熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- b# E* B+ A4 I, x2 |+ Z# U
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ @! ^1 g  u# f: R琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 W9 h( Z1 ~- ]/ d
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 y) h4 Q* P" k6 ]覺得好空虛$ V# M& _) j: P2 @8 u
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  B2 Z, W8 A" O% X  v, e卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: j' E/ E& k9 n, D" d6 r
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) N& s) s$ z, w' }: B# o

6 {8 V6 G& l1 {) T0 I[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,' w$ }3 w0 U' f, E
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( Y) `  X7 M) I5 @
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 P0 A$ `3 D- ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- G7 ~" D# ?1 ^4 V4 T3 S/ l
日日有車站,
9 p9 U; j2 }6 j( r7 }8 l& W有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙8 x, M  S! B/ x3 x$ |) \
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. m& y1 ^3 M5 C" k* D0 T/ \
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: b; [  [% R; ?. a! {% i5 b
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
* S' m$ Z- ?% j% E3 x5 x# Q玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.% F; @+ c' K; {8 I) \
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:- ?1 C6 `+ c% O+ G# T$ o
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* b, E% u" B3 E* s
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ p0 ]9 `: h- l# i日日有車站,+ v# L0 M3 O. b! k& Y7 M, F( S
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ @$ D% |# v" ~5 a# w( G) _
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' a% y9 ~% Z3 G5 I1 `- n3 C$ a  c
好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 b% N& t5 m; r1 b# T3 h# C
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, q/ v' |6 M4 K1 v! E
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& O8 W9 O4 i0 N# U3 ^( S覺得好空虛; Z2 Y) [% I; t
其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 l2 X  n& c9 l9 J
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* Y1 u3 {) w: p
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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5 _+ N# U* ~; h  N/ e  _. N這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.* w1 {, x4 L5 w# u& U3 K" M
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
6 N, j- y, R/ p0 i: M6 f有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own./ o! F3 j9 J& Q* ]

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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long+ `+ \* r8 u& p4 z0 g- U: r! k
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- B* d9 Z- P: P" b2 tc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.# j2 J/ x) X8 v0 u

/ K* e% m! g6 K! Q# \# B0 yJust another thought on lonliness:+ J6 o3 F1 j9 F( j
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....* H# L5 X" Y  L! |+ ]; ]2 {! Z: \
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( G4 K9 }  J9 B6 H1 f
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
, h( W0 x$ S/ ~% \# Y就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
, k$ _7 D( H/ [或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～  O* B. i0 r, n. C
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉$ ^' O! g5 m1 |! x: a: z3 S5 V
很少會超過一天～
" k3 @1 k0 T. x' |4 _5 J要期待更好的明天呀！