熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. B, _( D  h$ C" ]好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" H& X! ?+ @. s/ {! f6 P琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' {% ?- a6 ]& d" o! V& S; X' G7 q
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& `) [5 y/ E, }5 o- `0 b1 Q! u覺得好空虛0 M- i! P: [& }2 ?+ a
其實早幾次都有試過係咁% V7 U! F9 m6 U& ^. R
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 {( {6 V" G, P# \4 e用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
1 R1 D; a) u4 D) R但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺7 J' F8 s+ y/ |
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: v1 B) b5 N3 s$ B所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& Y% ?8 O5 L0 z) ~& @+ ^
日日有車站,( R5 z! U( Z( n% ?1 m. F
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
# J% l8 Y) u4 b6 e' g6 O' x4 p你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ N' T( k$ n3 ^1 G& Z: m: y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

- b% G7 f" m* Q2 B2 g! s我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
, R0 w1 a, u" P0 m0 D感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 N" Q  ]( Z1 y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: u, |! y! N# P
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:1 _2 }2 D; w  X" h. S; N
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! N! X+ a1 \3 S" B& c. T" [; G% d1 Y! s所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 P( Q# a& Q3 T1 v
日日有車站,
  O! i. u/ g/ ~" w0 E有目標!

+ ], \1 N$ T( Q! l) |what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
$ h/ C/ E" K- Z. f4 V( `9 O5 g如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
" z1 A3 G' M+ {0 y) B好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 f2 z9 o' \6 b; _: M& ]* U
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) E+ R2 A! C0 E8 i8 B個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 j0 T- m. ?2 O* {) a; c
覺得好空虛- J5 A, X! y& S3 @2 O7 {7 H3 ^
其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 I' x3 P' [, E- q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& j6 |# O5 Z2 e: ?1 ?
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 b1 ]( ~1 C% d

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3 T  p. Q; O: s% ~: k這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
( c" D" D/ @, W唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.: P9 I6 y5 ?1 X6 S; w7 X. |8 R1 P6 N
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.6 @% Y8 d6 o0 U
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
1 s$ u# j5 U3 \5 Q7 y1 |% Ba) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& K/ ?3 l: i- i  U  tb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
% v0 ]9 H3 _3 l3 T' O; Vc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:$ T' u/ [3 j9 _6 f8 Z+ u
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...... K# B) A" v* _6 Z9 s
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～' M5 u  F( _1 g& u" ~" u
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
9 \+ x  J: x9 Q5 s7 ?  Q, q就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
8 |0 y$ B0 e9 T: N8 }或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
6 }3 J0 s5 o: ?3 b% w* A4 Y( w9 h空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉1 P2 u' J9 r* j6 A* ^
很少會超過一天～3 b, [7 b: F0 z
要期待更好的明天呀！