熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 l' n- v3 j3 W2 A* ?好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ K5 I6 t( F/ X5 J# b% f8 a* f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 O# m/ m* y6 Y2 p' D5 e" }
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' Y5 p' m4 r3 Q5 ?6 C. A' r7 H
覺得好空虛
0 ~; |2 r$ ?2 ^6 E6 ?& A其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 [: M# n' _/ y8 K$ C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 V( g3 p! \1 a4 `. C  ]! v
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 L6 m3 `# t6 h$ X: \3 b2 z! d但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ ^- n1 M% e# G. T( g0 R3 Y熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% G/ ]4 J* m/ r7 r, `所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 p" h' e0 U! u, h2 {7 _* B日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙; e; V  a" h; q
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& V/ m# o$ g4 ?- b+ C如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ m; ^8 I+ j! ^! X感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..; _' T' y( {/ L3 C7 k/ y5 s& z
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
4 a/ A8 M0 n& ]2 @總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
4 E) Y5 o3 Z' {; l; a, X其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) P3 \( K0 {4 _  g所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 C5 _& A8 `* G; t3 O2 i+ c日日有車站,6 x( t4 R; |/ z; Q: m
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 T8 N9 p: B* l) z, Y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 \# h& |4 ~1 F
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 O" {5 {2 t% @2 A! x6 U1 V# x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心8 Q5 u  W* J0 K5 b3 h
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ W1 L/ P  `* x9 t覺得好空虛
% c: d* {" w" d# `. T其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. h, X: c5 f0 ~; m* u卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& ?% F+ D. l) Z% q
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 a" i0 n! A3 o

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
# j4 {% E+ }3 o/ x' L( @唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足., B/ X7 w2 I8 v, u0 y. t
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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* @# G  W, c- t+ S3 tPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
$ F: l& x" z7 Z$ v+ Ea) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long; `2 f5 ~7 L& a+ ~: ?
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
* o2 @2 O6 d! v3 }c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- o# z! \. o/ s& A% F  \! z' m; Y
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Just another thought on lonliness:
1 a" L9 {$ p, Z9 j5 p3 OLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
, K, f+ e8 D7 J6 u+ [But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
4 Z1 p/ I/ `; \8 Q) D* S我會有一種十分空虛的感覺. L3 O* E0 P8 Z
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 n* i, a2 L, W9 y或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
! y& u9 t3 \0 T8 U- a/ I空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 ?# Z: ~. x9 V: S+ r" j1 i很少會超過一天～! b& W+ Z' K; `9 \. X
要期待更好的明天呀！