熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
, H8 x3 t+ `: @- R- k, R# ~. ~. w' N好唔鍾意呢種感覺( k4 O  Y0 N! y0 d
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( \2 U1 \) X: {! v6 G
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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! d- y9 Z4 Q- `+ h' ?! C9 ^, C其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! I6 O3 Z' @% N% a/ v8 t2 P6 A! }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 Z1 z+ N6 b6 Y5 ~; x用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,- w3 @4 V; x% a  M1 B' s) W
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺7 d1 ], V) t6 z& c  b; z. s! G- `% h
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 C) m* g2 s% S: Y所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
0 H" t! D1 j( I日日有車站,
6 F6 M; r! N( O( m+ x有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙2 v: B2 t. [' S
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:% T: |& I6 e) k2 R2 w2 x
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

3 Y( S5 q0 ]/ g我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.! \! O. r& P/ q. t  ~0 [- x
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
0 E8 v7 D  S$ @$ H) H4 W) [玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
# p# ?4 {* U* }# I0 k總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 _8 @+ z' Q1 {. n
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ X+ ^$ R  _. ?' u" N4 R7 l( {9 Z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 |0 o; @$ Z7 ?/ M( ]( h
日日有車站,
7 O8 w2 ?8 K3 L3 T有目標!

8 m5 g! y- o! G3 vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" @4 ~$ N1 w9 N' r/ C& v# \如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. k% l0 a  t4 b& h好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 G0 I% {  k- @- k
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
7 {) e/ x+ {1 w& t. Y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 J4 |; d$ x7 t6 q& a  Y. i9 a2 _7 d覺得好空虛
; `4 V- y/ B- y- Y0 b4 ]2 {( Y其實早幾次都有試過係咁* T2 n3 s$ J1 b- \
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- A7 [- L  c# n, U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
, d9 ]3 u5 s0 c- W9 a+ {3 B唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 O# P+ e3 \+ R# c8 K* }( J3 }& ]有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.6 J& T! {3 V0 j2 }1 l, B/ h  {
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:( q6 Y3 D* i3 N; ~- c% e! m
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long7 }' _$ s( i* B9 j: x. z& x) ^
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.) V; J- G# W8 A
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess., s$ h$ a! \0 }* K8 F: v
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Just another thought on lonliness:- k& g3 p6 |6 [) L  C% g% B
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
" X& t4 |& h1 l2 w. F2 e+ wBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
  ~( I5 T7 ]" Q3 m* F我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
- A4 @# N& @5 e  c( @" Q, q就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
. e, N7 h( B0 X+ i( p或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～  x4 t. Q5 I6 I- p! E/ k
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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& {% K8 j! C0 j0 `1 c要期待更好的明天呀！