K  [" b9 N其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 n- P5 W+ j3 M! {6 e
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ V% r; d8 `. |2 A. N用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.3 N+ H# \2 [. }8 L- S: \
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ U) ]' Q2 `2 V: N有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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* W" o) h+ B( P+ RPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:4 a2 Q7 {! a) }5 h% x  \( e2 ]) n, @
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
  j5 `0 p. J  C. H' Cb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.) h. m( h* q2 q* p
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.2 P6 j$ t( ~! e" m; o& O: ]4 v

. G8 c3 V2 n4 Y' ^& OJust another thought on lonliness:
! }1 C# k7 d4 W% Y4 ?3 YLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
- }) o& ]5 V. c) yBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～$ d) G. Z& o( Z+ d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; A: K; q9 J, t2 i
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
: j7 P, M$ P/ U' K* O$ S或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
8 D4 _+ D8 g7 ~, p8 Y2 M空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉: j6 i3 c. o- d3 {" i2 y3 c
很少會超過一天～
& @: j! y7 j, w% }% B要期待更好的明天呀！