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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way% {: n% }) a8 ~8 @) J' M7 J
consider in the following (not in order):
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5 V3 [( u: U* U6 @1st, how close the relationship we are?
: L9 \0 [6 [, V5 T+ }2nd, how serious he/she has done?
: q0 j! N+ b3 g+ g3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?4 {+ d) Y4 T* n2 V- A
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?% O' k1 ]* P" _! Y

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i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
, F, c! k8 y( B& |but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)  @: X) }8 q. ?6 k2 k4 }# ]+ e; G
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
/ g0 I2 b" u: c. g: ~: P第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
, f' n2 T9 h8 h5 X* t人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個7 \- s$ d; ~! d" ]! @$ j
只要有數我都會滅