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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
! X, L- K3 `2 C9 n# k( \7 Kconsider in the following (not in order):9 A7 C# u+ |9 i6 U0 L3 u0 A
$ p4 q( C7 A# b4 [/ g0 N: a1st, how close the relationship we are?
, j* @2 o4 g" I0 [; o2nd, how serious he/she has done?5 P8 b( W1 a2 f4 L
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?" W7 c# ^' U" x* r+ S1 q
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?; y6 t& A9 ?& d- m X/ ?
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i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
' h: p& S& r; P8 M1 rbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
7 |; Y- o% ^9 `9 Hbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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2 Y+ Y* M6 z- b& B2 |" hbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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